Single Colians,When it comes to dating and relationships nowadays....

Do you think there's someone out there who will sincerely care about you.

  • I know so (I'm a smug married relationship ass nikka)

    Votes: 8 21.1%
  • I hope so (I'm one hit away word to Memphis Bleek)

    Votes: 11 28.9%
  • Nah. ( Muhfukkas never loved us word to Drake/Quentin Miller)

    Votes: 10 26.3%
  • Somehow Meek Mill lost.

    Votes: 9 23.7%

  • Total voters
    38

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but do you feel like there's a chick out there who is gonna see that and understand that and respect that you are in her life to the point where she'll go out her way to make you happy just cause?
I'll say this much..its generally not another person's responsibility to fix a damaged person...you can't expect to attract a worthwhile partner if you have latent issues festering away without any solution in sight.

Nothing is impossible, but generally, if you're going to carry on like that...then you should be content with the status quo.
 

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I'll say this much..its generally not another person's responsibility to fix a damaged person...you can't expect to attract a worthwhile partner if you have latent issues festering away without any solution in sight.

Nothing is impossible, but generally, if you're going to carry on like that...then you should be content with the status quo.

Not really talking "fixing" a person. That's nobody's job but yours.

Think more along the lines of someone out there feeling like they're lucky to have you in their life to the point where they would make selfless acts.
 

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Not really talking "fixing" a person. That's nobody's job but yours.

Think more along the lines of someone out there feeling like they're lucky to have you in their life to the point where they would make selfless acts.
I know; I'm specifically referring to you and @Soundbwoy ..he's being honest by simply saying that he's jaded and not looking for something like that which is cool...but there are others that are bitter and have hangups yet still expect to attract a great partner that possesses those atrributes.

As far as to answer your OP, its generally based on what you have to offer as well...some people may not have the looks, personality and successes in life to attract this...(at least from the person they want :mjpls: ) others can. Not saying you don't know this, but experiences define us...so trying to tell a bitter person that there is someone for them is just as futile as telling a happily cupcaked person that a person like that doesn't exist unless you have *insert cliched superficial attribute that shines a spotlight on one's insecurities*.
 

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When I read through a long ass thread, respond to someone's post, keep reading, respond to another post... I cant help but double and triple post. Is this looked down upon? Do you have to announce that you did it or something? Still learning interwebz etiquette I suppose.
 

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When I read through a long ass thread, respond to someone's post, keep reading, respond to another post... I cant help but double and triple post. Is this looked down upon? Do you have to announce that you did it or something? Still learning interwebz etiquette I suppose.
You can't delete a post and I don't want to have just a period as a post in a thread so I leave that there. Its not a big deal just habit.
 
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