Should men get a "pass" during their bachelor party?

[Drew Wonder]

I personally think cheating is cheating, no matter the context. But I know plenty of dudes who think its acceptable for the groom to "show that he's still got it" right before he ties the knot

a lapdance is one thing, but imo if you feel the need to fuck a stripper or random chick before getting married, marriage isn't really for you

but what's the coli's take on it?

 

[BrothaZay]

Only if females get one too

 

[ugksam]

My take on this is that you are gay and you are uninvited to my bachelor party.

 

[Amy Traphouse]

Its acceptable for a groom to show he still got it? Got what?! He's getting married all the ho tendicies went out the window long ago

 

[ThatKidBlackHippy]

the concept of a bachelor/bachelorette party is stupid and makes no sense to me.

 

[So-Chi]

Pass from WHO? What wife to be is accepting you bust down 24 hours before her honeymoon?

 

[Ricky Church]

 

[Turbulent]

whats the point of getting married in the first place then?

 

[msims]

the concept of a bachelor/bachelorette party is stupid and makes no sense to me.

I agree, breh. shyt is wild. You are getting married the next day or two. You've probably been with your girl for a good amount of time before you asked her to marry you. You HAD to have gotten all your "ho" tendencies out of your system before then. Why would you need this type of party? I mean, you have to be really feeling "lovey-dovey" to propose to a chick. When I'm really into my girl (lovey-dovey), I don't even care about other chicks.

I guess nikkas be on some:

"This is my last time EVER to do this! "



I just wouldn't get married if I said that statement with the " "face.

If you feel that strong about it, there would be no point in leaving the game, in my opinion.
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[DrunkenNovice]

I approve

TLDR version below

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a bachelor party use to be a celebration of crossing over from being a single man into marriage. It was just a gather of men to reflect on old times and pay homage to the bachelor.

Just recently it turned into a wild'n out party

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and I approve

I've been to about 4 bachelor parties and at only 1 did the bachelor "cheat".

He's still married...the others are divorced

 

[⠀⠀⠀]

if you need a pass, you shouldn't be getting married

 

[winb83]

yes and this should be an annual thing

 

[Xerces]

If you and your soon to be spouse really love eatch other and really commited neither one of you will even suggest this. This is not "grown folks" behavior

 

[Chris.B]

Why are n!ggas still getting married?

You are asking for trouble bruh....

The male is designed to conquer as many females as possible. That's how we were created.

Either accept that or face the consequences when she takes half....

 

[winb83]

If you and your soon to be spouse really love eatch other and really commited neither one of you will even suggest this. This is not "grown folks" behavior

Love is an emotional feeling its not the rationalizations you place around it it is simply the feeling alone. you can love someone and kill them and in your own mind it could be perfectly justified but somebody else would look at the situation and probably say you didn't love them cause you did that but then how can another human being ever tell you your feelings aren't real because they don't agree?

you can love two people at the same time but then someone will come behind you and place a word like true in front of the word love and rationalize why you didn't love either one. my friend's grandmother married and her husband died. she later remarried. does that mean she doesn't love the previous husband? does it mean she doesn't love the current?

love is not rationalizations.