Simp, simp, HOORAY

[25YOUTHS!!]

"The only thing I thought i'd never be able to tolerate was a cheater but this relationship taught me that cheating is just a flavor of lying and it is the lack of trust (dishonesty) that I can't tolerate."
Bruuuhhh

So you believe she lying about everything....except the cheating
SOunds legit

 

[BBG]

"The only thing I thought i'd never be able to tolerate was a cheater but this relationship taught me that cheating is just a flavor of lying and it is the lack of trust (dishonesty) that I can't tolerate."
Bruuuhhh

So you believe she lying about everything....except the cheating
SOunds legit

Yeah I realize how damaged I am honestly and the only reason I want to do the counseling thing is to get myself better. If she gets better great maybe we can work something out, but more important is for ME to get better because whether I'm with her or not I'm going to have to figure out a way to reverse the effects of constantly being lied to by the person you love.

I came into this relationship with a lot of problems and it looks like I only managed to add another.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

How can you love a liar, you can't love someone you don't even know

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Dated one before and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. They lie so much they believe it’s the truth and they do it so well because they are used to doing it... research compulsive liars and you’ll see.. lol

My sons mom is one. She lied about her middle name. So...

 

[BBG]

My sons mom is one. She lied about her middle name. So...

What ended up happening with this? Im anxious to gain insight from nikkas that have actually been in a similar position.

nikkas clowning and that's cool lol but jokes aside leaving someone that you know for a fact loves you and you also love back is hard. It only gets harder as time goes by so yeah I agree with yall wit everything yall saying like the fact that I'm damaged and it'll be hard to ever trust her again and staying in a relationship without trust is toxic bro I get all that shyt i really do. But on some player shyt you always gotta keep your head and realize if you at the point in life where you want to build with somebody and you have been for three years then you want to make sure that you've given it your all you dont just get up and be like fukk this im out


I mean sure you can but then you'll always wonder if your lack of patience caused you to miss out on a girl that really loved you and wanted to be with you because you decided you couldn't tolerate it anymore. That's a damn good reason to leave somebody but when love is involved it just gets more complicated, which is why I'd love to hear from the nikkas that have dealt with somebody like this AND STAYED LONG ENOUGH FOR IT TO BE SERIOUS and what ended up happening.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

What ended up happening with this? Im anxious to gain insight from nikkas that have actually been in a similar position.

nikkas clowning and that's cool lol but jokes aside leaving someone that you know for a fact loves you and you also love back is hard. It only gets harder as time goes by so yeah I agree with yall wit everything yall saying like the fact that I'm damaged and it'll be hard to ever trust her again and staying in a relationship without trust is toxic bro I get all that shyt i really do. But on some player shyt you always gotta keep your head and realize if you at the point in life where you want to build with somebody and you have been for three years then you want to make sure that you've given it you're all you dont just get up and be like fukk this im out


I mean sure you can but then you'll always wonder if your lack of patience caused you to miss out on a girl that really loved you and wanted to be with you because you decided you couldn't tolerate it anymore. That's a damn good reason to leave somebody but when love is involved it just gets more complicated, which is why I'd love to hear from the nikkas that have dealt with somebody like this AND STAYED LONG ENOUGH FOR IT TO BE SERIOUS and what ended up happening.

She’s cheated, had an affair, left me and is bedwench.

 

[BBG]

She’s cheated, bad an affair, left me and is bedwench.

did y'all ever seek professional help?

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

did y'all ever seek professional help?

Nope

 

[Bless't]

"The only thing I thought i'd never be able to tolerate was a cheater but this relationship taught me that cheating is just a flavor of lying and it is the lack of trust (dishonesty) that I can't tolerate."
Bruuuhhh

So you believe she lying about everything....except the cheating
SOunds legit

 

[dterpsss]

im sure its been said but you share that girl

 

[HimmyHendrix]

Pretty sure you share that girl sounds like my bm (She-Devil)

 

[fortheblessings]

I'm so focused on cheating I never looked at it that way. That shyts wild




For everyone else saying leave her and shyt... She agreed to go to therapy and I said I'll go with her. I mean if I've stuck around this long I can at least see if the therapy shyt works right? Or are y'all just convinced that that shyt is just overpaid cacs listening to you cry for an hour or so



Oh and by the way she not autistic y'all lmao I just used that for an example

Any black man that has to go cry to a cac in an office should off himself, bounce nikka, and stop talking like a thottie all this black queen talk.

 

[fortheblessings]

OP is the Coli's very own Rob Kardashian


#GMB


and he's from Chicago and has dreads (which means he probably won't survive to the end of the year)


L

Hey bytch nikka was that really necessary

 

[Dad]

If you want this to work, you both need to seek professional help. This isn’t healthy no matter how many excuse you give her.

 

[ThisWorldAintRight]

You said you already deaded her right?


Leave it that way breh, trust, there's no fixing her. That Snapchap shyt she pulled is the maximum disrespect. Blocked you so you couldn't see all the nasty shyt she was doing.