Ok...so men sit on the sidelines waiting for women to get picked.You guys are the ones that make the choice in the type of man you date.
Stop acting like all men are no good because your choice in men are crap.
Ok...so men sit on the sidelines waiting for women to get picked.You guys are the ones that make the choice in the type of man you date.
Stop acting like all men are no good because your choice in men are crap.

Thats two different things thoExactly, then they slowly start with the abusive stuff, and most women are terrified of leaving them.
Didn't they have Ray Rice wife sitting next to him while she answered questions about the incident? She's probably scared and she has nothing without him, she probably thinking she aint got no choice.
You guys are the ones that make the choice in the type of man you date.
Stop acting like all men are no good because your choice in men are crap.
did you even read the post you quoted breh? I'm not casting blame, all should do better regardless of who is doing the choosing.Yeah, I'm sure the reason she didn't leave Ray Rice is because she was afraid![]()
The "nice guy" shyt lol. That failure life struggle smfh.I agree, i don't feel sorry for women that cry about emotional abuse, physical abuse blah blah blah. I see women walking around down town all day by Ga state, Clark Atlanta or various institutions that produce strong, intelligent black males so its no excuse to see a woman walking around with a dude with his pants sagging, pushing a stroller in 90 degree weather.
I wish i had the options women have, i have never in my life seen a dude standing by a bus stop in 20 degree weather freezing and a woman pull up in a benz and offer him a ride and other opportunities, but women get approached like this daily and some of them still find flaws in a man example, "he too short", "he don't got swag" and all the other bullshyt that women spew out.
So in closing i put all the blame on women, the game is easy for them and if u can't chose a decent man its ur fault, no excuse like "oh he changed blah blah blah" i think that excuse is worn out, we got technology now and alot of tools to make ur life easier and if u still can't figure it out and pick the right man to give u guidance then u the problem.
How about both genders try to be the best they can be.
The mental and logic loops people go through to blame women for illegal and/or abusive behavior from men never ceases to amaze.
Everyone should do a better job picking partners, sure. But more often than not someone isn't abusive right out the gate, or before the relationship begins. Janay didn't fall in love with the side of Ray Rice that beat the shyt out of her. I'd imagine he was charming and nice to her initially. And sooner or later he showed what he truly is, and it was "too late" to escape the relationship. Escaping isn't as easy as people assume. Mental abuse is going on, and more often than not the victim starts blaming themselves. This is compounded by the natural inclination for people to blame the victim (woman) - which we see all the time on the Coli.