The sheer ducktales of this all. lol
You're a software engineer (they make about 80k btw), that doesn't date so he can save up the money to travel. You do realize how implausible that sounds, right? lol
There's only one type of man that obsesses about not spending money on dates. Men who ain't got money like that. It's understandable though. When you barely have enough money to support yourself, it's hard to spend it on/with someone else.


