Should Men Always -- Or Even Usually -- Pay For Dates?

[KinksandCoils]

The problem is women only want traditional roles and progressive gender roles when it's convenient for them. They basically want the best of both worlds without having to deal with the worst of either.

If you want men to take you out/pay for dates, fine. On the same token, you shouldn't be sleeping with multiple men and you should be ready to submit to that man.

If you want to have gender equality and be treated like men by society, fine. On the same token, you shouldn't expect men to pay for dates if/when you go out on dates.

Make up your mind, ladies.

Is it oochie-wally or black girl lost?

a man wants a traditional women until it comes time to paying for a date. Are u gonna do most of the cooking cleaning? Are u gonna be doing most of the bathing, changing of diapers,feeding the kids? Are u gonna stay home and not work when they are sick and u cant find a sitter? Are u gonna be responsible for getting a sitter? This is all shyt thay women typically do. This is why iits common that a man can raise his kids but still be absent in their life.

 

[kevm3]

By that logic, he doesn't need to pay for dinner unless he's your husband.

 

[KinksandCoils]

Think youre gonna get a wife without paying for any dates brehs

 

[mamba]

Think youre gonna get a wife without paying for any dates brehs

No one has said men should never pay. We've simply said modern women should also pay from time to time.

 

[mamba]

a man wants a traditional women until it comes time to paying for a date. Are u gonna do most of the cooking cleaning? Are u gonna be doing most of the bathing, changing of diapers,feeding the kids? Are u gonna stay home and not work when they are sick and u cant find a sitter? Are u gonna be responsible for getting a sitter? This is all shyt thay women typically do. This is why iits common that a man can raise his kids but still be absent in their life.

We're talking about dating, not marriage.

 

[William F. Russell]

a man wants a traditional women until it comes time to paying for a date. Are u gonna do most of the cooking cleaning? Are u gonna be doing most of the bathing, changing of diapers,feeding the kids? Are u gonna stay home and not work when they are sick and u cant find a sitter? Are u gonna be responsible for getting a sitter? This is all shyt thay women typically do. This is why iits common that a man can raise his kids but still be absent in their life.

This was untrue only until men started wising up to the fact that modern women are mostly hypocritical when it comes to how society should treat them.

Inherently, men have no issue with paying for a date for a woman to whom they are attracted. The issue is that women have started to take advantage of the in-flux status of today's gender roles by having sex with multiple men (many times with men who don't even date them) while still demanding other men to wine-and-dine them. Because of the manosphere, social media, personal enlightment, many men have FINALLY caught on to the habits of many women and are now starting to push-back against the traditional role of having to pay for dates with women. Why buy the cow if you can get the milk? If women were consistent with traditional gender roles, men would be too. It's as simple as that.

As for the rest of your post, it's incoherent and irrelevant babbling. But I will say that many modern women don't change diapers, feed kids, etc. Especially teen mothers.

 

[mamba]

Until you understand the reality of underdeveloped minds, trying to understand the logic these chicks try to present will only confuse you, brehs.

 

[Luck]

a man wants a traditional women until it comes time to paying for a date. Are u gonna do most of the cooking cleaning? Are u gonna be doing most of the bathing, changing of diapers,feeding the kids? Are u gonna stay home and not work when they are sick and u cant find a sitter? Are u gonna be responsible for getting a sitter? This is all shyt thay women typically do. This is why iits common that a man can raise his kids but still be absent in their life.

So you're good with following well defined gender roles. Funny because I almost never meet professional women with that attitude

Shared responsibilities. Men should help with that shyt as well, just like women need to pitch in on the financial. Equality works both ways. You get your ass up in the mornin and get money too, the male helps around the house.

Let's not act like that shyt is hard, if you keep your kids disciplined you won't have much to do as far as cleaning

 

[mamba]

This was untrue only until men started wising up to the fact that modern women are mostly hypocritical when it comes to how society should treat them.

Inherently, men have no issue with paying for a date for a woman to whom they are attracted. The issue is that women have started to take advantage of the in-flux status of today's gender roles by having sex with multiple men (many times with men who don't even date them) while still demanding other men to wine-and-dine them. Because of the manosphere, social media, personal enlightment, many men have FINALLY caught on to the habits of many women and are now starting to push-back against the traditional role of having to pay for dates with women. Why buy the cow if you can get the milk? If women were consistent with traditional gender roles, men would be too. It's as simple as that.

As for the rest of your post, it's incoherent and irrelevant babbling. But I will say that many modern women don't change diapers, feed kids, etc. Especially teen mothers.

Yep. What man in his right mind wants to pay for something else other nikkas are getting for free?

You got a simp nikka rolling out the red carpet only for her to have another nikka roll up and smash for free after the date ends.

I've actually been that "roll up" nikka a few times. I know the game. It's dirty, brehs. Keep your wallet in your pocket.

 

[Supercoolmayo]

I can't understand this backwards logic, if women and men are equal there an obvious answer to this thread.

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

Think youre gonna get a wife without paying for any dates brehs

no one is against paying, but people are against paying all the time, or even most of the time.

some of the best relationships i know don't have the girl expecting to be paid for, and those are the females that are the most down to earth

 

[Easy-E]

As long as a breh can use a coupon.

Spoiler

What? Being a gentlemen is expensive :mjsups:

 

[Blackout]

I expect a man who asked me on a date to pay. I don't need a date and I don't need anyone to feed me so I can honestly take it or leave it since I can guarantee that I'm not pursuing him.

Black nerds have no issue with being the one to pay for dates

 

[KenyaDoll]

Black nerds have no issue with being the one to pay for dates

I've never had an issue with a man paying on a date. I'll also remind you that my man is smarter and more accomplished than you. He doesn't have to go around calling himself a nerd to feel smart. He just is...

 

[Blackout]

I've never had an issue with a man paying on a date. I'll also remind you that my man is smarter and more accomplished than you. He doesn't have to go around calling himself a nerd to feel smart. He just is...

What I do not know I can learn so it's quite silly for you to try to compare his intelligence to mine as if you can compare both based on opportunities.

Plus im not broke so I don't care who is more "successful" than me.

I don't call myself a nerd to feel smart anyway. It's simply a label others have called me

Good to see you got yourself a good man sista I wonder if he is a black nerd