Signs she’s settling for you

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Issue is. Perceived value increases and decreases and sometimes one partner levels up a bunch and leaves the other behind
Broke man -> Gets money
Fat woman-> gets in shape
Average woman -> gets surgeries

Now all of a sudden shyt switches up. I think a lot of folks lack gratitude at the end of the day. If you got no issues with your partner and yall married yall need to be grateful for each other every day
This is different. If she left you bc she got in shape, sounds like she was always going to
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The Punisher and Daredevil couldn't have tortured me enough to get me to admit that shyt in the op. Makes 100% sense :huhldup:
 

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Settling implies she had better options but......ya know.....settled.

Usually what happens is that she can choose to be a side piece/jumpoff for a male "10" or be wifey to a male "7." The 7....he makes just as much money as Mr 10 but he's 5'9" with dad bod instead of 6'3" and looking like Tyson Beckford.

She's not settling because she was NEVER gonna get the hot breh to commit to anything besides a threesome with another girl on Saturday. Women have the illusion of choice. Odds are good but the goods are odd......

Seems like a lot of women view it as settling or not based on how other women view you.
 
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So she settling for you

Why the man isn’t settling for her


So many nikkas really put this much power in females hands with giving a woman a phrase of settling for you

So a woman who been fukked and dumped by dope boys/ex cons and has a kid or kids and regardless of her degree and salary would be settling for u? so want would you be doing if you entertain her as just a regular 9-5, 50/60k a year dude who travel and do everything as well

Stop letting any woman tell u she would be settling when those other nikkas wouldn’t even settle for her ass

because in the real world (not on fake coli everyone is a 6 certer streets) men do the chasing and women do the chosen. This is how it is even in the animal kindgom with the odd exceptions

We don't live in a world where the average man is the price, maybe there's a world out there in the universe where the roles are reversed but right here on earth, women do the choosing and only the top 1 percent of men are able to reverse that role for being the type of man that most women desire and no amount of confidence and "game" will change that dynamic for the average man
 
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You sound insecure breh.
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Old thread, but…

Most of the time, she’s settling if she could do better, she would.

Women in the intimate sense are very self serving creatures and they want a man that they can be proud of that is usually the strongest and best providers the field has to offer.

That’s why the man that doesn’t care much and isn’t really sweating her can have her easier than the more eager one.
 

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Old thread, but…

Most of the time, she’s settling if she could do better, she would.

Women in the intimate sense are very self serving creatures and they want a man that they can be proud of that is usually the strongest and best providers the field has to offer.

That’s why the man that doesn’t care much and isn’t really sweating her can have her easier than the more eager one.

Facts. And what they view as settling usually shifts with age. Seems like many are eventually forced to choose between the best looking man they can get vs the best provider they can get.
 

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Women rarely settle and if she settled for a man eventually she’ll start showing resentful behavior towards him. Women are the choosers and being in that position it gives women the opportunity to pick who they want out of all the men that approach her. Then imagine despite that, having to settle for her 9th choice? It’s just in their nature. Women would rather stay single than to be with a guy even if he on paper has good traits about him.
 

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When u kind of know who she previously dated

Say if they was ex cons, bums, nikka with hell of baby mamas , nikkas living in mamas basement but those nikkas stayed going out to clubs broke and smooth talking her

Then u come around with your life living low key decent and u can tell especially if she’s a older broad she going out her way to make u think she’s this lovely chick and always been looking for a decent dude , but you know those other nikkas never was going make a commitment because she was just a chick to live off of until they find a better option they really want

Most of the times the chicks be average or slightly below as well
 
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