Build institutions first. Even the Mormons got that down.
Polygamy is about solidifying territory, land, appeasement, etc. Not about just 11-Somes
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Families are institutions. You marrying someone is supposed to be collateral for asset transferring. Thats why women are smart for always wanting to be around family, always telling their family everything about you. Cultures outside the US always do that. This is also why virginity mattered.
If only we took family building more seriously. You guys should stop listening to people who tell you that you as a man dont deserve anything in return for marriage but p*ssy. If we was marrying strategically, less troublemakers and neighborhood terrorists