Sigh..

[Sunshine]

People will not understand if they've never had a connection that is instantaneous. What I have learned is the situation is just as important as the person you select. If there is no clear path to sustain the connection, then it will lead to this type of disappointment. I'm sorry your heart is sad.

 

[Peter Popoff]

You sound sensitive bruh. You need some milk.

 

[Biscayne]

Trash communication strikes again

No offence OP but she was looking for a way out

Well, she sure played me. She played the game well. She kept hitting me up to FaceTime during the week. Even while I was at work. She’d be like “You didn’t answer your phone again, per usual”. We FaceTimed everyday. And she would initiate the FaceTime and phone calls. She was looking for a way out, of a relationship that she initiated. And that’s crazy to me. I fell in love, because of her persistence, but why be persistent and than pull a slick exit plan?

Then right before I left that house to meet up, she FaceTimed me naked. Showing me her breast and vaginal cavity. It was beautiful. But she was still acting weird. She’d hit me up to bother me during the week( I thought her persistence was cute and endearing) but would still act weird when we met up last night. We kissed a couple times on the first night we met, and everything. She was even the one who approached me when we first met. Why bother a breh and do everything you did when you have no interest? She’d text me everyday about how she wanted to see me. Jeez. I feel like a clown and a simp.

 

[Gobie1kenobie]

Broke up with my girl before anything really got off the ground.

Been with her only a week, and it was beautiful. Last night we met up, and she just seemed…ionno. She let me know before hand that her ex was in town, and that she blew him off because she was with me and that I’m her new man. We met up, and I bought her a drink and she went outside. And she was talking to one of her “guy” friends(I guess that was dude who dropped her off maybe. I know last week dude was trying to get with her while me and her were talking and she kinda kept ignoring him). But anyways, I’m holding the drinks and some other girl recognizes I’m with/dating ol girl and she’s like “your girl is outside”, and I see her outside talking to ol dude. The other girl was like “your dude(me) is inside with the drinks” and she kinda rolls her eyes, as if I’m just a nuisance. So I leave the drinks at the bar and go ghost. And she text me like where you at? I told her I went home. And she’s like “Look, if you’re gonna be like this just let me know if I should delete your number or not. I’m not about the games.” And I told her “Just do what you gotta do”. And that’s that. Now I’m just sad. Oh well, time to hit the gym. :sigh:

Sounds like you dodged a bullet

 

[Boogie]

That’s why I dipped. Without a trace. She kept hitting me up to FaceTime durin the week. Even while I was at work. She’d be like “You didn’t answer your phone again, per usual”.

Then right before I left that house to meet up, she FaceTimed me naked. Showing me her breast and vaginal cavity. It was beautiful. But she was still acting weird. She’d hit me up to bother me(I thought her persistence was cute and endearing) but would still act weird when we met up last night. We kissed a couple times, and everything. She was even the one who approached me when we first met. Why bother a breh and do everything you did when you have no interest? She’d text me everyday about how she wanted to see me. Jeez. I feel like a clown and a simp.

Yeah nikka you a clown. Sounds like she wanted a fling and you was already thinking about marriage and kids

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

A week???

 

[Paper Boi]

if it was one week then yall wasn't even really together to break up this 6th grade?


in all honesty it sounds like she was playing games though, but you also seem like you need therapy.

 

[Biscayne]

Yeah nikka you a clown. Sounds like she wanted a fling and you was already thinking about marriage and kids

She was the one who kept talking about how she could see herself marrying me and having my kid eventually. She’d text me “I love you” and all of that. This was hardly one sided. If she was just a whore, I would’ve treated the situation as such.

 

[RiverCity916]

Mark ass

 

[Boogie]

She was the one who kept talking about how she could see herself marrying me and having my kid eventually. She’d text me “I love you” and all of that. This was hardly one sided. If she was just a whore, I would’ve treated the situation as such.

Sounds like she spotted a simp and was playing the game accordingly

You fell for it right?

 

[Biscayne]

Sounds like she spotted a simp and was playing the game accordingly

You fell for it right?

Yes. I am a simp.

 

[Biscayne]

People will not understand if they've never had a connection that is instantaneous. What I have learned is the situation is just as important as the person you select. If there is no clear path to sustain the connection, then it will lead to this type of disappointment. I'm sorry your heart is sad.

I tried to build that path to sustenance. But in the end, it failed.

 

[Morethan1]

How she your girl after only a week?

nikkas fall in love to easy. I hope op is young. You live and learn.

In closing, this the last place you should want relationship advice from.

Bitter broken old black men

 

[KneeGrow.]

She was showing you her p*ssy hole on the phone within a week and you fell in love?

 

[Morethan1]

We established it on day 1. We were in love. Talking everyday. Man I’m a simp.

How long have you've known this girl to fall in love with her?

How old are you?