Shorty Just broke up with me (update)

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

@Robbi

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"30 minutes" she horny breh and is trying to set up some makeup sex.

breh its clear this girl wants to continue this thing under the guise of a real relationship and doesnt want to feel cheap by being called a fukk buddy.

if you like her and want to date then go ahead and date

if you aint with all that shyt then tell her the real n tell not to come over. let her know she dont mean nothing more than a fukk buddy so she can KNOW EXACTLY where she stands and then decide what she wants.

tell her fukk buddy or bushes status, if thats what u really want. stop all this back n forth bullshyt

 

[Big Daddy]

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move on OP, the bytch gone breh

“Move on”? fukk n!gga wat part said that he tryna hang onto her in the first place? Another no p*ssy gettin hating ass n!gga in the thread

 

[Lord_nikon]

I knew she wasn't AA or black by these words lol

She came to my crib at 7 AM, brought me coffee
And a bagel and asked me to sit down. So
I did./QUOTE]

 

[Diyhai]

I knew she wasn't AA by these words

The bagel?

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

 

[Big Daddy]

he gonna lie and lead her on
making it a bad situation for himself lol
when his tires slashed and windows bust "ahhhaa this bytch crazy"

This pillow soft crybabby fakkit in here defending these hos

 

[FukyourFort]

Ya'll blaming the OP seriously need help. Are yall really this dumb or this some sort of joke I'm not in on? I really hope ya'll don't have such a lack of reading comprehension and common sense. Please.....

trying to read these threads and we got these highschool ass nikkas always trying to clown someone. shut the fuk up

 

[King of Creampies]

And I didn’t even know we were dating

She came to my crib at 7 AM, brought me coffee
And a bagel and asked me to sit down. So
I did.

And she’s talking about how we want different things in life and how me not wanting anymore kids is a problem for her and how she’s 27 and can’t waste anymore time with someone who’s goals and ambitions don’t match her own. She starts tearing and kisses me on the cheek and dips.

And my boy is laying on the couch “sleep”, gets up after she leaves and asks me why I didn’t tell him I had a shorty and I’m like because I never did

This shyt is so awkward and I’m fake angry because this bytch broke up with me, but not really because I thought we were just fukking. I can’t tell how to feel. A part of me wants to laugh at the miscommunication and a part of me is like man maybe I missed out on something

I thought we were just hangin and fukkin, I been hittin other girls too. What the fukk

A female did this to me once and turns out she had 2 kids and already plus the husband had a feeling she was cheating so she started cutting off loose ends....after that she kept texting me shyt like

"I hope you are ok"
"I felt bad for breaking your heart"
"I want you to move on but don't hurt women out there because of me"

mind you all we did was fukk and just have a chat then she would dip.

I had no idea we were in a "relationship"

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Because she’s not black honestly.

Lmao! Ohhhhh u one text away from a false rape charge.
Non-blk chick ego matches non-blk male ego. U can't separate the two. That ego is a monstrosity b/c it has been fed a steady diet of "l'm better than you b/c of the color of my skin" juice from racist society.

So really you not supposed to treat a non-blk chick like this according to the lunacy of that paradigm. c00ns have told her that she is a prize to somebody like you. And by somebody like you I mean a black man.

Now you fukking up her mind b/c u treating her the way the dudes in her own race treats her which is unacceptable b/c ur supposed to chase in her deluded mind.

I know p*ssy is important to dudes and having multiple options for vagina on tap is the wave but um...u might not wanna follow this shyt up.

And dear god, why u attending a non-blk chick's family funeral. Da hell?! U outchea lookin like a damn chauffeur, only blk person around. Self-preservation over everything. I don't wanna see you get caught up.

I know blk men and women do each other grimey too but we can't afford to be this naive. Racial context matters whether we wanna admit it or not. We gotta move differently with them.

Lie and say some shyt like I'm not feeling it right now and let her off easy b/c this could get uglier.

 

[Diyhai]

This pillow soft crybabby fakkit in here defending these hos

You the biggest hoe ass nygga In this thread

 

[Govana]

@Robbi

Spoiler

"Omw 30-45 minutes tops"

When she buck up inna

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Give her that work OP. Like its your last time in it. Then part ways

Just be honest with her and see what happens.

Or you could lead her on and continue what you have under the gray area of a relationship

Live ya life OP. And do whatever you think will lead to greater joy in the future


EDIT:

Relevant song to set the mood

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[Diyhai]

A female did this to me once and turns out she had 2 kids and already plus the husband had a feeling she was cheating so she started cutting off loose ends....after that she kept texting me shyt like

"I hope you are ok"
"I felt bad for breaking your heart"
"I want you to move on but don't hurt women out there because of me"

mind you all we did was fukk and just have a chat then she would dip.

I had no idea we were in a "relationship"

But if she fukked another dude u would have been emotional

 

[Kokoro]

Spoiler

I havent gone through the whole thread yet so someone may have already told you but shes shyt testing you

The whole pseudo breakup was a sort of test to see where your feelings were and now this is a shyt test to see how you hold up when she presses your character over text and where you wanna go from here. Kind of a way of guilting you into a relationship or situationship with her, OR an indirect way of asking you where your feelings are. Women arent typically upfront so this is how they go about things sometimes

You were fine when you said how about you grow up. I would have stopped texting her then

You were this close to passing her test but then you just had to keep texting her

If you woulda stopped texting after telling her to grow up one or two things probably would have happened

1. She would have realized hey I do need to grow up and stop playing games and she would have hit you up asking for a relationship, or at least telling you how she feels and what she wants. Potentially giving you control and being able to tell her what you want from her

2. Or she woulda just moved on.

But when you kept texting and talking to her you gave her a reason to not like you. You obviously care about her a little bit since youre still willing to engage and she hit you up first so its clear she cares as well. You guys had a chance to work it out.

Oh well

 

[Elle Driver]

Spoiler

 

[Big Daddy]

You the biggest hoe ass nygga In this thread

N!gga been sounding like a fat angry feminist since page one boy pull yo skirt down