Side chicks are side chicks for a reason.

Wild self

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Yes some women are open to that type of arragement, the great majority of people who cheat both male and female aren't brave enough to state their intentions up front and just find someone who is down for that.
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I know plenty of people in open and/or swinging relationships and other non traditional relationships.
They are honest with one another and happy.

In any event this doesn't have much to do with what I quoted from you and what I responded.

Liars are liars.

The true men don't have to lie. They brave and upfront on what they want.

You also right about cheating being lame and cowardly. Liars never prosper.
 

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But why you so hurt? Side chicks, even for me, isn't always a given. If my wife/ long term partner can fulfill all those duties, then there is no need for that.

I'm not hurt...I'm just a deep person...and that comes out in my posts

I feel strongly about this...because I think men are the cause for the problems a lot of women face

When men say their not equal to us....that's like denying a woman's humanity

When men put themselves up as false gods...that's basically saying women should accept whatever from a man...

That's an unsettling mentality..this is why so many women don't trust a lot of men...

..its like dealing with a group of people who constantly tell you that their "good" but their actions don't show that...

But they want you to pretend as if you are living in an alternate reality where the majority of men are these loving beings...

I'm like ...get real...be honest...good men exist...but their not the majority of the population...

I don't find misogynistic men to be good men..because they harbor a prejudice against me...for simply being a woman...
 

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I'm not hurt...I'm just a deep person...and that comes out in my posts

I feel strongly about this...because I think men are the cause for the problems a lot of women face

When men say their not equal to us....that's like denying a woman's humanity

When men put themselves up as false gods...that's basically saying women should accept whatever from a man...

That's an unsettling mentality..this is why so many women don't trust a lot of men...

..its like dealing with a group of people who constantly tell you that their "good" but their actions don't show that...

But they want you to pretend as if you are living in an alternate reality where the majority of men are these loving beings...

I'm like ...get real...be honest...good men exist...but their not the majority of the population...

I don't find misogynistic men to be good men..because they harbor a prejudice against me...for simply being a woman...

Men don't hate women :beli:

We just like variety so that no one gets bored. Sadly, not everyone is made for a relationship.

But If I find that right woman, there would be no need for a side chick. I'm not denying anyone's humanity, just I rather be upfront with it.
 

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Just accept biology.

I know it's hard because estrogen governs your every action and thought.

But just accept it.
You talk about biology but women cheat as much as men according to some studies.

So does that say it's biologically imperative for women to have at least two partners as well? :ehh:
 

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I don't like the comparison of side chicks to side dishes.

Side chicks are more like dessert, an unhealthy cheat meal, or alcohol once every blue moon.

There isn't really nutritional value and the main course is nice but you can always have food that's good for you.

You know that recipe like the back of your hand and it's healthy, so you're happy to keep it in your diet even though it can get redundant.

Sometimes, you work hard and you know that life is short, so you treat yourself to a a little dessert while you're out.

You just know better than to keep that ice cream or whiskey in your freezer at home because having it regularly would make you miserable or ruin your life.

There'll probably be a time where you cut sweets and liquor out completely, but you've got time...
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Men don't hate women :beli:

A lot of men harbor a prejudice against women...


And that causes a lot of women to be wary of men in general...

I just don't understand why men can't see how their attitudes toward women causes a great deal of complications ....
 

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If your lady likes sharin u..then that speaks to ur character...u either a lame or aint connectin on some level :rudy: NEVER has a female I actually allowed to get in tune wit me, wanted to share a ngga...if u official tissue...nobody is on some sharing shyt because u know what might come of that. Too many frauds out here
 
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