@Lady.Libra. this was a decent conversation, but im bored (not of you) so I will be checking out of this conversation.
You too @BlackPearl we good.
Ok. But why is she having pre-martial sex when she knows the potential risk?
It's pointless to keep talking about male behavior when you ultimately have control over your body
It's akin to guys complaining about unwanted children but insist on going raw
The responsibilities and burdens that you have to deal with personally are more consequential than blame. You're left holding the bag ultimately
Even if you get a little bullshyt monthly check, a child is going to hold you back as a single parent
That goes for everything
When you tell me it doesnt it sounds like you would know why which is why I asked.
I feel you.
I had to pause & ask myself why am I so vested in this topic because I long ago decided not to have any kids
See you around the board!
Same here! Part of my reason for celibacy was that I wanted to feel like anyone I got intimate with going forward was super special to me, and I didnt
Lets not get to drastic
Only thing I would change about this law is the 6 months rule,the man shouldn't get 6 months to say he don't want a baby,unless he hasn't been able to communicate to tell her this....But a man whos dragging his feet or whos been avoiding her,shouldnt be able to come in 6 months in and say he don't want it.
Even if they wanted to make it where as the man you had to sign your rights away before having sex that would be fine,its a punishment for men based on all the women who will be turned off by it,and it makes both parties agree to the terms and conditions of the sex they about to have.....If contracts about consensual sex have been discussed don't see why this cant be,we both taking a chance because we like how it feels raw
This contract can be the mans burden if you want to give him hard choices
I see it as a deterrent. I am just following Coli logic. Women can't keep their legs closed and are incapable of choosing good men.... despite also being way too picky and wanting nikkas to give em the world before they give up the assThat wouldn't work either, the last thing a child needs to see is a dysfunctional relationship
Maybe men are women using birth control and condoms would solve everything
Its already a trend because lesbians will lesbian and misandrists gonna misandrist regardless of whether this law passes or not.
Likewise men should not cry about the consequences of their actions. U have sex with a woman, especially a woman u don't really know or aren't married to, you are subjecting yourself to a child support deduction. And like you said, the man is getting off easy, so I'm really at a loss as to what all the complaining from men's side is about.
