She wants to talk to me all the time

JerkPork

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Just got out of a relationship like that. Would call me all day every day and if you didnt pickup the phone on the first ring she would think the worst. At first I didnt mind it but that got old QUICK

Her after talking my ear off: "Why aren't you talking??:sadbron:"

Me: "you're the one that called me...:unimpressed:"


She had impeccable timing too, ALWAYS calling at the worst times and want to stay on the phone until you fall asleep.
 

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For me, it's about setting the boundaries of the situationship from the get go. Like, if I'm in the early stages of talking to shorty, and I think there's potential for long term stuff there, imma make sure I'm on my purpose (doing value adding things off of the phone) and not on my phone all the time so she don't got the opportunity to hit my line all the time and expect a reply.

If you try to instill that nonchalant vibe half way into a relationship they gon think something up wit you.

Just my 2 cents :yeshrug:

Or you can tell her straight up that you ain't a phone convo type of guy, without all the extra bs
 

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Bro just tell her you can only talk at night and if you don’t see any long term potential with her it’s on to the next :camby:





But most girls like talking :francis:
 
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Breh (and for everyone else)... you need to set boundaries from day one. Unless it’s my parents, I don’t need to be on the phone to anyone for more than 10 mins. If it’s that important, we’ll talk in person. And don’t WhatsApp or text me either.
 

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If you are giving her an adequate amount of attention then just ignore that shyt.

Just know she might be getting that attention elsewhere.

These are the type of things you gotta look for in women before you cuff, because a lot of women are annoying like this smh.

Also get on your grind. Tell her you can't be on the phone for more than 20 minutes a day because you are working on your purpose.
 

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sounds like a brand new relationship :jbhmm:

EDIT: you’re the idiot for answering the phone:yeshrug:.
 

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DAYUMMM :mjtf:

How do ya'll handle nagging ass girlfriends?? She's literally on the phone with me as I type this, just yapping yapping yapping about her collegues and shyt. I ain't even listening but she can't even tell. :gucci:


Every fukking day, 2 hours of this shyt! :damn:

How brehs??
Women like talkin'. Yours likes talkin' to you. Take advantage. Guide the convo where you want. And end it when you want.

It could be worse; 2 hours yappin' with her girlfriends ABOUT you, head gettin' filled with who knows what.
 
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