Shoutout to this black Sista for being honest and direct.

[Brock Landers]

Women talking about not wanting to be shamed for looking for a provider when all they have to offer themselves is p*ssy and a mental illness

Hoe babble is at an all time high in 2019

 

[reasonable_doubter]

Women are more employed than men and graduate from college more than men..... women are the new providers, men don't have to do anything for women in the traditional sense anymore....

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

Imagine putting in all this hard work and study only to settle for some thot who only brings p*ssy to the table . fukk no, lots of women out there that are intelligent go getters, I only date those. Women that want providers, I will only fukk. I don't like dumb women. I like looks too but in the long run, that is definitely not what I am looking for.

 

[BeeCityRoller]

All these Millennial/Gen-Z women jacking Nicole Michelles "I need a provider" talking points when they can't make a meal on the stovetop to save their life and forget to flush the toilet after theyre done in the bathroom

 

[MischievousMonkey]

Imagine putting in all this hard work and study only to settle for some thot who only brings p*ssy to the table . fukk no, lots of women out there that are intelligent go getters, I only date those. Women that want providers, I will only fukk. I don't like dumb women. I like looks too but in the long run, that is definitely not what I am looking for.

All facts

I don't need a pet nor a leech. Foh

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Credible men do not equate providing with gold-digging.

Gold-digging means a heartless pursuit of wealth without working for it or the least amount of resistance.

A man who has a woman who he feels is worth a damn, wants to provide for her. He’ll even be proud to if he feels she’s worth it.

A lot of women of today aren’t worth being taken care of.

 

[Benefited]

No, you have me mixed up with someone else

Idk where you got that from

Could it be the homosexual in your avi

Far as this thread,she is only right depending on her definition of provide. How much does she think it cost to "provide" is the question. And many women of today have a distorted view of what that is,and what a alpha is. If you consider a man making 6 figures with no long term plan for you an "alpha" and a "provider" thats your deathwish sweety pie:respect:

A man who can afford a crib with enough bedrooms for you and however many kids yall have,pay bills every month,has a life long plan and goals for you and your kids is someone I woud actually consider a provider. You can be a millionaire,down to somebody making less than 50K a year and be this. But I'm guessing she and most women speaking her rhetoric who have to defend being "gold diggers" aren't thinking tha way. But the devil is in the details,and she isn't giving the full story on her idea of "providing" which is what most of these ho's try to spin gold digging into,like they only want the basic neccesseties lol.

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

Low-key most of these women talking that "provider" shyt are just lazy and don't want to work but they have no choice or else they won't eat, plain and simple .

As the old saying goes... "You don't work, you don't eat" .

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Facts ... we all want alotta shyt...
What are u doing to get it...? Do u even deserve it...
And one thing I know is females dont really know what an alpha really is

Of course not..

They think flirty dudes who are overly emotional on that rah rah shyt are alphas.

Alot of these chicks get duped by sexual alphas..dudes with mouthpiece..then get pregnant and the real character comes out.

It's why we got so many single mothers..

Women don't know how to evaluate thorough men, and men aren't being raised on how to be men because most of raised by single moms/and or dysfunctional parents.

 

[Will Ross]

You only see black Women saying this goofy as shyt. And the crazy thing is the men they pick the most are never true providers they are just dude that have money and trick a few times or dudes that look like they got money that they end up taking care of

 

[Benefited]

^And she would probably only consider a man a "provider" who if she got pregnant could still afford to "provide" without her having to ever work,even if he dippsed. Thats not how it is supposed to work,if a man fukks you,gets you pregnant and leaves. You will then have to become "whole" like many of our single mothers had to do. But obviously if you fukk somebody rich you don't have to do that. If your mindset is living off child support,that means you are making bad decisions with your p*ssy and not being a righteous woman. Shouldn't be letting people fukk you raw without birth control if you aren't married,and don't think that person will be with you for the long haul.

 

[Goon for hire]

This why I only fukk white women

 

[Benefited]

Essentially, yes. And hold down the fort.
And I disagree to an extent, seen it first hand with my grandaddy. He bought them a fat crib and they had 6 kids and dude took care of the bills and worked and all that type shyt, my grandmama raised my daddy and nem and kept shyt in order at home. Was together til she passed a few yrs backs. Same house still up there in Youngstown, OH as we speak.

Same with my folks too, and then well my pops fukked that up. Dude got on the drugs heavy and it got to the point where bruh was hitting licks on the Ma Dukes to support his habit lol.


And yeah wat u said is both right and wrong. Some nikkas just bred to have a harem and not be tied down to the whole family shyt and that worked for them...some wanted that everyone under the same roof, Cosby family type shyt and that worked for them. It's not a one size fits all.

Your grandaddy did it right,its what I'm doing. I just can't afford as many kids in this society as I would like,one is best at the moment.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

If you date men that have bread you don't have this problem. Only women who complain about broke men are women who deal with them. I don't even know "broke" men like that.

Also being a provider is a mindset not bank account status.

 

[Brock Landers]

If you date men that have bread you don't have this problem. Only women who complain about broke men are women who deal with them. I don't even know "broke" men like that.

Also being a provider is a mindset not bank account status.

If a man was completely providing for your every financial need and you had nothing to possibly ask for, would you be willing to fully submit to him and his every need?