Should I target fat girls when I'm thirsty?

[Dragonfly Jones]

I understand that most men have certain standards and appearances that they must keep up with


but 9 outta 10 men will fuk any type of girl as long as she's shapely


If our cavemen ancestors were picky with their choice of hoes they raped then we might not even be here

 

[Kenny West]

I won't. I will not type such personal stuff, but I will be detailed in my opinions and how I came to them.

I am not here so much to change anyone's opinions or "enlighten the masses", but I think a woman's voice is necessary in these "barber shop like" atmospheres.

Just like males voices are needed places like LSA.

why?

 

[mrken12]

I've read this before. I don't understand why so many chicks come to this site thinking they finna enlighten us uncouth masses with your opinions but do ya thing shawty. Your posts are actually aight.

Try not to get driven off here before march I don't think it'll last

Most of the female opinions are on some "I hate black men" shyt or some delusional borderline trolling bullshyt. And someone with such a try hard screen name like "A Woman's Opinion" is on the same level of someone with a screen name like BlackestnikkaOnEarth.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

why?

Honestly, because some men are so off on what womens thoughts, feelings and motives are when they are dealing with them.
I have been seeing it too much on this site. I have been lurking for a year, and finally decided to join because I couldn't take anymore.

A lot of men read women wrong and have inaccurate perceptions of women, because they jump to conclusions about us based on things like how we look/dress. But I get it though. Men are very visual creatures. However, perception is not always reality.

(my favorite foolish judgement most men have made since the beginning of time is the idea that "wh*res" have a dress code .
A lot of men think because a woman doesn't show skin, and doesn't dress seductively she is more trust worthy and "classy".

The biggest thots quote bible scriptures and dress like librarians. Real talk...But that's another thread )

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

Some womenz idea of "work"' is money and expensive dates. I tried this at first, but It wasn't me. My idea of work is companionship,honesty and quality TIME. (You would be surprised how many men are incapable of doing this correctly even if they like you)

Why the fukk were you trying it in the first place?

But treated me different when I lost weight.Things as simple as men running to hold doors open for me, and greeting me more. Giving me extra stuff at a store or food spot. Never having to buy my own drink at the bar.

Again, why are you accepting free stuff (using men because of your looks)?

As far as short men... I am not attracted to them. I lovez me some tall menz w/ broad shoulders. Always have. Therefore, I do not entertain short guys I am not attracted to. I could use short men for money, dates with free food, and an ego boost when I need one. (like a lot of women do) However, I am not grimey enough to do that.That is a character issue.

So you used regular guys mentioned earlier for items and validation? Do you feel entitled because of your looks? You use(d) men and you are upset because men use women?

Waiting

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Most of the female opinions are on some "I hate black men" shyt or some delusional borderline trolling bullshyt. And someone with such a try hard screen name like "A Woman's Opinion" is on the same level of someone with a screen name like BlackestnikkaOnEarth.

NOT ME!

I haven't done that yet, and I have been VERY open and sincere.

Give me the benefit of the doubt.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

And are fat girls really easier -- or do people just assume they're easy because they're fat?

any chick with low self esteem is usually easy

they are also usually clingy and fukking crazy tho

 

[mrken12]

Why the fukk were you trying it in the first place?



Again, why are you accepting free stuff (using men because of your looks)?



So you used regular guys mentioned earlier for items and validation? Do you feel entitled because of your looks? You use(d) men and you are upset because men use women?

Waiting

Well that didn't take long. But but she's different though.

 

[YaBoy]

For health reasons, and because I really love the gym now... NO!

But for the purpose of not attracting all that superficial foolishness, and what I look like NOT being the focus... YES!

I think Oprah secretly sabotages her weight loss journeys for this purpose too... She wants the focus to be on who she is, and what she says and does....not her looks, or what she's wearing. Putting all the focus on your looks, body and clothes is for STUPID women who don't have anything else to offer. (Draya)

Yes, I type a lot. I think some men on this site need full insight from an honest woman. I know there are other girls on this site, but I intend on being completely open.honest and fair.

Oh so you're here to save us from ourselves?

& don't take this the wrong way, but try to make your post more concise cuz aint nobody tryna read all that shyt. A lot of us will see all those words & just skim what you wrote at the most.

 

[Kenny West]

Honestly, because some men are so off on what womens thoughts, feelings and motives are when they are dealing with them.
I have been seeing it too much on this site. I have been lurking for a year, and finally decided to join because I couldn't take anymore.

A lot of men read women wrong and have inaccurate perceptions of women, because they jump to conclusions about us based on things like how we look/dress. But I get it though. Men are very visual creatures. However, perception is not always reality.

(my favorite foolish judgement most men have made since the beginning of time is the idea that "wh*res" have a dress code .
A lot of men think because a woman doesn't show skin, and doesn't dress seductively she is more trust worthy and "classy".

The biggest thots quote bible scriptures and dress like librarians. Real talk...But that's another thread )

Well do ya thing, it could be entertaining.The honest part will remain to be seen


don't burn yourself out on ya first few e-battles

 

[Luck]

No hate on big girls because I'm been through desert storm thirst levels but now a days even these fat chicks walking around like they're hot shyt because they interpret thirsty nikkas hollerin at them as them being attractive. Social media and these dating sites full of caping simps are fukking these women heads up and that's why the average chick thinks she is is 2-3 points higher than what she is in reality.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Why the fukk were you trying it in the first place?



Again, why are you accepting free stuff (using men because of your looks)?



So you used regular guys mentioned earlier for items and validation? Do you feel entitled because of your looks? You use(d) men and you are upset because men use women?

Waiting

Used?

That's a strong word.

A man making conversation with you at the bar is SUPPOSED to buy you a drink, if he can afford to. (It has been that way since the beginning of time.)

Most of them WON'T take "no" for an answer, and may not even want your number. I would never take drinks from a man I wasn't interested in. or genuinely vibing with. I never said I did.

But you should know this...Men with money ENJOY doing things like that for attractive women. A man who is cheap, or can't afford to do that won't understand.

I NEVER "used" anyone.

There is a big difference between using someone, because they are too weak to know any better, and allowing someone to be courteous to you who insists on it.

Going into a food spot, and the man who just so happens to be working behind the counter is nicer to you and gives extra ketchup is much different than keeping a call log of short, unattractive men to buy me things and take me places.Very different.

God Bless.

 

[John Mayer]

As far as short men... I am not attracted to them.

I hope you're 5' 7'' and up saying this cause if not that would be like a dark nikka saying he's not attracted to dark girls or a fat nikka saying he's not attracted fat girls

 

[Luck]

Used?

That's a strong word.

A man making conversation with you at the bar is SUPPOSED to buy you a drink, if he can afford to. (It has been that way since the beginning of time.)

Most of them WON'T take "no" for an answer, and may not even want your number. I would never take drinks from a man I wasn't interested in. or genuinely vibing with. I never said I did.

But you should know this...Men with money ENJOY doing things like that for attractive women. A man who is cheap, or can't afford to do that won't understand.

I NEVER "used" anyone.

There is a big difference between using someone, because they are too weak to know any better, and allowing someone to be courteous to you who insists on it.

Going into a food spot, and the man who just so happens to be working behind the counter is nicer to you and gives extra ketchup is much different than keeping a call log of short, unattractive men to buy me things and take me places.Very different.

God Bless.

This is exactly why we all lose when simple ass nikkas put women on a pedestal to the point where you have women believing you have to pay them for conversation




And men with money "enjoy" paying for conversations with women

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

And the reason I "tried in the first place" is because women have to make a man "work", or else the man usually won't value the woman, respect her, or have genuine interest in her.

There are different ways to make a man "work"...

One could be the quality of the date, and him doing nice things for her financially. Such as buying her things, or helping her if she needs it to show he cares about her security.

THAT is not "using". Providing for and doing nice things for a woman you are seeing is not "tricking" or being used. It is what men have always done since the beginning of time to show their affection.

These days however, I have learned that this is not good, because if the guy HAS money, it means nothing for him to spend it. That doesn't mean he values you, respects you or has genuine interest in you. I had to learn this through trial and error though.



Another way could be the amount of time he spends with you, and the kind of time it is. <--- THIS works for me, because I am not into all the other crap.

Don't put words in my mouth or try to make me out to be something I am not. I know women like that, and I am far from it!