Single men over 30: Why aren't you married?

Kiyoshi-Dono

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
I've gotten used to being alone and enjoying my own time without the consultation of someone else's needs.
I'm talking to a nice young lady now but I have trust issues and doubt this has any longevity.
But I will give her a chance but once those red flags pop up
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capt_saveahoe

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A, C, E, F

No man should get married till he is somewhat close to fulfilling his potential as far as career and or passion goes.

Most women want the finish product, not a work in progress
 
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Most women want the finish product, not a work in progress

Please avoid these Women like the plague. The time to marry a Woman (And you really shouldn't be marrying a Woman unless it's somehow to your advantage period as it pertains to her having higher income than you or you being able to expatriate or bringing a submissive foreign Woman in) is BEFORE your success not after. Why does the modern day Woman deserve to benefit from getting 1/2 of something she did not build and most likely will not help you maintain?

Now if you can find a Woman that has an equal amount of proven accomplishments and financial contribution then sure I don't see the problem but she still under most circumstances (95%) should NOT be an American born citizen or subscribe to typical American Feminist perspectives and outlook on life.
 

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What's the other?

Does your family ever pressure you?
Lol, my dad has given up on me but I get tons of pressure from everyone else. no matter what I accomplish in my career or personal life the question from family is always "so when are you getting married. " makes me not want to come around for the holidays.

F) is complicated, there are many layers to it. Career is consuming my personal life. A Shrinking social circle is a big factor. My age is another factor, I'm meeting women with (grown) kids, women in their 40's who are to old to have kids, women who have let themselves go physically and I'm finding it harder to relate to younger women.

The more I learn about women the more selective I become, so my field of options has decreased accordingly.
 
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