Should Breh Have Worn A Different Shirt To His Wifes Work Event?

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It’s really not that deep. Code switching is normal and people do it daily. People don’t speak to their mothers the same way they speak to their homies. It’s called adapting and shouldn’t be frowned upon. At the end of the day get it how you live if you gotta code switch do it if you don’t more power to you.


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she got a office husband
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He sounds like an unruly bytch, but it is her fault for taking up with him.
 

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I'm all for compromise, but the more I think of it, the more i might have to side with breh. Who cares what the CACS at work think. The same judgements they are going to have about him, the probably secretly have some about you. :mjpls::mjpls:
If you have asked your friends if where they are working is hiring and the response is

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He's arguing about wearing a long sleeve shirt and hiding his tattoos and sacrificing his comfort while wearing a long sleeve shirt and hiding his tattoos ....
 

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No, you are doing it for your wife. The white people are not going to "benefit" one way or the other. She asked you to do it for her. You may not agree with her reasoning, but after that event you don't see them anymore, she does. Don't do the most men thing. We all have a difference of opinion on what we feel is appropriate for various kinds of events. Let's just say its an event that you two don't agree with her first choice of an outfit. And it could be the other way around! She might put on something frumpy and you're like come on I don't want people to think I'm married to some corny lame chick, put on something a little hotter. It's about choosing your battles. He's acting like she asked him to put on something he doesn't normally aware. OBVIOUSLY he is not against wearing long sleeves.
-Nah, in the scenario presented the wife literally asked him to do it for the white people. You also don't know if he'll see them again or if this will be the only time this request gets made. If the husband tells the wife he don't want her wearing something frumpy to please other people it's the same situation. Doesn't really matter to me. I'm just not gonna pretend he's not being asked to do it for the white people because that's literally the reason.

-If you think titties out is ever appropriate for your woman it's whatever. Still not the same thing.
 
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