Signs your girl doesn't respect you

[O.T.I.S.]

You just have to let ignorant people be ignorant breh. Really, it's the only thing you can do. I can imagine the conversation meeting women at a club.

Man: You mind if I sit here?

Female: It's a free country, do what you want.

Man: So what brings you out here tonight?

Female: Need to relieve stress from work.

Man: Oh, what do you do?

Female: I'm the District Attorney. And you?

Man: Uhhh...I'm a record producer. I make millions of dollars yearly. Be right back, gotta head to the bathroom.

*Hightails it out of the club like Speedy Gonzales because he's a bytch.*

Especially if he has a respectable job/living too. Dude could be a Firefighter, a nurse, construction worker, etc. Real women want men with goals and ambitions. Muthafukka could want to open up a donut shop and she could be with it, even supportive of it.

I'm just wondering why he thinks having money means being a man. Being a man is doing shyt a man would do. Like take care of his family or support his wife if she is in a position to get more money than him. I guarantee that if someone was to break into my house I'm not gonna send my wife downstairs with the mossberg to check things out because she makes more money than me.


Kinda shallow way of thinking. Like all tall nikkas can fight or swoll nikkas can protect someone any more/less than a skinny nikka

 

[LionofJudah]

Especially if he has a respectable job/living too. Dude could be a Firefighter, a nurse, construction worker, etc. Real women want men with goals and ambitions. Muthafukka could want to open up a donut shop and she could be with it, even supportive of it.

I'm just wondering why he thinks having money means being a man. Being a man is doing shyt a man would do. Like take care of his family or support his wife if she is in a position to get more money than him. I guarantee that if someone was to break into my house I'm not gonna send my wife downstairs with the mossberg to check things out because she makes more money than me.


Kinda shallow way of thinking. Like all tall nikkas can fight or swoll nikkas can protect someone any more/less than a skinny nikka

Agree 100%. It's also notable to say that money only works when society is still standing. Given an instance like Hurricane Katrina, money does you no good because a) the stores are closed, and b) any store that is open is probably price gouging out the ass. I guarantee I'm not going to send my woman who makes more money than me out there amongst the wolves to get the basics that we need. So it's obvious that I'm a man, the man, and the one to look to in emergencies. fukk a salary..

 

[Trillion]

If she snaps at you or scolds you in public/in front of friends.

preach

 

[Trillion]

making more money don't mean you running shyt either. If you the type of nikka to let a bytch walk all over you, she'll do it regardless of how much you make.

dudes dont know

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Agree 100%. It's also notable to say that money only works when society is still standing. Given an instance like Hurricane Katrina, money does you no good because a) the stores are closed, and b) any store that is open is probably price gouging out the ass. I guarantee I'm not going to send my woman who makes more money than me out there amongst the wolves to get the basics that we need. So it's obvious that I'm a man, the man, and the one to look to in emergencies. fukk a salary..

Exactly... shyt like that matters to nikkas whose women don't know a he's the man. Maybe he can't find another way to prove it other than his pocket book

And the Perfect woman TOO ME is the one who got my flank. She gonna have my back or she got a glock waiting in the bedroom if I don't come back

Riding with me

But real world example, my homie is making a modest military salary. His wife has been getting opportunities to be in a few movies and he's like fukk YES.

 

[ThiefyPoo]

I when i see a bish with her bf and she chops it up with some other dudes (that are tryin to lightweight holla) and treats her dude like he's not even there

Running up and hugging dudes



I see that all the time

 

[marcuz]

- you drive passenger in your car

 

[↓R↑LYB]

where does this imaginary buffer of 90k come from to put you in a position to make equal decisions?

It's called being a man breh. When my ex made more than I did, I still made the decisions. Why? Because deep down every broad wants a nikka who can lead her to where she wants to go even if she don't know she wanna go there. Being able to sit a chick down and point her in the direction she needs to go and leading her there is the easiest way to get a broad to respect you. But most y'all nikkas want to demand a broad to respect you when you've done nothing respectable.

these woman arent going out and earning more just to take demands from you nikkas. deep down y'all know it too, dont know nikkas get online and start lying about the shyt.

It's in a woman's DNA to fall in line when a man takes that position in her life. Every broad I've dealt with told me the exact same thing, I was the first nikka they met where they felt like they could blindly follow me, and they've all acted accordingly. It's the reason why I'm 31 years old (aka ) and never have broads come at me sideways. Regardless of what you look like, how much you make, or what your station in life is, my character will let you fall in line and salute me as commander in chief. That's how I seen my pops move and that's what I emulate.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Not really frustrated but just trying to understand the logic



Money isn't the only way to provide for a family, is it? Your man hood is based on how much money you make? So if you don't make the most money in the household, then basically you don't have any power as a man in your household, so you are powerless in society? Kinda primitive way of thinking


And that still doesn't explain the disrespect a man might still receive in his house even when he makes more money


And it's not about how much you make but how much you spend. If woman makes 130k and her man makes half of that, could he still not provide for his family financially if, lets say, she loses her job? They might not be eating filet mignon every week but they would still be eating, right?

That's your first mistake breh, you do realize you're trying to understand a demon

 

[Marco Zen]

Yep

I can understand a chick saying hi to some friends, but if you all up in other nikkas faces then






I straight left a chick trying that shyt once. She was following outside like "Where you goin? They're my friends"

IKR!

I was at a gathering and this dudes chik come up to me sayin "what's up GQ. I told my bf that's my nickname for you because you always fresh as hell".... I was like bytch ease up off my dikk dam , your man RIGHT THERE

 

[O.T.I.S.]

IKR!

I was at a gathering and this dudes chik come up to me sayin "what's up GQ. I told my bf that's my nickname for you because you always fresh as hell".... I was like bytch ease up off my dikk dam , your man RIGHT THERE

Yep

That's why they do shyt like that tho. nikkas let shyt like that slide. I sat there watched her get all excited, cheesed it up, then gave her the dueces...


I can't take a chick serious if she's not willing to check herself when it comes to male friends, ex's, whatever. I tell a chick that's trying to be serious, If you still hanging with random nikkas, talking to ex's, etc. then do you because I'm gonna do me

 

[Marco Zen]

It's not an insecurity thing wit me but ain no such thing as "male friends" for a woman I'm in a relationship with unless the mfer gay.

Men are dogs. I kno bcuz I am one. So gtfoh with that "oh he's just my co-worker, oh I been knowin him since 5th grade, oh he was there for me when my cat died blah blah" ..fukk HIM!!

I don't wanna hear bout how he wud never hit on you out of respect. BULshyt. It mite not happen tomoro, next week, next year, but when that window is open HE WILL DO IT (bcuz I would lol).. Male friends my ass

 

[ThaRealness]

Preach

You're the man in the relationship because you're the one with the dikk. If a chick makes more $$$ than you thats more money she spends on you or with you and it doesn't mean you're broke. That mean both yall


If a woman is with you because of money it means she'll leave your ass over money too

And possibly take that money with her

 

[O.T.I.S.]

And possibly take that money with her

And hell yea, let my chick make more cash than me. She ever want a divorce then I'm eating

 

[O.T.I.S.]

It's not an insecurity thing wit me but ain no such thing as "male friends" for a woman I'm in a relationship with unless the mfer gay.

Men are dogs. I kno bcuz I am one. So gtfoh with that "oh he's just my co-worker, oh I been knowin him since 5th grade, oh he was there for me when my cat died blah blah" ..fukk HIM!!

I don't wanna hear bout how he wud never hit on you out of respect. BULshyt. It mite not happen tomoro, next week, next year, but when that window is open HE WILL DO IT (bcuz I would lol).. Male friends my ass

And that's another disrespectful thing to me

I don't give a fukk about your male friends, ex's, none of that. Don't voluntarily tell me shyt about them. Because if I was to talk about my ex's to her then she'll flip out