Should you smash on the first date? Yes or no

[All Knowledge]

Depends if I wanna see her again....

If I wasn’t interested in dating her further I’d go for the kill

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Why do brehs think fukking a girl quick equates to valuing her less? Yall dont realise this thinking perpetuates the 'easy girl' stereotype and thus forces these girls to be superficial and make YOU wait for no fukking reason at all even when she wants to fukk?


What kinda backward ass thinking is this?

 

[KING WILL]

Smashing on the 1st date is acceptable. If both of yall want it, do it.

If you want to wait, that's fine too. Just know your timeline maybe different than that person ur going dates on with.

 

[VertigoKnight]

If the mood is there and the date has gone well. Then yep we fukking. Brehs waiting and find out the chicks sex game is weak or incompatible with you.

Which will inevitably lead to you looking elsewhere if you get serious with her. I'd rather know off the bat than play this let's wait bullshyt.

Good sex is a big part of a relationship for me. If it's bad then that's a big part that is already potentially out of sorts.

 

[Soundbwoy]

Personally I’ve never been the dude that needs to smash everything that’s moving, I’ve hit the first night I’ve hit after a couple of dates. The last thing you want is to end up on the summer jam screen because a chick felt forced and “abandoned her body while you’ve had your way with her” if you don’t see yourself kicking it with her without no sex going on at the end of the night save yourself the time and money.

 

[Mr.bocario]

Smashing on the 1st date is acceptable. If both of yall want it, do it.

If you want to wait, that's fine too. Just know your timeline maybe different than that person ur going dates on with.

Really the only adult answer here. It up to the two individuals to decide what they want

 

[AAKing23]

No generally speaking

 

[Genos]

I see all the time people trying to make Sex on the first date acceptable and I ask them is that what they’re goin to teach their daughters and they never have nothing to say

That it's cool to have sex in the 1st date as long as you are safe. The girls I had sex with on the first date were someone's daughters too

 

[Genos]

at all these mental gymnastics

I aint never taking any girl serious until I go up in them guts and see what I really have to put up with in the bedroom if I ever choose to cuff. I gotta sample the package before I buy.

Imagine taking a girl serious, waiting then later realizing the sex is a 3/10

Exactly. One reason why I started dating my gf seriously was because I knew the sex was good. The other qualities matter more but I couldn't imagine having bad sex all the time

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

I always try to smash first date. Once you establish sexual rapport, it's easier to build the other aspects of a relationship.

 

[BlackMagnus514]

I say yes, if the vibe is there and she's choosing and with it. Been there, done that.

I'd rather get it out of the way honestly.

 

[RennisDeynolds]

You should always be half erect on a date. In this way you will be good to go if things escalate or if things don’t work out you can nut on yourself as an exit strategy

 

[Here Comes the Pain]

 

[Speaking Womanese]

I voted no, but I’ve read that men assess if a woman is worth seeing again based off if she’s good in bed or not

 

[skeetsinternal]

I voted no, but I’ve read that men assess if a woman is worth seeing again based off if she’s good in bed or not

I say no only cuz women send their representative on a first date. If you smash that first time the p*ssy gonna be the wettest, freshest, cleanest, tightest etc breh ever gonna sample while knowing her.

The best time to learn a bytch is after she did an 8 hr work shift this when you find out how a bytch is irl