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YouMadd?

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Stay off dating apps. In 2014-2015 I was smashing a lot off of dating apps, then I got in a relationship from 2016 to 2018, then that ended and I got on dating apps and saw some of the SAME females still on there and this is in the Bay Area, a heavily populated area. Dating apps are literally the bottom of the barrel of women no matter what genre of dating app you use :weirdo:
 

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It's probably a dude out there with three of his own, not wanting more kids, and on the same level financially. Long as shorty doesn't shun her mirror match I'm not mad at the ad. Any dude without kids looking to pick up shorty's tab is trying to play out of his league on a kid humbed discount. Get the pretty girl down on her luck that you normally couldn't get type shyt.
 

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Three kids by 26. Your life is over and no one is marrying you, most likely. Maybe someone falls in love with you but that’s a whole ass family you start out the gate with, if you marry her. And she’s gonna want a child with you ASAP to bind the family together so might as well say it’s four kids total.
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Legit don’t understand it. You’d think after one child you’d realize you can’t do that again unless you’re in a committed marriage with benefits/protections.

you never know. I knew a chick that had 2 kids by 2 BDs by 22. Some dude wifed her up at like 30, but I think he got her pregnant. I think she’s on her 4th or 5th now.

there’s someone for everyone I guess
 

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This is pretty standard for online dating. Most of these women are used up with kids and all of a sudden got all these grand standards looking for love and security on shallow apps.

And most aren't even remotely mentally equipped to be a fulfilling partners in the long term. They're damaged from all the failed relationships.

The modern dating scene is fukked.
Yep..

shyt is sad af

And most of them boring af too. No personality, no sense of humor, 1-4 kids on average, disrespectful towards men because of how many desperate nikkas willing to kiss they ass just to think they found someone “on their level” and get mad when he fukks them and bounce… now they bitter.

Im honestly about to ditch these dating apps altogether. They really be expecting you to chase after them.. WANT you to chase after them..

want the attention and easily fall for the fairytales that nikkas who really don’t even give af about them willingly give…


I’m honestly about to delete this shyt. My homie deleted all those apps and went celibate for a year, eventually found a dime who loves his ass and got her own… no kids too. Met her at a bar hanging with his other homies


I might have to do the same. Women on these dating sites aint it
 

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Yep..

shyt is sad af

And most of them boring af too. No personality, no sense of humor, 1-4 kids on average, disrespectful towards men because of how many desperate nikkas willing to kiss they ass just to think they found someone “on their level” and get mad when he fukks them and bounce… now they bitter.

Im honestly about to ditch these dating apps altogether. They really be expecting you to chase after them.. WANT you to chase after them..

want the attention and easily fall for the fairytales that nikkas who really don’t even give af about them willingly give…


I’m honestly about to delete this shyt. My homie deleted all those apps and went celibate for a year, eventually found a dime who loves his ass and got her own… no kids too. Met her at a bar hanging with his other homies


I might have to do the same. Women on these dating sites aint it

Yeah fam, it's not good for your mental health particularly when you're aware of the reality of it all. All you can do is hope that maybe you run into somebody in real life organically and things take out from there.
 

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Yeah fam, it's not good for your mental health particularly when you're aware of the reality of it all. All you can do is hope that maybe you run into somebody in real life organically and things take out from there.
My only problem is I really don’t go out nowhere.

Just work and gym mainly in which I don’t mind but definitely not the place to meet anyone imo. I work wild hours too and in school.

I’ve stopped drinking so clubs/bar alone just aint fun no more without it. Plus I’m on the health kick

Not making excuses but I have no idea where to go out here to actually meet quality women. I don’t like talking to multiple females at all but it’s like you got to.

Once my new semesters start (I’m in 2 schools) I’m about to forget females altogether for awhile and try to focus on that.
 

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My only problem is I really don’t go out nowhere.

Just work and gym mainly in which I don’t mind but definitely not the place to meet anyone imo. I work wild hours too and in school.

I’ve stopped drinking so clubs/bar alone just aint fun no more without it. Plus I’m on the health kick

Not making excuses but I have no idea where to go out here to actually meet quality women. I don’t like talking to multiple females at all but it’s like you got to.

Once my new semesters start (I’m in 2 schools) I’m about to forget females altogether for awhile and try to focus on that.

I'm sort of in the same boat as well. Don't drink or smoke or really do the bar club scene. But there's plenty more to do besides that. Particularly if you're in a halfway decent city that have a lot of people, places of interest and things to do. It definitely requires getting out of your comfort zone a little bit though. You got to put yourself out there.

You're definitely doing the right thing focusing on your education and advancing your career. These hoes ain't going. The more power you accumulate through hard work and progression the easier time you'll have in the dating market and the more cooperation these females with halfway decent heads on the shoulders will be. More options you'll have as well.

You have to become the prize. You got to be better than the average cat. Cuz biologically these females are all about the best option.
 

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I'm sort of in the same boat as well. Don't drink or smoke or really do the bar club scene. But there's plenty more to do besides that. Particularly if you're in a halfway decent city that have a lot of people, places of interest and things to do. It definitely requires getting out of your comfort zone a little bit though. You got to put yourself out there.

You're definitely doing the right thing focusing on your education and advancing your career. These hoes ain't going. The more power you accumulate through hard work and progression the easier time you'll have in the dating market and the more cooperation these females with halfway decent heads on the shoulders will be. More options you'll have as well.

You have to become the prize. You got to be better than the average cat. Cuz biologically these females are all about the best option.
Only thing females talk about doing out here is hiking, beach, and “hanging with family” aka hanging with they gotdamn parents, siblings, and kids and probably all in the same house so they got no choice.

I had a chick invite me out to lunch once with her and her friend and I was cool with it… I got there and the bytches entire family was there taking up 2 tables…

Foul af
 

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Only thing females talk about doing out here is hiking, beach, and “hanging with family” aka hanging with they gotdamn parents, siblings, and kids and probably all in the same house so they got no choice.

I had a chick invite me out to lunch once with her and her friend and I was cool with it… I got there and the bytches entire family was there taking up 2 tables…

Foul af



damn gang lmao
 
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