Should I move in with my gf?

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Breh...trust me...it never goes like that :mjlol:

Literally never.

My lady and I have known each other for 15 years, and have been together for most of them. Love her to death, and can't imagine being with anyone else.


......and there are STILL days that I miss those years where i lived by myself.

The fact that you have to ask if you should move in together should tell you that it's not a good idea right now. Don't fukk around and sell yourself a dream, breh.

On another note, what's her definition of "take advantage"? I'd certainly hope she isn't somehow worried about you pulling some fukk shyt. :picard:
 

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I've been living with my gf for a year and its been good. I miss the complete alone time sometimes but I actually love my gf so its worth the sacrifice. I am also almost 30 so I have had some years with my own spot too. My gf also pays all the bills so that helps too but that doesn't matter much as I make enough to have my own spot and pay the bills fairly comfortably.
 

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My girl got a job offer in my city. My current apartment is too small for her to move in with her things. So she looking for a room because she hesitant to move in together because she assumes guys take advantage or get relaxed.

I'm tempted to get a bigger apartment to move in together. Bills will be split 50/50. Should I give up my bachelor pad?

you are insane
 

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Breh..

One thing in relationships is absence makes the heart grow fonder..

You start seeing her everyday, you'll possibly end up hating her..

Let her get her own spot, like she is planning on doing, then go from there..
 

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If you're near getting married or having a baby, sure.

That honeymoon phase will wear off and will be tough on your relationship. It won't be worth the inevitable headache just to save money.
 

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My girl got a job offer in my city. My current apartment is too small for her to move in with her things. So she looking for a room because she hesitant to move in together because she assumes guys take advantage or get relaxed.

I'm tempted to get a bigger apartment to move in together. Bills will be split 50/50. Should I give up my bachelor pad?

no.

how will you be able to fukk other hoes
 
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My girl got a job offer in my city. My current apartment is too small for her to move in with her things. So she looking for a room because she hesitant to move in together because she assumes guys take advantage or get relaxed.

I'm tempted to get a bigger apartment to move in together. Bills will be split 50/50. Should I give up my bachelor pad?


Never move in with a woman.
If youre gonna get a spot make sure
shyt's in your name because most women
dont get the concept of (Us/We/Ours)
the second she get pissed she will remind you
that it's (Her shyt)
I'd never do it.
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