Should Men Always -- Or Even Usually -- Pay For Dates?

[KenyaDoll]

You think only bloggers are going out for free meals. The everyday regular woman is meeting guys in clubs and on apps like POF and TINDER and have a line of Tricks offering to take them out for free meals. Regular women are going out with guys they arent feeling just because he offers to take them to a fancy restaurant. I see women on dates with guys they arent attracted to all the time. These women cant even make eye contact with the dude. They are just there for free food.

That may true. Either way good night. I'm sleepy and I want to wake up early to work out.

 

[Jahmal]

That may true. Either way good night. I'm sleepy and I want to wake up early to work out.

Good Night. Yea don't skip that workout. You need to keep your body nice and tight so you can attract rich men to take you out on expensive dates

 

[#SOG_soldier]

This thread makes me appreciate the women in Chicago.

These women are sharks out here. They're so thirsty to show you how independent they are that they're whipping thier purses out to pay before the check even comes.

you from the city

take this rep

 

[#SOG_soldier]

I cant wife these bytches man, word to $penzo

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

Good Night. Yea don't skip that workout. You need to keep your body nice and tight so you can attract rich men to take you out on expensive dates

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

Smh, and dudes in here are actuall consigning this nonsense, so ur man is a dumbass, retarded and yet u are still with him?

All the options women have and men too and they still chose willingly to settle for less

Tommorow when something tragic happens no one will hold u accountable instead we gun gt another stream of commercials talking about no more.

wtf are you rambling about? We've been together over a decade and he was my best friend all through high school. I can call him all the retards and dumb mother fukkers I want lol that doesn't mean I love him any less.

 

[Art Barr]

I'm talking about regular women who are actually interested in dating guys. There are lot of bloggers who have done the free date thing.

you are completely clueless.
or, you just have so much love for the female side.
breaking kayfabe would be high treason and blow your cover.
as, you try to create a discoveryzone for females of the male dialectic.


Art Barr

 

[mamba]

Why would you pay when she called you up and invited you out by saying "Hey Chill, I'm on your side of town. Lets get drinks at this new Martini place nearby"?

This is why the "Whoever invites should pay" rule is bullshyt. Even when women does the inviting they still expect the man to pay. If you would have made her pay for that whole bill since she invited, you would have never heard from her again and she would tell all her friends that you were a cheap scrub.

Exactly. Even when they "invite" you out, they still expect you to pay.

 

[mamba]

bytches aint shyt

It's the truth, breh.

Despite what the women are saying in this thread, if a man were to break out some coupons to pay for a date, they'd be giving him the look inside.

Tellin' her friends: "Do you know this nikka pulled out some coupons to pay for dinner?"

Her friends: "Maybe he doesn't value you enough to pay full price. Cheap ass nikka."

 

[mamba]

I remember years ago I took a fly ass chick on a date. The date went well and we even made out in the parking lot afterwards. The next day I went out to a sports bar with my boys and saw her on a date with another dude. She didnt see me because I posotioned myself in a way that she wouldnt be able to see my face. Two days later I was walking around at the mall and saw her in a restaurant with another dude. I deleted her number. These women getting all these free meals from guys and the guys wont even get a whiff of the p*ssy.

Damn. That's wild, breh.

 

[mamba]

I hate the whole "Whoever asks has to pay" rule because women rarely do the asking...


Ask a Hundred random dudes if they paid on their last first date and I bet 98 out of 100 say they paid.

100% Truth

 

[mamba]

Yup men should always pay.

Why should men always pay?

 

[mcdivit85]

ehhh, i don't mind paying half, or even covering small expenses. in fact i prefer it. if i dismiss the guy, he can't complain about his wasted money, etc.

now if a man who's into strict gender roles wants to split the bill hasn't happened to me yet, but if he's the kind of boyfriend who thinks his girl should make him a sandwich on command, he better be paying for every date, opening doors and pulling chairs.

Yo these chicks be gassed

Peace

 

[3rdWorld]

Yeah, let her pay so she can also pick and drive your ass home, walk you to the front door, ask for coffee and hope to be let into your place..where are the testicles on these 90s babies??

 

[mcdivit85]

That's the sad thing, breh.

nikkas will not even treat their parents to a nice dinner, but will spend a bunch of money on some chick he barely knows.

This applies to wack n#ggas only. Real dudes look out for those who looked out for them first and foremost.

Peace