Should women take lessons from men on how to be loyal ?

StickStickly · Apr 28, 2017

Lady.Libra. said:
So, do you think those 70% of women who initiated divorce from those 70% of men, who by your logic were blameless in the demise of their marriage, did so for no earthly good reason(s)? The 'Why' is also as important as the 'What', you know.

50% of married women have backup lovers? They all have faithful husbands too because we all know married men don't have whole other families, baby mothers, mistresses, etc.

that guy uses stats incorrectly. it's laughable. you can't pull different stats from different studies and put them together like that lol. they're not measuring the same things because of what you pointed out. 70% of marriages in ending in divorce (which isn't the correct stat anyway) does not mean 50% of THOSE women had back up lovers. they'd have to surgery those same women in the divorce study for an explanation. he can't just jump to another study like that lol.

StickStickly · Apr 28, 2017

BlackPearl The Empress said:
Actually OP you're right.

I think women should stop pretending to be loyal, form an army with gay men as the infantry and just put you all in farmers strictly to be used for breeding purposes.

this sounds like a male fantasy porno lol

StickStickly · Apr 28, 2017

Oran "Juice" Jones said:
Men can cheat without tearing apart their family.

Women fukk around and "fall in love," completely forgetting they have a family. They'll neglect their own kids chasing that man.

CharlieManson said:
Men are disloyal over stupid shyt though...

Men think on some..."Well Shelia listens to me ramble about sports and lets me fukk her face..."

Women be on some..."Girl...this nikka done took me to Puerto Rico and we stayed in a condo he rented...I would be crazy to fukk with Rashad's broke ass after that..."

why do men always say "my type of cheating is better"? Is this some attempt to repair cognitive dissonance? cheating feels like cheating to the person who is cheated on. the only person who argues a preferential difference in the motives is the cheater. to the victim, it's all the same.

here's the thing, put yourself into this scenario and really think about it. if the woman you loved and were loyal too cheated because of her high sex drive, just to have new dikk and came home to you and you had proof that it was only about sex,it would feel the SAME if she had cheated for love, especially if she stepped out repeatedly. i guarantee you,brehs, you would feel the exact same.

The M.I.C. · Apr 28, 2017

Cali_livin said:
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Ironman said:

™BlackPearl The Empress™ · Apr 28, 2017

StickStickly said:
this sounds like a male fantasy porno lol

They can have as much porn as they like on the farm.:isthatthecase:

Mojo Jojo Morpheus · Apr 28, 2017

OK @Ahyurea, I'll bite.
I think really, despite all of the sarcasm in here, what everyone objects to is being used.
Despite that, many people are egocentric and have no qualms using others.
In fact, even when they know they've done something scummy like exploiting someone else's goodwill, they will do their best to rationalize that decision.
They then take their backdated rationalizations and accept them as objective truths.
People do this because being honest about their own hypocrisy would upset their own positive self-image and generate a great deal of cognitive dissonance.
Everyone is the main character in the story they are telling about themselves.
As the protagonist, they must always play the sympathetic role and will construct the narrative so as to be cast in that light.
So on female forums, women are the long-suffering, loyal and virtuous victims of male depravity. (LSA)
And on male forums, men are the victims of manipulative, pecuniary, and capricious women. (theColi)

I think that women are taught to hold no illusions about men and their motives.
That we are selfish and have no problems lying to y'all to get what we want.
OK, I really don't have any objections to that.

But men are not taught the same thing.
Boys are not raised to believe that women are selfish and self-interested.
Instead, we are taught that women are the kinder, fairer, more moral half of the species.
Quite obviously, any extensive experience with women will prove that to be a lie.
I just think we need to stop telling boys this lie.
Because, as you can clearly see on here, it produces nothing but bitterness and resentment when the reality of feminine nature reveals itself.
Songs like Loyal or online movements like theRedPill or GMB are simply attempts by men in adulthood to debunk the myths about femininity that they were indoctrinated with as children.

We're all just human, there are no angels.

P.S: End speech. Resume gender war.

TheLostOnes · Apr 28, 2017

wickedsm said:
nope. never.
till death do us part.

As it should be :mjcry:

Will rep when I can

Hungerpain · Apr 28, 2017

Both genders of humans are self serving but Men in their natural state aren't socially manipulative and deceptive.
Men have to learn these traits where as it's basically a woman's nature to be a fraud for survival.
Men manipulate the environment women manipulate people.
Women fake love,friendship,loyalty,attraction,interest like it's a walk in the park while your average man can't even tell a believable ducktale.

Prostitution is the oldest profession for a reason.

Indiglow Meta (R$G) · Apr 28, 2017

Black men are 85% of black homicides.
The grass is brown over here, and you don't want these problems.
Imagine cacsmen taking you seriously as a threat. Other breh disliking you off gp for being competition...the risk of death. The feeling when a cop gets behind you, knowing some red face cac has his mind set already, and you might die.
The likelihood of that happening to you is so low it's not worth mentioning.

thewarrior05 · Apr 28, 2017

Mojo Jojo Morpheus said:
OK @Ahyurea, I'll bite.
I think really, despite all of the sarcasm in here, what everyone objects to is being used.
Despite that, many people are egocentric and have no qualms using others.
In fact, even when they know they've done something scummy like exploiting someone else's goodwill, they will do their best to rationalize that decision.
They then take their backdated rationalizations and accept them as objective truths.
People do this because being honest about their own hypocrisy would upset their own positive self-image and generate a great deal of cognitive dissonance.
Everyone is the main character in the story they are telling about themselves.
As the protagonist, they must always play the sympathetic role and will construct the narrative so as to be cast in that light.
So on female forums, women are the long-suffering, loyal and virtuous victims of male depravity. (LSA)
And on male forums, men are the victims of manipulative, pecuniary, and capricious women. (theColi)

I think that women are taught to hold no illusions about men and their motives.
That we are selfish and have no problems lying to y'all to get what we want.
OK, I really don't have any objections to that.

But men are not taught the same thing.
Boys are not raised to believe that women are selfish and self-interested.
Instead, we are taught that women are the kinder, fairer, more moral half of the species.
Quite obviously, any extensive experience with women will prove that to be a lie.
I just think we need to stop telling boys this lie.
Because, as you can clearly see on here, it produces nothing but bitterness and resentment when the reality of feminine nature reveals itself.
Songs like Loyal or online movements like theRedPill or GMB are simply attempts by men in adulthood to debunk the myths about femininity that they were indoctrinated with as children.

We're all just human, there are no angels.

P.S: End speech. Resume gender war.

There are good women and there are bad women same thing for men...... I know we were taught different but at this point in the game have learned that everyone lied about everything we learned change and adept or die off.

Weaver31 · Apr 28, 2017

seveninthechamber said:
from MEN?

the way we're wired is fukked up... nature designed us to pursue and experience different women and spread our seed.... nature wired us to enjoy variety... nature wired us in a way that is literally disloyal by default.....

thank god women aren't wired this way.... society would collapse

imagine if women were like men tho.... tryna bag nikkas, walkin up and shooting their shot, hopping in DMs until they catch one, enjoying nikkas on the side and coming back to their king

aw hell naw