Someone's gotta do the dirty work. 
Simp nikka proposes to a single mother & her kid
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You lowkey just proved every breh whos against wifing single mothers point, wife a woman whos kids will hate you breh, do all the Daddy shyt only for them toand say you not they father breh, waste your youth raising another mans seed only to have them
towards you once they older.
I swear you nikkas.... i cant even
this the life yall simp ass nikkas choose.
It ain't low key breh, I'm the #GMB #WifeSingleMothers, nightmare in the flesh, I embody all those fears... They choose that life they better make sure my kind aren't lurking nearby... My bm husband made that sacrifice so you wouldn't have to...My situation different though... Dude didn't raise them, they been with me & mine almost all they life... He wasn't doing extra "daddy shyt" they couldn't get from me & mine... They didn't have no problem with dude til he started the "I'm your dad now" shyt while I'm heavily in their lives, they found that shyt disrespectful... I used to ride with dude to go shopping for the kids & we was civil with each other at family functions up until that point...
Dude just kept trying too hard to outdo/replace me & the shyt backfired... If he woulda just played his position & did him shyt woulda been all good... My boys loved my new chick, she made it clear she wasn't trying to replace their mom, but just wanted to be a part of their life...
I don't see the problem with this
I'd never even mess with a single father, and if I was a dude the same would still apply for a single mother
but more power to them they're a happy family I don't get the problem with this plus I hate the excuse of bad judgement
so it's only the moms fault for getting pregnant, what about the father, what about the deadbeats
time and time again y'all admit how manipulative y'all can be towards women I just don't get how it's always the mother's fault it takes two to tango
I'd never even mess with a single father, and if I was a dude the same would still apply for a single mother
but more power to them they're a happy family I don't get the problem with this plus I hate the excuse of bad judgement
so it's only the moms fault for getting pregnant, what about the father, what about the deadbeats
time and time again y'all admit how manipulative y'all can be towards women I just don't get how it's always the mother's fault it takes two to tango
To ur point about "what about the fathers" in regards to bad decision making..
Nobody is absolving baby daddies of any fault.
But lets keep it 100... women are the choosers of who comes in and out of their body. for the most part, men are just walking around trying to find new ways to get inside new p*ssy. We cant get in unless u unlock the locks and give us the green light.
Also, like other posters are saying, there are many varieties of birth control... 1 of them is not letting nikkaz stick their dikks in u...
To sum it all up... women are the controllers of sex... so they have to take most of the responsibility for everything that comes from Sex..
a new low for humanity.
LoStranger
Banned
Lmao this nikka claims to know the game but then says this shyt. Those bytches are settling for them, they have no choice in that matter. And nikkas could still fukk if he really wanted too. They already made a bad decision in the fact that they had a child with a nikka they ain’t plan on spending their life with, do you really think they ain’t cheating on that nikka, still being used as a cum bucket?
Like I said; I don’t want single parents little b*stards running around, shooting each other up and trying to steal my shyt, living on welfare and raising the damn taxes. I’m looking at it from a echonomics viewpoint, y’all nikkas looking at it with emotions like the single mothers who had a child with some broke ass nikka based off emotions
Imma assume all you nikkas crying was raised by single mothers
no words my nikka no words....
It's that time again! Time for actual facts about single mothers in the blk community so that a$$holes don't use lies and stereotypes to shyt on and dismiss any blk female single mother, time!
Go here to verify the stats and for more interesting facts!
https://singlemotherguide.com/single-mother-statistics/
1.) How many Single parent homes are there in the U. S.?
There are 12 million single parent homes in the U.S. based off Census data and estimates. (These estimates are generally considered accurate b/c they are also tied to benefits---another stereotype associated with single moms)
80% of those 12 million homes are female led.
80% of 12 million = 9.6 million female led single homes and 2.4 million male led single homes.
2.) Okay, so how many of those 9.6 million female led single parent homes are Black female led single parent homes?
Roughly 1/3 of the 9 million female led single parent homes are black females.
1/3 of 9 million equals roughly 3 million Black single mothers.
3.) "But wait, EVERY blk woman I meet is a single mom! It's GOTTA be more than that. Every time I go to Walmart I see..." "All the stats say 70% of black kids are born to OOW households. It's gotta be more than that!"
Nope. Media and stereotypes as well as confirmation bias has played a large role in fallaciously associating black females with single motherhood, even tho the majority of blk females are single and childless or had children within marriages.
Also due to the fact that these 3 million black single mothers are having more kids than married or other blk women, people naturally think that 70% of children being born must mean that 70% of black women at single moms. This is false. After all it doesn't take 70 women to have 70 kids. 20-25 women could easily have 70 kids if each female has an average of 2-4 children...which is exactly what happens. Those 3 million blk women across the U.S. are the baby boomers for most children born in our community, while the rest of blk women have less children or no children at all.
3.) Okay soooo even if there aren't that many single moms, they probably all on welfare or using the system, right?
No. Under half of those children live in poverty and only half of single mother households recieve food stamps.
For blk single mothers that's around 1.5 million.
4.) Well they gotta be probably fukking up some blk dude's wallet for child support, right?
Wrong. Only a small percentage of single moms recieve child support.
5.) Well they probably just all whores that fukked thugs and was just out there making babies, so fukk em.
Wrong again. Half of single moms or roughly 50% of them were married and got divorced. It seems like we are actually talking about a minority within a minority when it comes to stereotyping single mothers. Only half of an already small amount of single moms in the U.S. (Half of 9 million women) had their babies out of wedlock.
About 30% of them are divorcees and 20% are widowed.
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So knowing these facts my question to the men is this: why are myths about single moms so pervasive, particularly with blk women? It's not like the facts aren't out there. I blame media and Reagan Era welfare queen propaganda. I dunno but u can check facts for urself here and stop using racist stereotypes to shyt on blk women.
I didn't really bring up the multiple baby daddies thing b/c that's a whole nother issue.
Go here to verify the stats and for more interesting facts!
https://singlemotherguide.com/single-mother-statistics/
1.) How many Single parent homes are there in the U. S.?
There are 12 million single parent homes in the U.S. based off Census data and estimates. (These estimates are generally considered accurate b/c they are also tied to benefits---another stereotype associated with single moms)
80% of those 12 million homes are female led.
80% of 12 million = 9.6 million female led single homes and 2.4 million male led single homes.
2.) Okay, so how many of those 9.6 million female led single parent homes are Black female led single parent homes?
Roughly 1/3 of the 9 million female led single parent homes are black females.
1/3 of 9 million equals roughly 3 million Black single mothers.
3.) "But wait, EVERY blk woman I meet is a single mom! It's GOTTA be more than that. Every time I go to Walmart I see..." "All the stats say 70% of black kids are born to OOW households. It's gotta be more than that!"
Nope. Media and stereotypes as well as confirmation bias has played a large role in fallaciously associating black females with single motherhood, even tho the majority of blk females are single and childless or had children within marriages.Also due to the fact that these 3 million black single mothers are having more kids than married or other blk women, people naturally think that 70% of children being born must mean that 70% of black women at single moms. This is false. After all it doesn't take 70 women to have 70 kids. 20-25 women could easily have 70 kids if each female has an average of 2-4 children...which is exactly what happens. Those 3 million blk women across the U.S. are the baby boomers for most children born in our community, while the rest of blk women have less children or no children at all.
3.) Okay soooo even if there aren't that many single moms, they probably all on welfare or using the system, right?
No. Under half of those children live in poverty and only half of single mother households recieve food stamps.
For blk single mothers that's around 1.5 million.
4.) Well they gotta be probably fukking up some blk dude's wallet for child support, right?
Wrong. Only a small percentage of single moms recieve child support.
5.) Well they probably just all whores that fukked thugs and was just out there making babies, so fukk em.
Wrong again. Half of single moms or roughly 50% of them were married and got divorced. It seems like we are actually talking about a minority within a minority when it comes to stereotyping single mothers. Only half of an already small amount of single moms in the U.S. (Half of 9 million women) had their babies out of wedlock.
About 30% of them are divorcees and 20% are widowed.
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So knowing these facts my question to the men is this: why are myths about single moms so pervasive, particularly with blk women? It's not like the facts aren't out there. I blame media and Reagan Era welfare queen propaganda. I dunno but u can check facts for urself here and stop using racist stereotypes to shyt on blk women.
I didn't really bring up the multiple baby daddies thing b/c that's a whole nother issue.
I'm assuming you're talking about OP because I didn't go hard on single mother's.
I'm in agreement but I'm saying don't be mad at another nikka for making that choice.Jealous
Who jealous of a nikka raising another mans seed
If thats the life you want go head, but ill be damned if i work my ass off doing 2 jobs going to school and having side hustles, and damn near killing myself in the gym just to wife up someone that another nikka bust in
@Playa_Wit_A_Passport Hoe ass nikka negged me because his feelings hurt.
A Thread about single black mothers on thecoli=
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A lot of men who find themselves single after having had children are reluctant to enter into long term relationships with single women, especially if he doesn't want any more kids.