Should a man dating a woman pay for her airfare and accommodation?

[Blackrogue]

If it's a serious gf we'll do an equitable split. If I'm more financially secure than her I'm paying most of it. It's just one of those responsibilities as a man that has to be taken up from time to time

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Sounds like she is suffering from "Instagram/Disney" fantasy..
When in reality she is dating somebody that's in a rebuilding stage trying to figure it all out..
I don't mind paying for my lady but we take turns in paying for things..
She doesn't sound like she does this and dude needs to sit his ass at home and get his life together before even thinking about taking a trip..

 

[11101]

Thing is though she isn't "your people" until there is a legal marriage contract saying so and until then and even after then she can very easily not be.

If we're constantly seeing each other and are at the point Where we're taking trips together, then in my book, she is my people. Im not bout to travel with someone I don't fukk with that heavy. You make your own rules pleighboy

 

[Address_Unknown]

If she ain't my wife, we gotta be on some dorky intimacy in the relationship for me to even think on paying for a broad's expenses along with mine on a mutual trip. While I never take Holidays I can't afford, the last thing I need is to take a chick I thought I was gonna get serious with, the chemistry fizzled out and now i just waiting for the clock to run out on this failed venture like,. Plus I don't think I'd be with a woman who would pressure me into copping something I obviously couldn't afford right now, given that dude's situation. If she wants to harbour that BFF Engagement Ring jealousy and project that shyt on me, she gonna find herself arguing WITH herself 'cause I ain't sticking around to hear that shyt.

 

[Critical Distance]

Things you do for your wife, not someone you're just dating.

 

[Blackrogue]

In the OP case though the girl should be aware of his finances and they should deal accordingly and have the proper expectations. It's financially unwise for him to shell out a lot of money.

Also side note. Divorce laws are ridiculous. How do you work for yours and wife gets a free house to live in and your hard earned money every month. No one deserves a free ride like that. Got dude financially strapped for the rest of his life just because he loved a woman once and married her. I'd honestly rather move to a different country where they can't enforce payments and stay there forever than be done like that

 

[Marezzy]

No

Men want to date grown woman who can keep up. Not a lil girl who just happens to be 5'9".

But it also depends tho, not gonna front.

WELL SAID!!

 

[Hard Times Nakamura]

In Canada? Tell breh just get him one of these and he won't be having these kinds of problems

 

[the bossman]

Going on a trip next month with a chick I've been fukkin with for past couple months. She demanded that she be able to pay her fair share. So we each bought our own flights. I'll cover majority of the nights at hotel. She'll cover some of the nights. She'll also take care of all meals

 

[Poitier]

These nikkas paying $500 roundtrips for their girlfriend of *1 year* gone have them epic meltdowns when they find out she getting her back blown out by another nikka

 

[DjBhaled]

Why The fukk would you be taking a trip after a divorce? nikkas broke taking broke nikka trips and having broke nikka relationships which include Broke nikka sex

 

[Alfred0Santana]

Nah. We can get separate tickets and split the hotel or something like that. fukk around spend all that money and don't even have a good time with somebody you just "dating"...not even wifey

 

[Hard Times Nakamura]

If I'm seriously dating a women, then yes I would pay for her.

Breh is this 1967?

 

[11101]

Breh is this 1967?

No it's 1988.

 

[Swirv]

Depends on the type of trip.

If she wants to visit some friends/family in Chicago, she gotta pay her own.

If we agree to take a vacation, I don't mind stepping up and paying, but the type of girls I have dealt with usually offered to pay for something.

Don't date bloodsucking leaches, or if you do let it be a trick situation with a 10/10 chick.

She better be willing to do anything he asks if he foots the entire bill. No questions asked.