Idk about this particular situation but it's really dudes out here that are this dumb when it comes to women.
In the black community you can't criticize a black woman for anything without an army of men and women descending on you saying you hate women or bringing up your mother or sisters.
Some nikkas say fukk it and let their nuts hang anyway, these are the men who "win" (for lack of a better term) in their interactions with women.
But a lot of dudes ride the wave of public opinion and elevate women almost to a position as a deity. They genuinely believe women aren't just regular people and can be scumbags and just terrible. They think of them in generalized terms with the women they know who are actually good.
Predatory women can spot these nikkas from a mile away and will juice them for everything they have.
I remember this one lil coke head pill head chick that was decent looking but a terrible person. nikkas could run trains and everything for a 16th of blow or a few oxys.
This older nikka was getting disability checks from a military injury. Kind of a nerd, wasn't really getting ass like that. The nikka was paying her a rack each time just to fukk her. Eventually he started falling behind on bills, and fukking with that girl got on pills and blow, which didn't help at all.
When he ran out of money, she dipped. This nikka thought she was really finna show appreciation for all the money and gifts he gave her. His uncle tried to tell him to leave that girl alone and get his life back in order. nikka was so mad his uncle besmirched her good name he hit him in the head with a steel pipe.
Caught a felony, lost his military benefits, lost the family home his mom left to him.