Should your S/O have access to your phone/social media accounts

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Why?

If your not doing anything wrong, what does she have to get mad about?

Just because i'm in a relationship with a chick doesn't mean I have to share everything with her. I don't have anything to hide,but i'm not 12 and that girl isn't my mom.If she needs to snoop behind me that bytch doesn't need to be with me.
 

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I ain't got nothing to hide about myself but other people do tell me stuff about their lives that they wouldn't want other people to know. I'm not one of those people that tell my girl all the stuff about my friends lives.

:snoop:
No, because certain shyt just can't be explained no matter how hard you try.

Nothing to hide, but I grant no access to any of my personal shyt to anybody, but me. That's the reason for personal accounts, they're for you.

Buncha p*ssy-whipped folks in here.
 

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I don't have a password on my phone anymore. but I am getting tired of her going through my text messages. I took offense this one time cause I assumed she was just looking at the conversations I had with female friends.
me: Imma head to terrence crib and watch the game and have a few beers.
her: oh how is terrence is his grandma getting better that's in the hospital?
me: she's getting better... wait.... how do you know about that? I never told you about that...
her: oops...
me: so you been going through my phone again?
her: : manny:


today she started going through my phone while I was getting ready to head to class. then wouldn't give me my phone back.

sent from my phone nikka....
 

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My girl can look all she wants, I got rid of all the incriminating evidence long ago.

Plus she's not the insecure, snooping type, so I guess it's a win/win.

I deleted all the numbers of old J/O's from my phone last week. I'm actually trying hard not to cheat.

On the real though, my girl is logged into her facebook on my laptop (I don't use that shyt) and she has her email on my iPad. It's been there for months, and I haven't looked through it once. I honestly have no desire to :manny:
 

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ha! I just remembered this friend I had, she got married... her fukking husband would go through her shyt every day and tell her he can do that...

cause they're married.

and since they were married everything was "theirs" and she had no right to privacy anymore.

shyt had me like wooow.
 

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i don't see why she'd need "access" to my social media accounts, i wouldn't ask for access to hers. my phone, i mean, whenever she needs it, she can use it. but "access" makes it sound like she can just check it whenever she wants to, which is different...
 

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me and my girl know each others passwords but i never check hers and i assume she never checks mine. we give each other that space, although we do have the passwords we agree its disprespectful to be snooping around.

we used to be more loose about it but one time we had a fight and she logged on to my facebook and defriended female friends of mine from my account. i didn't have any shady messages or anything, she was just mad. trying to explain to my friends why i deleted them just gave me a fukkin headache though cause then some of my friends started acting funny and shyt. after that i told my stay out of my shyt, and since then im pretty sure she stays out of it. she knew she was in the wrong.
 
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