Signs when someone you've been with ain't feeling you any more :mjcry:

[MikelArteta]

I've never chased after a woman and I never will.

What is so special that you are offering that no one else is?

 

[MikelArteta]

I save everything of importance.

Same how I save pictures of exes to remind myself I can get beautiful women

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO this guys saved texts from two years ago, yo


lmaooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

 

[beanz]

When she starts acting funny about sucking dikk.

this was the first sign for me with one of my exes. she used to be on it without me even asking her and then all of a sudden she didnt enjoy it anymore. i asked her why and she just said it makes her feel slutty.

i guess i can see how sucking more than 1 guy's dikk can make her feel slutty

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

when you walk in on her as she's in bed with the next man...and she don't even bother to tell you to get the fukk out....

I guess she was there like share me, breh. Should've just then to the bushes.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Give you the run around on chilling again.

 

[smARTmouf]

You can feel it in your gut, you can chase and act why etc.

Or you can just say ehh delete and move on.

Edit wrote about it today

Your gut/intuition is telling you that your place you once held in their heart no longer exist, once you were a priority however now you have been downgraded to an option.

So what do you do now? You can choose your own adventure…..

Showcase Number 1

1) You can sit around and accept the breadcrumbs and demotion.

2) You can sit around and be angry, flabbergasted, frustrated and make bitterness take over your heart.

3) You can contemplate maybe I did or said something wrong and just need to apologize to return to their good graces.

4) You can blow up their phone with a barrage of text messages and phone calls hoping to show you care.

5) You can Google how to reignite the fire in a relationship, and think of different tactics to win back your spot in their heart.

6) You can open up your wallet and buy an expensive gift, hoping that it shows how much you truly care.

7) You can sit around and stare at your phone hoping for a phone call or text message.

8) You can try and make them jealous to try and show “hey look at me others want me don’t you?”

9) You can pour out your heart and feelings and fight for them which hopefully in your mind may lead back to elevation.

Showcase Number 2

1 You can enjoy your life and only focus on those who focus on you.

2 You can enjoy your life and let those who deem you as valuable chase after you.

3 You can enjoy your life and never position anyone before you, your mental health or well being.

4 You can enjoy your life and flat out reject flakiness/wishy washy individuals.

5 You can enjoy your life and not worry about things you have no control over.

6 You can enjoy your life and realize that many individuals are just seasonal people that drift in and out of your life and not to stress over it.

7 You can walk away with your head held high no longer accepting disrespect

8 You can enjoy your life

9 Did I mention you can enjoy your life!!!!

Like everything in life the choice is yours, but as for I the day I invest in someone who does not invest in me well let’s just say its not happening.

Breh...get a segment on that coli radio show....You drop too many gems

 

[SmarkMero]

- When you start being always the one that starts a text convo

When It feels like you're the only one in that text convo

 

[Atlrocafella]

@Asantehene been dropping heat in the gems thread lately too. I see you breh

 

[Ohene]

@Asantehene been dropping heat in the gems thread lately too. I see you breh

there's more where that came from breh I've been absent lately.
Not even trying to waste keystrokes talking about these girls

 

[C-Styles]

sometimes when those signs are CRYSTAL CLEAR, we tend to ignore it or even deny those signs because we want it to work out and hoping she's just going through a phase, but 9 times out of 10 those signs are correct and just have to accept to move on!

 

[Atlrocafella]

@nalej breh, there's a nice little thread called "quick gems when dealing with women", go over and get your whole perspective changed. You'll be thankful

 

[iBrowse]

when you walk in on her as she's in bed with the next man...and she don't even bother to tell you to get the fukk out....

 

[Mike Ock]

 

[Battle Beast]

Damn breh you got a heart of stone. I might have to be more like you. Right now I'm a little more soft and miss a bond after I've been with someone.

I think that's the right reaction IMO I had a girl break up with me and a year later she hounding the crap out of me begging me to get back with her my reaction was

I asked her what did I tell her before about what happens when it's over the first time. There are no second chances

 

[nalej]

@nalej breh, there's a nice little thread called "quick gems when dealing with women", go over and get your whole perspective changed. You'll be thankful

I'll check it out