Should i wait months for sex or not communicate after?

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This seems to be killing my relationships. Not sure if its the women im seeing. *'if im getting too freaky on first fukk instead of slow love making... i'm thinking maybe after sex I need to not kiss them when I see them after/ talk sexually. I get told the sex is intense/fun.. squirted on, came on, my nut swallowed all this so it can't be in performance. I'm pulling them, going on dates/back to my crib/ camping etc and getting to levels of intimacy then a week later they flip scripts. Brehettes what's the deal? Are they seeing I have criminal background? They don't really share too much info about why flip out. Is it they have another man that makes them feel different? Or did sex too early kill the chase.. I mean sex on 3rd 4th hangout too early?
 

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didnt you gift a woman an anal training kit after like 2 dates? that may be too much. what are you looking for? a ltr or just a consistent booty call or a fwb?
 

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didnt you gift a woman an anal training kit after like 2 dates? that may be too much. what are you looking for? a ltr or just a consistent booty call or a fwb?
LTR, it was after a month of knowing her and after having sex and her telling me how much she enjoys anal I went and got the kit for next time only there was no next time.
 

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If you're looking for something long-term, then definitely don't have sex. Feel them hoes out first to see if you can kick it with her and still have fun without sex involved.
 

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One of the following

1) you choosing chicks who feel above you. They prolly find u attractive enough to fukk, but consider you too corny to date for one reason or another.

2) you talking too much. not appearing valuable. You goin in tryna cuff. Pull that back, u should be checking for consistency before even the thought of cuffing comes up
 

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One of the following

1) you choosing chicks who feel above you. They prolly find u attractive enough to fukk, but consider you too corny to date for one reason or another.

2) you talking too much. not appearing valuable. You goin in tryna cuff. Pull that back, u should be checking for consistency before even the thought of cuffing comes up
#1 is 50/50 sometimes i think they use me for dikk but when they all lovey before sex they must have fukked with me
#2 i may talk too little, they can't figure me out and take my stone expressions for lack of interest even though I tell them otherwise
 
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