Shooting your shot in the gym

[Ty Daniels]

Some chicks "Flirt", but are interested only in the "Attention", not really the guy.

Basically, "Attention Vampires" (it's also a control thing).

A Broad who is really interested in you won't play, Yo-Yo games (typically).

 

[WetinBeDat]

Sad but I believe this is wat it was , my ig ain't on shyt and she is a gym girl with ass so u know she automatically a "fitness influencer "

Always get the number. Exchanging social media is just opening yourself up to unnecessary critique

 

[africngiant]

Been seeing a chick in the gym every time I'm in there we chat and she seemed flirty . Got her ig and we've messaged a few times . Asked her out, no response. I see her at the gym today she doesn't acknowledge me but comes to work out near me multiple times. Ignored her the whole session and left .

“dating” in 2023

 

[Family Lives Matter]

If you have to air it out on a forum don't approach her again you will fukk it up your not capable.

She probably like the visual then you spoke and she wasnt feeling you.

No Biggie, you never talked to a woman and thought she sounds like a bird I'm kl

 

[richbosszar]

women in 2023 are schizophrenic

 

[shutterguy]

Getting the IG is cool, atleast you can see what kind of person you dealing with, especially since so many people use IG for their personal thought diary. However I would have just asked her out in person once yall got to chatting on the regular.

 

[ALonelyDad]

If she didn't respond to your message, then treat it as that. Don't engage with her anymore.

 

[Remote]

This nikka bout to be in a tik tok video being accused of harassment.

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Just cold approach her w/ your meat already out

 

[Remote]

It's a lose lose situation only thing is to pretend i never met her

 

[MicIsGod]

Attention seeked and given

 

[NoirDynosaur]

You trying to end up on Tik Tok?

Better off approaching in a sociable atmosphere like a bar

 

[M.O.N.E.Y.]

If you've been vibing with her in the gym, why not invite her there and there to grab a coffee after your workouts?

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I’ve had it play out like this several times with gym chicks except I only exchange numbers

Out of probably a little over a dozen chicks I’ve shot my shot at in the gym I only got a chance to smash five (of which I only smashed one) and the sixth turned into a long term relationship. Otherwise they ALL end like the op

Now I don’t say shyt and ignore gym chicks. Go in, workout, get out. Last thing I want is some weirdo energy because I misread her interest level. She gotta damn near hand me the keys to us going out.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

It’s a loss. Don’t give her anymore attention. Stop following her. If you want to view her stories, use a burner. Don’t talk to anymore girls at the gym. And what is with asking women for their social media? Either ask for her number, or nothing.

A better approach is to smile, have casual conversation, then after a few weeks ask for her number, or suggest drinks, coffee. That gives her a sense of your energy, and she may be more receptive. But not this girl. Don’t give her attention, and don’t continue to give her another follower, which is what she wanted.