Conversely if men could opt out of parenting they’d have a “get out of jail free” card that only benefits them, then lays the responsibility of the child on society. That’s not “fair” either.Never said it only benefits women and I agree that if women were confident that the man would be a good partner we would see significantly less abortions
A woman always has access to a get out of jail free card. The man only gets out of jail if the woman is on board.
					
				


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 and told me to make all the prenatal appointments.I was pissed, but im glad she made the decision she did,I tell her this often even though we haven’t had a romantic relationship since the birth over a decade ago. I say that to say the moment the semen leaves our body, it belongs to her and we have to make the best of the situation