Should a man dating a woman pay for her airfare and accommodation?

[Neuromancer]

If going away on a trip together?

Was speaking to a old co-worker and she was , because she was going away to Chicago with her bf but he didn't want to pay for her part of the trip.

Mind you her bf is divorced and had to move back home with his parents after his marriage because the wife got the crib, and he's paying spousal and child support.

Yet because her venomous friend who was taking away on all expenses paid trip to Paris by her bf she's expecting the same

Mind you this chick works 9-5

Damn. fukk. I mean. Did she know all this going in?

 

[Neuromancer]

I guess technically no one should have to do anything but...

But what?

 

[wickedsm]

Damn. fukk. I mean. Did she know all this going in?

good question

or has he been playing big willy frontin like hes okay financially?

 

[Neuromancer]

good question

or has he been playing big willy frontin like hes okay financially?

Good question. Also if she doesn't know. How does OP, know?

 

[Hard Times Nakamura]

Dude doesn't need to be dating if his finances aren't intact. Stay low and built, then bust out the gates.

No man is just gonna sit on the sidelines just because he's down in 2017. If that was the case then it goes both ways and struggle single baby mommas gotta take themselves off the market.

The economy is not geared towards traditional gender finance roles and Black American people (who are the brokest) always insist on maintaining these roles and it don't even lead to marriage.

The games just need to end. bytches know he broke and still want to jam and act illogical later like he got money hiding under the mattress or can tap an Uncle for some cash.

bytches talmbout I wanna go to Tahiti but don't want to put in work to help build a Man up. This doesn't go down in any other culture outside of America. Period.

 

[11101]

These nikkas paying $500 roundtrips for their girlfriend of *1 year* gone have them epic meltdowns when they find out she getting her back blown out by another nikka

This is a cowards mentality. "Bbbbut what if she's cheating on me". Can't afford to live your whole life scared. Why even be with a chick who you felt would cheat. If you do find out she's cheating, charge it to the game and move on. You tough right?

 

[Poitier]

This is a cowards mentality. "Bbbbut what if she's cheating on me". Can't afford to live your whole life scared. Why even be with a chick who you felt would cheat. If you do find out she's cheating, charge it to the game and move on. You tough right?

If you want to learn the hard way then learn the hard way

 

[jackson35]

do any of understand the labels that u give to women? if you consider this woman a hoe then tell her so and tell her to pay her way. if u consider her a gf then you come out your pocket, as your gf you are trying to go for being offically her man, not her best friend.

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

If she is a real woman she can hussle up her air fair trip you nikkas is enabling punk hoes

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

If you want to learn the hard way then learn the hard way

He's right ....

 

[philmonroe]

do any of understand the labels that u give to women? if you consider this woman a hoe then tell her so and tell her to pay her way. if u consider her a gf then you come out your pocket, as your gf you are trying to go for being offically her man, not her best friend.

Nah sucker take that shaming garbage elsewhere.

 

[Poitier]

do any of understand the labels that u give to women? if you consider this woman a hoe then tell her so and tell her to pay her way. if u consider her a gf then you come out your pocket, as your gf you are trying to go for being offically her man, not her best friend.

Trick mentality
You cant buy love or loyalty bro bro

 

[jackson35]

Nah sucker take that shaming garbage elsewhere.

if your not a grown ass man, take your mess back to the sand box. i only have intelligent conversation, not emotional ones

 

[Hard Times Nakamura]

good question

or has he been playing big willy frontin like hes okay financially?

Not referring to you specifically. But:

American Women focus on all the wrong things that can be faked.

A car can be leased.
A high end spot can be an AirBnB or a friend's place.
Just because he's at a well known company don't mean he an executive.

Check his LinkedIN profile.
Check his business acumen.
Ask about his future goals.

I bet you approximately zero Women will do any of those things and that is just the beginning. Women are reliant too much on emotions, "mystery" and giggles then wonder why when the curtain draws up revealing the reality why they feel they got "tricked".

9 out of 10 times yall tricked yourselves setting yourselves up to get jipped because of basic ass simplistic criteria that can be faked.

And you should be looking for a Man with long term potential not a nikka who can pay your bills today. That's what be tripping half of yall up then turn around wondering why Superstar Negroid got with another chick that ain't you or your homegirls.

When my Woman and I first connected one of the first convos we had is my profession. Non-American Women typically know more about Men's trades, the business world and STEM in detail than American women.

When you tell an American Woman you are an engineer her panties dry up. When you tell a African/Asian Woman you are an engineer her eyes light up. She is actually interested in the details and usually has some kind of expertise of her own.

This is why deep relationships can be fostered with Women outside of Western countries and the divorce rate is 50% and baby momma rate is damn near 75%

It all begins with culture, adaptive and appropriate gender roles and common sense none of which many Westernized females have in 2017

I don't see damn near as many Women outside the USA getting "tricked" by Men on the regular basis they seem to have the common sense to be able to evaluate whether a Man is on their level and going somewhere in life.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yeah she knows hes divorced and moved back in with his parents

Damn. fukk. I mean. Did she know all this going in?