Signs that she's a good woman

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Underrated thing that most people don't look at:

How well her plants and animals look and behave. If she has plants and they're in good shape, she has the temperament and discipline to take care of something to the point where it thrives.

If she has an obedient and friendly dog that is clean or a clean and friendly cat, then she has the discipline and patience to train the animal well.

If a woman has an unruly dog or cat, or always kills plants, she ain't responsible. Don't commit. This has been what I've noticed in my experience. Its also a red flag if she really spoils her animal and will spend a lot of money on its food or buying outfits for it.
 

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Underrated thing that most people don't look at:

How well her plants and animals look and behave. If she has plants and they're in good shape, she has the temperament and discipline to take care of something to the point where it thrives.

If she has an obedient and friendly dog that is clean or a clean and friendly cat, then she has the discipline and patience to train the animal well.

If a woman has an unruly dog or cat, or always kills plants, she ain't responsible. Don't commit. This has been what I've noticed in my experience. Its also a red flag if she really spoils her animal and will spend a lot of money on its food or buying outfits for it.
Nah these are all terrible indicators.

a good woman who is likely not gonna use u and who isn’t predisposed to having a wandering eye would have many of the following characteristics:

insists on paying a lot when y’all go out
Learns to enjoy doing what U like cause to her, seeing u happy makes her happy
She buys u countless gifts even without u buying her anything
She isn’t a follower or someone who can be easily swayed by the opinions of her friends.
She likes to cook for you
If she does a lot of the things listed above annnnnd comes from a two parent household, and is educated, u better snatch her up.

the women u should never ever ever consider marrying or taking seriously are women who have the following mental disposition:

“The person who ask for a date should be the one who pays for it” - this type of woman thinks she’s clever but what she really is, is selfish.

“a man has to court me. Do xyz for me before I can consider doing this or that”. - in most relationships men bring the most to the table. So if a girl says some dumb sh1t like this to u, well, u know what to do ;)
 

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Nah these are all terrible indicators.

a good woman who is likely not gonna use u and who isn’t predisposed to having a wandering eye would have many of the following characteristics:

insists on paying a lot when y’all go out
Learns to enjoy doing what U like cause to her, seeing u happy makes her happy
She buys u countless gifts even without u buying her anything
She isn’t a follower or someone who can be easily swayed by the opinions of her friends.
She likes to cook for you
If she does a lot of the things listed above annnnnd comes from a two parent household, and is educated, u better snatch her up.

the women u should never ever ever consider marrying or taking seriously are women who have the following mental disposition:

“The person who ask for a date should be the one who pays for it” - this type of woman thinks she’s clever but what she really is, is selfish.

“a man has to court me. Do xyz for me before I can consider doing this or that”. - in most relationships men bring the most to the table. So if a girl says some dumb sh1t like this to u, well, u know what to do ;)
These are mainstream indicators. I'm talking about signs people generally don't think about.

And if a woman is only doing stuff you like in an attempt to make you happy that can be suffocating. She should have her own interests that she can enjoy that don't involve other people or getting attention in some way e.g. making visual arts, writing, playing sports, crafts, watching films and TV, cooking as an artisan and challenging herself to come up with new recipes and mastering existing dishes.
 

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Nah these are all terrible indicators.

a good woman who is likely not gonna use u and who isn’t predisposed to having a wandering eye would have many of the following characteristics:

insists on paying a lot when y’all go out

She buys u countless gifts even without u buying her anything

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Sounds like you want a suga mummy :troll::unimpressed:
 

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Nah these are all terrible indicators.

a good woman who is likely not gonna use u and who isn’t predisposed to having a wandering eye would have many of the following characteristics:

insists on paying a lot when y’all go out
Learns to enjoy doing what U like cause to her, seeing u happy makes her happy
She buys u countless gifts even without u buying her anything
She isn’t a follower or someone who can be easily swayed by the opinions of her friends.
She likes to cook for you
If she does a lot of the things listed above annnnnd comes from a two parent household, and is educated, u better snatch her up.
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Is this a joke? :mjlol:
 

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here are a few things that I believe to be true based on my experience.

Ideally comes from a two parent household, she should have grown up with some discipline and has experience living with a male, experience living with a male is an important one!!! Learnt that from experience.

Go to her house, she should have books, if you go to her house and do not see one book ask her, where's your books, if she does not have one, forget her.
If you see magazines on her coffee table, what mags are they? If it's people magazine or vogue or dumb shyt like that dump her, STAY AWAY from these type of girls, not worth your time.

Does not have a strong social media presence and barely uses IG, tik tok or any of that shyt.

Does NOT wear alot of makeup, maybe sometimes but only on special occasions, she should look good naturally and feel confident walking around outside with no makeup on.

She should have hobbies, if she does not have hobbies she will make YOU her hobby, and fukk dat!!

If she gets a call from one of her girls, listen to the call a little to see how she communicates with her friends and what she talks about. Dump her if it's alot of gossiping.

PRIVACY!!! Dump her IMMEDIATELY if she shares stories about you with her friends and now her friends know too much about you. This is a hard one though, there's not many girls that can do this, if you find one keep her.

She can cook, if she can't cook there's no future.
 

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Listens

Communicates

Don’t post revealing photos

Compromising

Initiate (sex, convo, etc)

Has her own without HELP from someone

Good with family

Very few male friends

Female friends of substance

No baby daddy

Has not fukked rappers, athletes, dopeboys

Does not refer to her friends as “bytch” or “hoe” as terms of endearment

Does not refer to you as “her nikka”

Doesn’t curse like a sailor

Does not go on several exotic vacations with her girls or men throughout the year

Does not get dress to hit the streets to party at 11pm
 
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