Single brehs. How’s da dating game treating you?

[Mr.bocario]

I appreciate you fukking with my product, but the Coli brehs self esteem is a little bit too low for my game to help them

 

[Balla]

All facts

Dating is a complicated, frustrating and depressing experience at times. Even when you're not in a drought you're stringing along people you may not be very attracted to and these are always the ones who seem to get attached. Now you're in a dilemma where you have to keep up appearances or risk hurting someone that's actually good to you. The whole time you're thinking; "what am I going to do when someone comes along I really want to be with?" Even if you let the woman know what it is in the beginning emotions outweigh logic long term and next thing you know you have someone in love with you but they're more of a cool homegirl you're fukking. Men have a lot more tact regarding these situations because women have no issue going ghost on you once they get attention from someone they feel is "more their speed." Men will try to at least ease our way out of it gently.

Anywhoodles, beyond that, realistically speaking women are too emotionally damaged and ignorant to be taken seriously as romantic partners. You kind of just have to grope around in the mass of sewage and hope that you pull out a diamond or at best a less disgusting turd. If you're average that's pretty much your future as far as dating is concerned. You'd honestly pull more women if you lacked standard education and employment and fell to the lower extremes. Because women, just like every human, are more interested in the extremes than the average. An average looking breh with an average job, average house/apartment, an average car and average social life/social media presence won't even be able to attract average women. Well, not without great effort. You're invisible and your life is boring in a time where entertainment > et al.

If you're average I advise that you do things that can improve yourself overall and not just for the benefit of attracting the attention of women. Focus on your health and wellness, study and master your industry, and seek hobbies and interests that get you away from the matrix of Insta, Twitter and FB. Your quality of life will improve and women will become the accessory to your life that they should be and not a necessity that you feel empty and inadequate without. Easier said than done true but you have to take baby steps.

 

[Balla]

What do you consider yourself as

Dating is a complicated, frustrating and depressing experience at times. Even when you're not in a drought you're stringing along people you may not be very attracted to and these are always the ones who seem to get attached. Now you're in a dilemma where you have to keep up appearances or risk hurting someone that's actually good to you. The whole time you're thinking; "what am I going to do when someone comes along I really want to be with?" Even if you let the woman know what it is in the beginning emotions outweigh logic long term and next thing you know you have someone in love with you but they're more of a cool homegirl you're fukking. Men have a lot more tact regarding these situations because women have no issue going ghost on you once they get attention from someone they feel is "more their speed." Men will try to at least ease our way out of it gently.

Anywhoodles, beyond that, realistically speaking women are too emotionally damaged and ignorant to be taken seriously as romantic partners. You kind of just have to grope around in the mass of sewage and hope that you pull out a diamond or at best a less disgusting turd. If you're average that's pretty much your future as far as dating is concerned. You'd honestly pull more women if you lacked standard education and employment and fell to the lower extremes. Because women, just like every human, are more interested in the extremes than the average. An average looking breh with an average job, average house/apartment, an average car and average social life/social media presence won't even be able to attract average women. Well, not without great effort. You're invisible and your life is boring in a time where entertainment > et al.

If you're average I advise that you do things that can improve yourself overall and not just for the benefit of attracting the attention of women. Focus on your health and wellness, study and master your industry, and seek hobbies and interests that get you away from the matrix of Insta, Twitter and FB. Your quality of life will improve and women will become the accessory to your life that they should be and not a necessity that you feel empty and inadequate without. Easier said than done true but you have to take baby steps.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

Humble brag here... always wondered how dudes not getting no meow out here. I was single for two years and easily had a 5 woman lineup... which was exhausting btw. Most were college educated, with well paying jobs over 50k. A couple had a kid but nothing out of the norm for 30 plus women. Even been an average fella I did ok. Just have a decent personality brehs and don’t be scared to talk. You’ll eat well.

Just curious what's your height?

 

[MaxPain]

Ever since I found Match its like shooting fish in a barrel

Its damn near demonic

 

[DirtyMoney]

Ever since I found Match its like shooting fish in a barrel

Its damn near demonic

Thanks for the 411, might have to slide in some DMS

 

[Shadow King]

I feel you. In the end you won’t be happy if you force it, because you’ll have to compromise.

I feel a lot of the brehs saying they’re waiting to get their shyt together. At the same time, there will never be a perfect moment. You’ll be waiting forever.

I'm not looking for a perfect moment but if I'm not happy with myself there's not much of a point putting myself out there. I'll never really dress the part to have women choosing but there's nothing in almost 25 years of life I can take any pride in. I'm trying to do things that should've been done 5 years ago.

 

[TheArchitect]

Seek help bro

yeah, I may need to do the same if shyt keeps us the way it is....

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

@Gwoppo this is what I'm talking about. I went out last night and ended up pulling this white chick. Chick was super into me, saying I was different and that our convo was the most enjoyable convo she's had in a really long time. She told me to take her number and to text her. I texted her when I got home to gauge interest (thought I may have been able to get her to come over). She responded and told me she was at the club and asked how I was. I told her she should have stayed at the place we were at and talked more. She hasn't hit me back yet. Chick is crazy as hell so I know that I'm never going to see her again. And I know if I text her she probably won't respond. Did I do something wrong? No. There's probably a ton of reasons why it probably won't go anywhere. That's just how it is for so reason. You can do everything right and practically have the p*ssy in your hands and then she just stops talking suddenly. Dating game is like that

 

[yakamein]

Just curious what's your height?

6’2 235

 

[seymour cake]

Lmao you know what’s funny? I scroll through posts like these and in my head I’m admiring the quality because it’s always good when fellow members of the male specimen are swimming in p*ssy, but then at the same time I’m wondering HOW do y’all nikkas get like this

shyt has been dryer than chicken breast on my end, I wanna feast. Unfortunately I feel like I won’t be eating like this until my money gets better, but I feel like by then I’ll have already “missed out” on that “young nikka”-fun.

You dont need money to get p*ssy breh.. Soon as u think that u already lost. Now if ya money aiint right of course get ya prioritise together first.. And shyt tbh the hoes is where the money at..you get 5 different girls to give you $100 a week or even a month thats $500 in da pocket.

But just be ya self and have confidence..whats da worst that could happen? She say no..fukk it on too da next one..

Females be just as lonely and scared to holla just like us..you just got to shoot ya shot..

 

[-deleted-]

You just told yourself foh

What will you have changed in a year? A year might be too long

Lmao, nah where I’m from that’s a normal thing. Just the way we speak around my side.

In a year my body will be more on point, my money will be longer, I’ll have more accomplished under my belt. Then I can give myself leeway to pull up on chicks more because I’ll have more going for myself already. I know, a year is a long time but if you’re getting your shyt together it’s worrh it. Besides girls literally ain’t checking for me anyway, and if you want results to change you have to change your methods

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

6’2 235

Do you think that might have an effect on your success with women? I always felt like face mattered the most to women and then height, status, or money makes up for whatever you lack in that category.

 

[International Playa]

My date for today rescheduled for next Sunday

Last night went out with my boy & his female cousins, one of the female cousins was really drunk, had to hug up on her n walk her to the car. Teasing me with her pusssy, my boy would kill me if I ever smashed his cousins

Going back to my ex who keeps sending me pics of "us" is tempting in this dry spell but sex was trash, she dont give head so I will stay strong for now

 

[yakamein]

Do you think that might have an effect on your success with women? I always felt like face mattered the most to women and then height, status, or money makes up for whatever you lack in that category.

It’s all about character and drive bro. I know fat charming dudes no homo. Short ambitious and outgoing dudes. And they’re all smashing something. I’m patrially ugly lol. But I’m outgoing, smile a lot, and have a decent personality. It works for me. Find what works for you.