Single brehs. How’s da dating game treating you?
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Yeah well I'm in my thirties and only talk to women who are also in thirties now
I've prob been out with like 20 diff women since I hopped back in the game last November.
All were attractive childless, educated and in shape. Many though had emotional baggage and were clingy or asking about marriage and ish but it was simple and easy. I have the high ground now, in my twenties it was like the other way around I got women but it felt like I had to do more.
I've prob been out with like 20 diff women since I hopped back in the game last November.
All were attractive childless, educated and in shape. Many though had emotional baggage and were clingy or asking about marriage and ish but it was simple and easy. I have the high ground now, in my twenties it was like the other way around I got women but it felt like I had to do more.
Do you not like 20s chicks like that?
And where u finding chicks over 30 with no kids? shyt it's hard to find girls in they mid 20s with no kids or married.
And where u finding chicks over 30 with no kids? shyt it's hard to find girls in they mid 20s with no kids or married.
Damn breh. What do you think you’re doing wrong?fukk it, I gave up. Women ain't shyt.
How is your approach? Level of respect? Where are you shooting your shot?
I’ve seen your other posts.
When they like you, and you come off as the total package they really aggressively push for this. The problem is I have a lot of good / likeable traits, so women know dealing wit me is like a unicorn. They get mad possessive real quick, even in the “talking” stages. I’m not up for that shyt right now.I smashed a chick a few times before I got the I think we should start dating and see if it leads to marriage.
I’d say there’s about 12 women, I deal with on a regular basis, that are putting themselves in the position to be hit on, but nsa, ain’t an option. They’ll want more quick. Some of these women have bf’s and shyt too.....
Don’t have time to deal with the blowback or messy situation. I’m around a lot of women, the ratio is like 7 to 1......
You still work at the hospital right? So you know what it’s like....
gawd I don’t miss any of this shyt......I gotta gf.
But when I was single it was soooooo fun but tiring imagine the plethora of
"i missed my period texts"
Valentines day gifts or birthday dinners
Food buying- even pizza and wings, Wendy's, Chipotle for netflix and chill adds up.
Mileage and gas on car.
Dealing with different people who have different energy and vibes.
Especially having to drive some women back home after smashing.......
Like a nikka can’t even send you home in an Uber
@Astroslik how you doing brehAmazing... I'm never messing with western women again
I might have have to sneak over to glendale mall....
Yup, actually the only black guy in a corporate spot, I know exactly what you mean.
I'm 32 almost 33, I have nothing in common with women in their twenties. Only talk to chicks 30-34
and they are everywhere there are more single childless educated in shape women now than ever before. Nurses at hospitals, women at church, corporate gigs, online
And then on the flipside yeah there are a large segment of black men that have it together in their thirties but most are already married or have kids
I have no kids, no exes hanging around, not married, i ain't ugly and I have a sweet corporate gig. Like I said the first things these women ask me is if I have kids and nope and then what I do for a living. And then they wonder how a breh like me is still single or doesn't have kids like i'm a anomaly
The only thing that semi sucks is alot of these women are scarred from being cheated on or treated bad in the past or they want you to commit right away but not my concern. And I'm not really out to hurt any chick but 
, I had a girl i was smashing for a while and she said she wanted to take it to the next level and see if it could lead to a path toward marriage and well she had big titties a big azz and was a sexual freak and attractive in my twenties I would have fallen into that trap but its like I tell every girl now when that ish comes up "you're a great girl i enjoy spending time with you, and it would suck if we don't anymore".
, I had a girl i was smashing for a while and she said she wanted to take it to the next level and see if it could lead to a path toward marriage and well she had big titties a big azz and was a sexual freak and attractive in my twenties I would have fallen into that trap but its like I tell every girl now when that ish comes up "you're a great girl i enjoy spending time with you, and it would suck if we don't anymore".
Yeah I don't fall into that trap either.....The only thing that semi sucks is alot of these women are scarred from being cheated on or treated bad in the past or they want you to commit right away but not my concern. And I'm not really out to hurt any chick but
If the only value a woman, is bringing to my life is sex, then she's not bringing much to the table. I can get sex from other women or I can even self service and be just as content.
A lot time NSA sex, isn't really NSA.....It's a subtle relationship.
Went through the same thing at your age. Cut the apps, you should be honing your mouthpiece, style, and getting comfortable talking to EVERYBODY.
Do that shyt NOW and you’ll be eating goodoutchea.
Nothing happens overnight so be ready for rejection, eventually you won’t think twice about it young breh.
Have fun with the journey and be safe
Im not gonna lie they been on a nikka lately.. I got an ex thats wit it whenever, a girl im knocking down on da regular that know im knocking other chicks down but still love a nikka.. I got multiple girls im texting just getting em ready.. I tell those ones im not in a rush for sex, cause its not imporantthey be loving when u tell them that and be ready to throw it at you..not realizing that i only say that cause im getti g p*ssy on da regular anyways..
I dont have kids so im eating good.. And yall fronting on da single moms..those da ones yall need in ya corner.. Food stamps, they always at home bored or with the kids so they always ready, and since i dont have kids i could just move how i want.. they look out da most in my opinion..
I would rather be all in wit one chick, but this shyt so easy im a just keep doing me and spreading my love around lol..
Im a fukking king and kings have mulitple ladies not just one.
That's actually not bad advice.
My main chick is half Filipino and bad as hell.
I saw her sitting at the bar with her friend and just walked up, sat down, shot my shot, and we hit it off immediately. I only saw her from the back until i sat down and If I knew how good she actually looked beforehand I might have talked myself out of it.
But when I was single it was soooooo fun but tiring imagine the plethora of
"i missed my period texts"
Valentines day gifts or birthday dinners
Food buying- even pizza and wings, Wendy's, Chipotle for netflix and chill adds up.
Mileage and gas on car.
Dealing with different people who have different energy and vibes.
Lmao you know what’s funny? I scroll through posts like these and in my head I’m admiring the quality because it’s always good when fellow members of the male specimen are swimming in p*ssy, but then at the same time I’m wondering HOW do y’all nikkas get like this
shyt has been dryer than chicken breast on my end, I wanna feast. Unfortunately I feel like I won’t be eating like this until my money gets better, but I feel like by then I’ll have already “missed out” on that “young nikka”-fun.
Yeah I don't fall into that trap either.....
If the only value a woman, is bringing to my life is sex, then she's not bringing much to the table. I can get sex from other women or I can even self service and be just as content.
A lot time NSA sex, isn't really NSA.....It's a subtle relationship.
and yep, I think once you have sex with a woman and she's not a whore there is something inside her that turns on and now she wants you to commit
