Should a man dating a woman pay for her airfare and accommodation?

[MikelArteta]

If going away on a trip together?

Was speaking to a old co-worker and she was , because she was going away to Chicago with her bf but he didn't want to pay for her part of the trip.

Mind you her bf is divorced and had to move back home with his parents after his marriage because the wife got the crib, and he's paying spousal and child support.

Yet because her venomous friend who was taking away on all expenses paid trip to Paris by her bf she's expecting the same

Mind you this chick works 9-5

 

[SUAJCS*93*]

No

Men want to date a grown woman who can keep up. Not a lil girl who just happens to be 5'9".

But it also depends tho, not gonna front.

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

I guess technically no one should have to do anything but...

 

[11101]

If I'm seriously dating a women, then yes I would pay for her.

 

[Poitier]

You dont do husband things for girlfriends let her pay her own half

 

[SUAJCS*93*]

I guess technically no one should have to do anything but...

This the type of answer that leads to domestic violence

 

[yakamein]

Dude doesn't need to be dating if his finances aren't intact. Stay low and built, then bust out the gates.

 

[Arithmetic]

If going away on a trip together?

Was speaking to a old co-worker and she was , because she was going away to Chicago with her bf but he didn't want to pay for her part of the trip.

Mind you her bf is divorced and had to move back home with his parents after his marriage because the wife got the crib, and he's paying spousal and child support.

Yet because her venomous friend who was taking away on all expenses paid trip to Paris by her bf she's expecting the same

Mind you this chick works 9-5

 

[Citi Trends]

dating? fukk no. why would you do that? does she have some kind of condition?

married? sure, but even then you're supposed to be putting your money together anyway

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

Mind you her bf is divorced and had to move back home with his parents after his marriage because the wife got the crib, and he's paying spousal and child support

Also, doesnt sound like he needs to take trips right now unless necessary. This is rebuilding time for him.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Depends on the type of trip.

If she wants to visit some friends/family in Chicago, she gotta pay her own.

If we agree to take a vacation, I don't mind stepping up and paying, but the type of girls I have dealt with usually offered to pay for something.

Don't date bloodsucking leaches, or if you do let it be a trick situation with a 10/10 chick.

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

This the type of answer that leads to domestic violence

Just saying both genders do things that technically they dont have to.

 

[11101]

Y'all saying no but idk man. I like fronting the bill for my people when I can.

 

[yardman]

Depends on how long we're together and it also depends on our understanding of how things get paid for.​

 

[SUAJCS*93*]

Y'all saying no but idk man. I like fronting the bill for my people when I can.

Thing is though she isn't "your people" until there is a legal marriage contract saying so and until then and even after then she can very easily not be.