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If she wants a provider and an alpha.....I see nothing wrong with that. :yeshrug:

However, if you're gonna demand that I "be the man" you better get that ass in the kitchen and cook dinner every night, wash my Hanes and suck my :picard: on demand. These broads want men to act old school when it comes to responsiblity but they wanna have the leeway of new age females. Fukk that. Address me as Sir and shut the fukk up

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If a man was completely providing for your every financial need and you had nothing to possibly ask for, would you be willing to fully submit to him and his every need? :patrice:
I do. It's not a hardship for me to stfu, be gentle, and do what he says.:yeshrug:

But I treat home-making like a job, always striving to improve efficiency, cut costs, etc. I'm not on IG all day taking pics of my ass. The Coli is my only SM.

edit: I live this life and never not once have I used the term "provider" irl. Low key bird shyt.
 

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Women are too egotistical to put on to game. They really be thinking they are better than every woman out there but it's the way we're raised to be. Once I got that out my haed and started working on my personality, being considered, positive and pleasant to be around my success with men went through the roof.
"Gurl you a pick me...PERIODT:usure"


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NYC black coffee tough guys aka the Stoozy Boys
Fake woke mixed breed, who learned a few big words and wants a man that doesn't exist. I bet she's thirst trapping on her IG....because ultimately, that's all she wants, attention, and of course money.

Get you a girl who doesn't post on social media that much and worries about building herself and any dude that's serious about her. But ultimately, AWALT....its never gonna change....you can teach them new words, and showing them all types of wardrobe, but an estrogen bag, is gonna be just that.
 

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I dunno. That's his problem.

From aams perspective sounds like you're giving yourself alot of excuses to not hold your Man down, at your convenience.

Ah oh sorry baby working OT.
Ah oh sorry hun no ass tonight tired from work
No I can't work out been working 10 hours
No can't cook tired from work
No can't give head tired from work

Marry your career and avoid relationships

My time or hours aren't an issue. My issue would be what I mentioned not what you made up.
 

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Its 17 pages in so I'm assuming this has been said already...

But I don't think most men actually mind spending money on their women. Most men are suckers to a fault.

I just think (some) men are tired of the overwhelming flexing and entitlement. Who thinks it's a good idea to tell someone they're dating they ONLY want a provider soon as you meet them?

That and the 'Unfriendly Black Hottie' shirt really says all that needs to be said about women like her...real nikkas leave chicks like that on read frequently in 2019. A pretty face is not going to cancel out an insufferable personality.
 

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Exactly

Fat broke nikkas is where its at

Where did you get the fat from? I never dated a fat man in my life.

Again, idk broke men but maybe it is who knows. But dating a man that hangs money over your head is not a fun experience. Why run after someone else's shyt when you can have your owe?
 

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in those bw getting degree threads it's "they're getting worthless degrees. they're worth $5. black men still outearn them"

now it's "women outnumber men in college. they make just as much if not more than men. this makes no sense."
 
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