Simp nikka proposes to a single mother & her kid

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People do this everyday,....

The potential shyt storm in a situation like this is seeing how young that child is, means bbf was not that long ago, and who knows if feelings may change for the father or ol boy may want his family back or what have you. Some spur of the moment emotions don't always last... hopefully that's not the case.


Exactly there is a 90% chance that she has some sort of feelings for the baby father.
 

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SMH these guys ain't got no standards these days that's every hoodrat dream, screw around having fun and find a sucka to settle down with. We all know damn well the men most single mothers end up with wouldn't have gave them the time of day before the baby.
 
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i don't have a problem with this. it says alot about dudes being highly invested in the next man's life choice. if she ain't shyt, that's his problem. if she's a great woman, dude won. :yeshrug:
this single mom outrage is irrational given the fact that, we live in a society where more and more ppl are having casual sex, and are forgetting that sex is about procreating. kids are made between ppl who don't envision a life with one another. pops breaks out, or momma gets rid of him. hence single mothers.. if u in the dating game, you're bound to meet single moms.:comeon:


also alot of u nikkas lack context . a single mom with one kid, is different than a single mom with 3 kids. a single mom with 1 kid with no job, is different than a single mom with 2 kids and a solid job . a single mom at age 23, is different than a single mom at age 37 ... they are ain't shyt single moms, great single mom. great women with no kids, aint shyt women with no kids. as a man your job is to vet the situation, and the woman therefore making the best life choice for your self.
 

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I'm not the OP but it matters because it sets a precedent that bad behavior and mistakes can and will be rewarded and somebody else will just pick up the tab. That is a horrible phenomenon to have set in motion.
It doesn't effect you at all so why care? Why worry about women you refuse to date anyway feel or think? Y'all scared that single mother's will feel entitled but you aren't willing to date them anyway so why care?
 
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@Trent get off of my tale nikka. All you do is follow me around a neg me. It's obvious that having a baby out of wedlock is dishonorable but no one deserves to be single and lonely for the rest of their lives because of a past mistake. Besides, it's plenty of single fathers out here too.
 

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:francis:

If you simp nikkaz stopped giving irresponsible women a pass, women would act right


See how that single mother was in tears, so happy & relieved to be saved:cape:


so, that guy took the responsibility to save that kids life to create a whole family which improved the black community overall and you have a problem with it.:what:
 

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Question to the dime store pimps.

If a woman has a baby by a dude and it dont work out, should she just curl up into a ball and die and never date?

Flipside: if a man finds a woman and she just happens to have a seed, should u treat the kid like shyt, ignore him, and not care for him because he was born out of a relationship that didnt work?

Just tell me how a "real nikka" is supposed to operate outchea

Women with kids should marry nikkas with kids. Or even better, stop having babies with nikkas that ain’t marry them. With modern birth control that shouldn’t be an issue but for some reason it is. Crazy how white women, Asian women and Indian women are having all kinds of sex too yet they ain’t having kids without rings.
 

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i don't have a problem with this. it says alot about dudes being highly invested in the next man's life choice. if she ain't shyt, that's his problem. if she's a great woman, dude won. :yeshrug:
this single mom outrage is irrational given the fact that, we live in a society where more and more ppl are having casual sex, and are forgetting that sex is about procreating. kids are made between ppl who don't envision a life with one another. pops breaks out, or momma gets rid of him. hence single mothers.. if u in the dating game, you're bound to meet single moms.:comeon:


also alot of u nikkas lack context . a single mom with one kid, is different than a single mom with 3 kids. a single mom with 1 kid with no job, is different than a single mom with 2 kids and a solid job . a single mom at age 23, is different than a single mom at age 37 ... they are ain't shyt single moms, great single mom. great women with no kids, aint shyt women with no kids. as a man your job is to vet the situation, and the woman therefore making the best life choice for your self.

No single moms

Period

If you under 40 dating single moms, you’re desperate.
 
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