She Wants To Talk

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My relationship with my girl is pretty much dead, all the signs of her emotionally disconnected are there, but she claims it's because she's depressed and it has nothing to do with us:childplease: shyt is confusing, cuz her claims are backed up because her friends were put on the backburner too just like me, so I don't know what to believe. I do know that mentally, she's fragile as hell.

We had a fight about it yesterday when I called her out on her behavior and attitude and she responded angry AF like I did her dirty.

I have no idea what she wants to say, all I know is that I'm done:birdman:, she prolly already got another nikka on deck and wants to come clean

But how do I walk out and have her feeling:flabbynsick::to::sadbron::sadcam: instead of :troll::youngsabo: . I don't wanna look like I caught feelings, just wanna make sure she knows I moved on without coming off as a jerk but at the same time not be soft, but how?:mindblown:


This bytch used to worship me, what the fukk happened.:wow:
 

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I know it's over and probably share that bytch, but how do I take on that last conversation?
 

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But how do I walk out and have her feeling:flabbynsick::to::sadbron::sadcam: instead of :troll::youngsabo: . I don't wanna look like I caught feelings, just wanna make sure she knows I moved on without coming off as a jerk but at the same time not be soft, but how?:mindblown:


This bytch used to worship me, what the fukk happened.:wow:

Sounds like you did though.
I wouldn't even worry about how she feels after the fact, just move on fam. No need to be friends, she'll probably want to keep in contact, for her benefit, not yours. Cut her off and keep it moving
 

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:wow: Yall know how these females are when you try to take 'em on verbally. Last thing I want is for her to be like good riddance. I want her to feel like she just did the dumbest shyt ever in her life.

I want to say some last profound shyt that will make her: :ohhh::dwillhuh::sadbron: but I don't wanna mess it up, so any advice brehs? Something that when I walk out, this will play in the background
yeahhhh.jpg
 

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Take the initiative and break up with her but troll her the entire time by making it seem like you're doing it because you love her and want her to be happy.

Be smug & relaxed the entire time and act like you're happy for her. Just go, "Don't worry about me. I'll be fine. I just want to make sure that you'll be okay. If you need me, you've got my number" :troll:

....then un-friend her on Facebook or unfollow her on Twitter. :jawalrus:

This way...you get out of the relationship and she's stuck with rejection and the suspicion that you've been fukking another bytch....yet she'll never know. :yes:
 

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:wow: Yall know how these females are when you try to take 'em on verbally. Last thing I want is for her to be like good riddance. I want her to feel like she just did the dumbest shyt ever in her life.

I want to say some last profound shyt that will make her: :ohhh::dwillhuh::sadbron: but I don't wanna mess it up, so any advice brehs? Something that when I walk out, this will play in the background
yeahhhh.jpg

:snoop: think too much. Let it go
 

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Take the initiative and break up with her but troll her the entire time by making it seem like you're doing it because you love her and want her to be happy.

Be smug & relaxed the entire time and act like you're happy for her. Just go, "Don't worry about me. I'll be fine. I just want to make sure that you'll be okay. If you need me, you've got my number" :troll:

....then un-friend her on Facebook or unfollow her on Twitter. :jawalrus:

This way...you get out of the relationship and she's stuck with rejection and the suspicion that you've been fukking another bytch....yet she'll never know. :yes:

This is exactly what I already did, which is why she now wants to talk. Told her "if you need me, you got my number." and unfriended her on facebook. Not giving her the chance to say what's on her mind would be a punk move making me look like I'm in a fetal position in a dark corner somewhere, so I gotta hear her out before I dip.
 

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My relationship with my girl is pretty much dead, all the signs of her emotionally disconnected are there, but she claims it's because she's depressed and it has nothing to do with us:childplease: shyt is confusing, cuz her claims are backed up because her friends were put on the backburner too just like me, so I don't know what to believe. I do know that mentally, she's fragile as hell.

We had a fight about it yesterday when I called her out on her behavior and attitude and she responded angry AF like I did her dirty.

I have no idea what she wants to say, all I know is that I'm done:birdman:, she prolly already got another nikka on deck and wants to come clean

But how do I walk out and have her feeling:flabbynsick::to::sadbron::sadcam: instead of :troll::youngsabo: . I don't wanna look like I caught feelings, just wanna make sure she knows I moved on without coming off as a jerk but at the same time not be soft, but how?:mindblown:


This bytch used to worship me, what the fukk happened.:wow:

THIS IS WHERE YOU ARE fukkING UP. JUST LEAVE AND ACT LIKE AN ADULT.
 
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