She Wants To Talk

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Be Grown up about the junk, listen to what she has to say voice your opinion listen to hers If it's over take the L call it a day move on, if she says something do what yall gotta do to make it work.... case closed, but be grown up about the junk. Don't play no games
 

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My relationship with my girl is pretty much dead, all the signs of her emotionally disconnected are there, but she claims it's because she's depressed and it has nothing to do with us:childplease: shyt is confusing, cuz her claims are backed up because her friends were put on the backburner too just like me, so I don't know what to believe. I do know that mentally, she's fragile as hell.

We had a fight about it yesterday when I called her out on her behavior and attitude and she responded angry AF like I did her dirty.

I have no idea what she wants to say, all I know is that I'm done:birdman:, she prolly already got another nikka on deck and wants to come clean

But how do I walk out and have her feeling:flabbynsick::to::sadbron::sadcam: instead of :troll::youngsabo: . I don't wanna look like I caught feelings, just wanna make sure she knows I moved on without coming off as a jerk but at the same time not be soft, but how?


This bytch used to worship me, what the fukk happened.

:mindblown: Almost word for word, this sounds like the exact same shyt I recently went through!

All u can do is make plans to move on and keep it moving when the time is right.
 

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you sound like a bad boyfriend. she sounds depressed and you're worried about looking like the victor and why she no longer worships you.

something is wrong with her or something horrible happened to her to cause her to become so distant from you and her friends. if you don't want to be in the relationship that is okay but why try to plot things out the way you are? do you want her to be more depressed?
i think you should just leave without worrying about a dramatic exit.

:childplease:

Why are you projecting your anger at your ex on me?
 

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Nah fukk that, go over to her crib act like u want talk wait till she go the bathroom, then raid that bytch fridge








:troll:
 

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dont talk to her breh, dont do it

if you talk to her you will take L 100% guaranteed

she is not depressed, she is taking some dikk in, 80% probability and 20% that she is eyeing some new dikk

if you want to come on top in this situation just cut her off and move on, don't listen to that grown up bullshyt written in here, like you should talk to her and dont play games :childplease:

nah nikka its cold out there, we play games :upsetfavre:

if you cut her you should go with decision, cause if you talk to her you WILL take L, she will say you some bullshyt and you will start doubting your decision

don' talk to her :upsetfavre:
 

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Life is too short to sit around being mired in negative energy, trying to get back at her, and trying to make her cry or whatever you are trying to do. The reality of the situation is that once a woman has lost feelings for you, it's gone and she could care less what you do or if you're doing well or not. The only real way to win is to be nonchalant if you two choose to part ways and refocus your energy on the positives of life. When she sees you are happy and not missing a beat without her, THAT'S when she'll be like, "Maybe I made a huge mistake! I better go back and get what I had!"

Nearly every time a woman 'wants to talk', it's something negative and the relationship is pretty much over, especially after she started showing the signs she is showing. More than likely, it's like Reincarnation said. She's feeling and dealing with another guy and feels like you are the one holding her back from her newfound joy. She resents you for it, but doesn't want to feel bad by looking like a traitor who jumped ship from her boyfriend to a new guy. Women don't usually do things in a straight-forward manner. They usually do things subliminally and send you signs. With her 'depression' it seems as if she's hoping to push you away and make you break up with her, but it's getting so burdensome to her that now she needs to have a talk and set it to ends. It probably won't be, "I'm ready to see another guy... time to part ways." It'll probably be some nonsense on we just need time apart and I need to find myself, this is just too much for me right now, or something along those lines. She'll say something so the bridge won't be totally destroyed and if this new guy doesn't work out, she can possibly come back in a month or two like "What's up, I missed you! Can we hang out?"
 

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The best thing u could do is just move on w ur life n cut her off completely, no grey area. Don't catch hard feelings over it, b nonchalant about it, like it doesn't affect u in the slightest. KIM and don't look back, find a new chick and forget about her. Trust me, she will come crawling back, they always do- especially when you're :win: At that point u can either A) take her back:stopitslime: or B) hit her w the :childplease: bc hopefully u will have moved on to bigger n better things. The important thing is that the ball will b in your court. It's not the end of the world bruh. Whatever u do don't get emotional like a bytch over her !!
 

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You're too worried about her being sad or regretful after breaking up. You are hoping that she will want you again down the line.

Forget all that. You said you're done, so be an adult and just let it go. I know its hard, but stop worrying about her feelings, breh.

Besides, she will probably come back in a few weeks/months after you break up anyway. They usually do.
 

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Life is too short to sit around being mired in negative energy, trying to get back at her, and trying to make her cry or whatever you are trying to do. The reality of the situation is that once a woman has lost feelings for you, it's gone and she could care less what you do or if you're doing well or not. The only real way to win is to be nonchalant if you two choose to part ways and refocus your energy on the positives of life. When she sees you are happy and not missing a beat without her, THAT'S when she'll be like, "Maybe I made a huge mistake! I better go back and get what I had!"

Nearly every time a woman 'wants to talk', it's something negative and the relationship is pretty much over, especially after she started showing the signs she is showing. More than likely, it's like Reincarnation said. She's feeling and dealing with another guy and feels like you are the one holding her back from her newfound joy. She resents you for it, but doesn't want to feel bad by looking like a traitor who jumped ship from her boyfriend to a new guy. Women don't usually do things in a straight-forward manner. They usually do things subliminally and send you signs. With her 'depression' it seems as if she's hoping to push you away and make you break up with her, but it's getting so burdensome to her that now she needs to have a talk and set it to ends. It probably won't be, "I'm ready to see another guy... time to part ways." It'll probably be some nonsense on we just need time apart and I need to find myself, this is just too much for me right now, or something along those lines. She'll say something so the bridge won't be totally destroyed and if this new guy doesn't work out, she can possibly come back in a month or two like "What's up, I missed you! Can we hang out?"

:wow: :salute: I came n here n responded b4 I read ur post but u hit the nail on the fukkin head. Beautifully said.
 
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is that chicken still seasoned and fried right??
tale tale sign my nikka.
under cooked chicken shows that youre not
worth the trouble.....get rid of her.

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