Should I Feel Guilty For This?

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I'm chilling, taking a nap when all of the sudden I'm reminded that my cousins Christmas Eve party is at 5. I didn't feel well, actually I felt fine but I didn't want to go so I said "I'm not going" and skipped out on getting together with my family.

My mom was trying to give me the guilt trip, but if I don't want to go then I really don't want to go and that's all that needs to be said.

Am I looking at this all wrong and should I feel obligated to go since it's a family thing?

 

[The 2020 New Member]

you should feel guilty. my family is either dead or on the other side of the country and i would love to see them right now, even if they were being annoying.

but get over it, nikka.

 

[Larry Lobster]

fukk a christmas, if you dont wanna go whatever, your mom overreacting

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

you should feel guilty. my family is either dead or on the other side of the country and i would love to see them right now, even if they were being annoying.

but get over it, nikka.

Tbh I don't mind seeing my family, but in all honesty this is Christmas BREAK and if it's my BREAK then why am I obligated to do shyt with people that many I only see because of tradition?

On top of that man, I'm tired of being a push over. If I don't want to do some shyt, then I don't want to do it and any so-called adult should be able to understand that.

 

[The 2020 New Member]

Tbh I don't mind seeing my family, but in all honesty this is Christmas BREAK and if it's my BREAK then why am I obligated to do shyt with people that many I only see because of tradition?

On top of that man, I'm tired of being a push over. If I don't want to do some shyt, then I don't want to do it and any so-called adult should be able to understand that.

right on. i'm saying don't feel guilty for too long but just remember that nikkas won't always be around.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

right on. i'm saying don't feel guilty for too long but just remember that nikkas won't always be around.

I don't feel guilty, and as soon as I find a job I'm going to start planning to move to Germany. I'm obviously not the type that needs people around too often.

But thanks anyway.

 

[AgentGrey]

Bruh you trippin, you should've went man. Especially if you know you plan on leaving the country.

Even if you dont wanna see them, they probably wanna see you. I basically paid $300 + all the other shyt (going out to dinner, got her some groceries, etc) to get bytched at by my mom. But I did it cuz I know it means a lot for her to see me, even if she'll take my money n tell me I aint shyt in the same breath

Do it for the love luva luv.

 

[Batman]

Even Batman has time for family.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Bruh you trippin, you should've went man. Especially if you know you plan on leaving the country.

Even if you dont wanna see them, they probably wanna see you. I basically paid $300 + all the other shyt (going out to dinner, got her some groceries, etc) to get bytched at by my mom. But I did it cuz I know it means a lot for her to see me, even if she'll take my money n tell me I aint shyt in the same breath

Do it for the love luva luv.

My nikka, if they wanted to see me then it's no problem, but after thanksgiving everyone being on some hater shyt towards each other I don't feel like being around. And we all live damn close to each other so nikka can miss me with that want to see me shyt.

 

[AgentGrey]

My nikka, if they wanted to see me then it's no problem, but after thanksgiving everyone being on some hater shyt towards each other I don't feel like being around. And we all live damn close to each other so nikka can miss me with that want to see me shyt.

Ahh, I know how that goes. In that case its best to keep your distance and wish em well from afar.
But watch how close yall get after you leave.

 

[Ikwa]

Nikkas be quick to splash money on a random heaux but won't make time for their family I done seen it all now.

 

[Taadow]

Even Batman has time for family.

Batman's family is dead.

 

[Batman]

Batman's family is dead.

Exactly.

 

[Desirous]

Personally, Christmas is just another day. So long as you're there for your family when it matters and treat them well every day out of the year, that's what is important. Sometimes people just can't force themselves to be social.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

I'm chilling, taking a nap when all of the sudden I'm reminded that my cousins Christmas Eve party is at 5. I didn't feel well, actually I felt fine but I didn't want to go so I said "I'm not going" and skipped out on getting together with my family.

My mom was trying to give me the guilt trip, but if I don't want to go then I really don't want to go and that's all that needs to be said.

Am I looking at this all wrong and should I feel obligated to go since it's a family thing?

its the holidays, one get together wont hurt much