the secret they not saying is the girls they get with long term are usually 1 to 2 points lower than them(usally 2), and the girls who chase them and dont ghost them are 2 to 4 points below them. The ones on their level are hard for them if they dont have the right status in their niche/lane, possible but harder. They take the female 5's, 6's, and 7's away from their counter parts when they get hungry enough.
Looking at pics from the old days the women looked bettre than their man. These days it's looking the opposite, nikkas not holding out to stay in their lane and sacrificing 2 points for cooperation, or 2 to 5 points for ease of sex.