Single Colians,When it comes to dating and relationships nowadays....

Do you think there's someone out there who will sincerely care about you.

  • I know so (I'm a smug married relationship ass nikka)

    Votes: 8 21.1%
  • I hope so (I'm one hit away word to Memphis Bleek)

    Votes: 11 28.9%
  • Nah. ( Muhfukkas never loved us word to Drake/Quentin Miller)

    Votes: 10 26.3%
  • Somehow Meek Mill lost.

    Votes: 9 23.7%

  • Total voters
    38

Ghostface Trillah

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There are people like that in the world unfortunately a lot of times, nice, considerate, giving people finish last. They go through bad relationships where their love like that isn't reciprocated. Some turn bitter. Some put up walls so it is harder to find them or get them to that point.

Oh of course, you only need to touch fire once to know it burns but you cant eat cold food for the rest of your life though
 

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Those acts to a certain degree are earned and what constitutes those acts is up to individual perception.

It's possible.
 

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But do you believe in your heart of hearts that there is a woman out there like that? Can you see a day like that?

thats the question :patrice:

Yeah i see it in my mind. I'm a successful man, muscular, late 30's or early 40's, with a good woman by my side. I'll love her, but i'll never forget my scars and experiences and as a result will always keep her closed off to a certain part of me. I hate the fact that i'm bitter but i can't help it :yeshrug:
 

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Yes there is someone out there for me....As blunt and brash as I may be on here I am kind, caring, and considerate person. I believe that there is a man out there what will love me, and wants me to have his last name. I am 99.9% sure that we will end up together before I hit 30. There are a lot of great men out there, so I am not worried.
 

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That nice, considerate, giving people dont finish at all because they are being so nice, considerate, giving and letting everyone go ahead of them:heh:

:dead: :mjcry:

Some do tho, finish.

Oh of course, you only need to touch fire once to know it burns but you cant eat cold food for the rest of your life though

I mean I don't think all people like that are bitter or have a million walls up. Sometimes you don't even realize you were affected, until you deal with the next person. There are people out there that can't help but be nice giving people no matter what :mjcry:

I consider myself a nice/considerate person and I refuse to let a guy make me lose the positive giving things about myself. At the same time I have no problems cutting people off fast. I'm cautious. It's not about never playing with fire again, its about wearing gloves and testing temps.
 

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If I know that I'm extremely giving and loving, then there has to be someone out there like me who likes me.

The problem is that guys like that usually end up with crazy women or are already taken. Or they have low self esteem.

This. I think the same goes for women too, those types get snatched up quick. People like givers but they don't necessarily like their giving for intrinsic reasons. And that type of shyt discourages people from being that way which is sad.
 

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I'm sure I could care enough about someone to do the things mentioned. Will it be reciprocated? :yeshrug:
@LovelyDay and that's the big question a lot of people have. I would like to believe that there are a lot of secret selfless people but that many are afraid that the other person doesn't even have the potential to be selfless, so they're on guard.
 
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