Should You Forgive Someone who did you Dirty? Should you Forgive yourself?

[rapbeats]

naw they'll just do it again

odds are they will. AND?
i didnt say DEAL with them everytime. but you do need to forgive them.

if a man steals from me 3 times. odds are he's a thief with a problem. he got a cant help it problem. i still forgive him. no matter if he asks for forgiveness or not.

now granted i wont leave my wallet on the table in front of him again. i wont turn my back towards him while we're in the same room.

thats only common sense. but you can forgive a person.


and there are times you may have to put yourself in harms way after you forgive someone. harms way may not be physical but emotionally. the real reasons us dudes dont be rushing to get married most of the time is because we know that we will be putting our emotions in HARMS way. cause to do that you have to completely let go and PRAY this women does your right. she's human so odds are she's going to mess up at some point. same goes for you.

Rick Ross entire album title is actually anti biblical.

God forgives and YOU Should too should be the title.

cause if you dont forgive and you KNOW that God does. then you wont be forgiven either. somebody needs to tell ross that one.

 

[rapbeats]

cant be mad at the person who saw ya weakness...

bein mad aint gone take the dirt they did to u away..damage is done...

check yaself..

thats all i'm saying.

 

[MikelArteta]

i always forgive and forget, but i won't continue talking to that person

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Depends on how bad the fukk up was and if it was habitual. You can't hold something against someone who has a good explanation and if it wasn't an outright hostile action toward you.

However, if they keep doing things that directly hurt you maliciously, throw that person into the bushes.

 

[FaTaL]

odds are they will. AND?
i didnt say DEAL with them everytime. but you do need to forgive them.

if a man steals from me 3 times. odds are he's a thief with a problem. he got a cant help it problem. i still forgive him. no matter if he asks for forgiveness or not.

now granted i wont leave my wallet on the table in front of him again. i wont turn my back towards him while we're in the same room.

thats only common sense. but you can forgive a person.


and there are times you may have to put yourself in harms way after you forgive someone. harms way may not be physical but emotionally. the real reasons us dudes dont be rushing to get married most of the time is because we know that we will be putting our emotions in HARMS way. cause to do that you have to completely let go and PRAY this women does your right. she's human so odds are she's going to mess up at some point. same goes for you.

Rick Ross entire album title is actually anti biblical.

God forgives and YOU Should too should be the title.

cause if you dont forgive and you KNOW that God does. then you wont be forgiven either. somebody needs to tell ross that one.

what type of back stabbing are we dealing with?

some are unforgivable and unforgettable

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

and thats why you really need to click on that link. and listen to that sermon bruh. he's talking to YOU for reals.

i listened to a few minutes of it but it's not worth my time. there's so many things in question about the bible, using it as a source and then trying to elaborate on it is very difficult. not to mention, i might take a different meaning and concept away from those very passages he mentioned. also, the only way i'd gain something from watching that video is if my concept of God is close enough to his concept. which it isn't. he's not talking to me, he's talking to people who are believers in the same sense he is...

 

[rapbeats]

i always forgive and forget, but i won't continue talking to that person

hey, this is how i look at it as i get older.

you dont have to COMPLETELY cut folks off.

what you do is, once you realize where they are in life(we are all in different places in life even though we frequent the same places(church maybe, club maybe) and seem to like some of the same things. but once you realize this is where that person is in life. thats fine. deal with them accordingly.

i always say, why have a serious conversation with a drunk person? its a dumb idea. odds are they wont remember. and odds are if they are that drunk that aint coherent enough to have said convo anyway. they will get all excess emotional about it. etc. so since i know you're drunk. i'll smile. and nod my head when you speak. but i refuse to have a legitimate debate or convo with a drunk person. thats the same way i feel about people i deem crazy. or selfish, or etc. etc. if i know where you are in life. we can still talk. but on the level that you're on.

i'm not going to get all up in arms trying to make a selfish person be less selfish if they're 40 years old and they've been selfish their entire life. its going to take another 5 years minimum for them to learn how to live life unselfishly. even if they care to. its not that i dont think people can rehab from who they are today. i believe it. because i've done it myself and am doing it as we speak. we should all be doing it constantly throughout life. and non of us got life that down to the point where we dont need to do better in some area. but i'll talk to people where they are. treat them like i know where they are. even if i want them to be somewhere better. its a process and it takes a lot of time to break bad habits if they will ever be broken with said person. even if it doesnt. i still aint mad at you. cause i know you got a problem. and i still love you anyway.

 

[rapbeats]

i listened to a few minutes of it but it's not worth my time. there's so many things in question about the bible, using it as a source and then trying to elaborate on it is very difficult. not to mention, i might take a different meaning and concept away from those very passages he mentioned. also, the only way i'd gain something from watching that video is if my concept of God is close enough to his concept. which it isn't. he's not talking to me, he's talking to people who are believers in the same sense he is...

bruh. listen to the entire thing. he's talking about a lot of stuff. what you got from the first few mins or even half of it. aint the half of it. believe me. i wouldnt have posted it here if it only told part of the story. thats why i posted it.
it wont kill you to take 50 mins out of your day check it out. we all know we've spent 50 mins a day doing a bunch of nonsense at some point.

if you still feel the same way after checking it all out. it is what it is.

 

[rapbeats]

what type of back stabbing are we dealing with?

some are unforgivable and unforgettable

all types. there's nothing unforgivable for you and I. NOTHING. no matter how heinous or crazy or wrong.

the less people forgive those things. the more they will happen to the innocent. the more they happen to the innocent the less innocence you have in the world. again listen to the entire sermon he speaks on this.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

bruh. listen to the entire thing. he's talking about a lot of stuff. what you got from the first few mins or even half of it. aint the half of it. believe me. i wouldnt have posted it here if it only told part of the story. thats why i posted it.
it wont kill you to take 50 mins out of your day check it out. we all know we've spent 50 mins a day doing a bunch of nonsense at some point.

if you still feel the same way after checking it all out. it is what it is.

bruh. the simple fact that he's using the bible makes it unappealing to me. i feel like my way is fine and it's not dependent on what some mysterious figure is going to do to me if i don't follow "instructions" he "left" in a book...

 

[MikelArteta]

hey, this is how i look at it as i get older.

you dont have to COMPLETELY cut folks off.

what you do is, once you realize where they are in life(we are all in different places in life even though we frequent the same places(church maybe, club maybe) and seem to like some of the same things. but once you realize this is where that person is in life. thats fine. deal with them accordingly.

i always say, why have a serious conversation with a drunk person? its a dumb idea. odds are they wont remember. and odds are if they are that drunk that aint coherent enough to have said convo anyway. they will get all excess emotional about it. etc. so since i know you're drunk. i'll smile. and nod my head when you speak. but i refuse to have a legitimate debate or convo with a drunk person. thats the same way i feel about people i deem crazy. or selfish, or etc. etc. if i know where you are in life. we can still talk. but on the level that you're on.

i'm not going to get all up in arms trying to make a selfish person be less selfish if they're 40 years old and they've been selfish their entire life. its going to take another 5 years minimum for them to learn how to live life unselfishly. even if they care to. its not that i dont think people can rehab from who they are today. i believe it. because i've done it myself and am doing it as we speak. we should all be doing it constantly throughout life. and non of us got life that down to the point where we dont need to do better in some area. but i'll talk to people where they are. treat them like i know where they are. even if i want them to be somewhere better. its a process and it takes a lot of time to break bad habits if they will ever be broken with said person. even if it doesnt. i still aint mad at you. cause i know you got a problem. and i still love you anyway.

my mindframe is to forgive and forget, i used to hold animosity and anger towards folks now , if you do me wrong i dont hate you, not seeking revenge, i wish you the best but i just wnt associate with you anymore.

the bible says to forgive and forget but doesnt sy you have to continue associating with them.

havent listened to the message yet but ill give it a listen

 

[Carter G. Hoodson]

I'd forgive mostly anyone but would that person forgive me if I was to do something or say something that would put a strain on our relationship. Since I have experienced it, that person haven't forgive me since. It depends on the person and the pain.

 

[rapbeats]

bruh. the simple fact that he's using the bible makes it unappealing to me. i feel like my way is fine and it's not dependent on what some mysterious figure is going to do to me if i don't follow "instructions" he "left" in a book...

I ALREADY knew what you were talking about.
listen to the entire thing. and tell me what you think. it wont kill you.

if i tell you i dont believe in a basic math book.

then you show me 2+2=4. i still say i dont believe in that crap. it cant be proven to be true.
then you show me 1 apple and 1 apple = 2 apples. i agree.
then you show me 2 apples + 2 apples = how many apples?
i say 4 apples.

then you say. whats the difference between that and 2+2=4?
i wont have an answer for that. but uhhh maybe you're right. let me look at that book and see what they talking about in there.

thats why i said listen to the entire sermon.

if i just read a portion of 2+2=4 as 2+... =4. whaa? naw bruh i dont believe that crap.

of course i wont believe it or agree with it. i need to understand all of it together as a whole first. then let it marinate. then come to a conclusion.

Is what this man preaching about TRUE in REAL LIFE? minus the bible talk
if the answer is YES. then if i add in the bible talk. does it make since for what was said in that good book to be TRUE? YES

then dont i at least need to look further into it. thats all i'm saying check it all out first.

 

[rapbeats]

I'd forgive mostly anyone but would that person forgive me if I was to do something or say something that would put a strain on our relationship. Since I have experienced it, that person haven't forgive me since. It depends on the person and the pain.

if you truly have forgiven someone. and you said your I'm sorrys or whatever. thats all you can do. time to move on. it aint on you anymore. burden lifted off your shoulder. if said person wants to hold onto that burden thats on them now.

 

[Mr. Negative]

I got grudges older than prolly 3/4 of the posters here.

and for real... it's really easy to say I forgive someone.

but my feelings say otherwise.

And yes, I want to let the shyt go.