Single mothers killing/abusing their children to get back at the father?

[Poitier]

Smh. Those women are often mentally ill, poor and overwhelmed. They aren’t “getting back”. If the fathers were involved to help relieve pressure (mental, physical, spiritually) of the children they made, you wouldn’t see this as much.

And the fathers are just off enjoying billions? Nah they are being killed, strung out and imprisoned at astronomical rates.

No one is saying the parents are totally at fault for the way they are.

We all know White supremacy is fukking us all up. But we will never find solutions if we keep deflecting for our own gender.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

What if you kill them to spare them from a lifetime of slavery?

And by slavery, I mean North American Colonial slavery.

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We are in different times.

I will not disrespect my ancestors by participating in bashing them about things I know nothing about.

Present day isn't colonial slavery where your kids are separated from you at birth, possibly beaten or raped in front you and going through terrible terrible torture...

What was your point of this question? To see if I felt the same way about child killers in general?

 

[Poitier]

OP, I agree but you have to realize the men who are choosing these women are raised without the sense you or I may have by mothers similar to the women they end up having kids by.

 

[Rawtid]

And the fathers are just off enjoying billions? Nah they are being killed, strung out and imprisoned at astronomical rates.

No one is saying the parents are totally at fault for the way they are.

We all know White supremacy is fukking us all up. But we will never find solutions if we keep deflecting for our own gender.

I don’t disagree with you.

 

[Poitier]

I don’t disagree with you.

I saw a post saying we give single mothers too much hell when I don't think they or their child fathers are held to any standard tbh.

Didn't want the thread to get derailed so glad you agree.

 

[Elle Seven]

Women killing children has nothing to do with men. GTFOH with that.

I think what OP is saying is men can prevent having kids with crazy women by not fukking crazy women. Men have control of where their seed goes, whether they admit it or not.

If a man has ANY inkling a woman is crazy, why fukk her, knowing the worse case scenario is she can pregnant with your child...and for the rest of your life, your child will suffer because you chose to sown your seed in that garden? I've heard men brag about fukking emotionally unstable women because the sex is supposedly spectacular, yet, this is a possible consequence of doing that. I can only gather that must men don't really care where their sperm goes once it leaves their bodies.

OAN, I think, with rare exception, a truly crazy person always shows signs of being crazy. You can see this if you're taking the time to get to know the person versus fukking him/her within a matter of days and weeks after meeting though, which doesn't seem to be the fun thing to do these days.

 

[Rawtid]

I saw a post saying we give single mothers too much hell when I don't think they or their child fathers are held to any standard tbh.

Didn't want the thread to get derailed so glad you agree.

Very true! Single mothers are often praised but they be fukking up just as much as the dads.

 

[Poitier]

Very true! Single mothers are often praised but they be fukking up just as much as the dads.

And I get in your case why you would be invested in this topic because you are a single mother who probably does the best she can for her child.

I just don't get when single childless men and women come in these topics about parenting whether it be abuse or child support acting triggered and deflecting any chance at a real conversation.

 

[Rawtid]

I think what OP is saying is men can prevent having kids with crazy women by not fukking crazy women. Men have control of where their seed goes, whether they admit it or not.

If a man has ANY inkling a woman is crazy, why fukk her, knowing the worse case scenario is she can pregnant with your child...and for the rest of your life, your child will suffer because you chose to sown your seed in that garden? I've heard men brag about fukking emotionally unstable women because the sex is supposedly spectacular, yet, this is a possible consequence of doing that. I can only gather that must men don't really care where their sperm goes once it leaves their bodies.

OAN, I think, with rare exception, a truly crazy person always shows signs of being crazy. You can see this if you're taking the time to get to know the person versus fukking him/her within a matter of days and weeks after meeting though, which doesn't seem to be the fun thing to do these days.

Just like you can’t tell if a guy won’t be there for his kids, you can’t tell if a woman is crazy enough to bake her damn kids in a oven. All women are “crazy” to some extent but there are few warning signs for Bake your babies crazy.

 

[Rawtid]

And I get in your case why you would be invested in this topic because you are a single mother who probably does the best she can for her child.

I just don't get when single childless men and women come in these topics about parenting whether it be abuse or child support acting triggered and deflecting any chance at a real conversation.

Yeah this topic can turn into Men vs women real quick and you’re right not good for real convo.

 

[Poitier]

Just like you can’t tell if a guy won’t be there for his kids, you can’t tell if a woman is crazy enough to bake her damn kids in a oven. All women are “crazy” to some extent but there are few warning signs for Bake your babies crazy.

Idk

every time one of these stories are posted....

the guy usually has prior criminal convictions usually violent in nature

women don't usually have the rap sheets but the folks who know them suddenly will have all these stories about their "erratic behavior"

honestly the only way this stuff can be proactively addressed is if folks who know these people act.

can't be sympathetic to your aint shyt relative, friend or neighbor because you don't want to see their baby taken away

 

[Neuromancer]

Possibly.

I think this poster is a woman by that other lousy thread it had.

other lousy thread?

 

[Concerning VIolence]

Men have no problem calling each other out.

I've never heard females pathologize other females over this evil tendency that is largely commited by females.


Infant homicide is arugably the most evil shyt in the world and is statistically committed by mothers.

 

[Concerning VIolence]

There's also mental abuse that black children undergo. I can't name the number of times I've seen black women cursing their children out in supermarkets and calling them every name in the book. You can see their self esteem dropping.

No one wants to talk about this.

 

[Cynic]

I think what OP is saying is men can prevent having kids with crazy women by not fukking crazy women. Men have control of where their seed goes, whether they admit it or not.

If a man has ANY inkling a woman is crazy, why fukk her, knowing the worse case scenario is she can pregnant with your child...and for the rest of your life, your child will suffer because you chose to sown your seed in that garden? I've heard men brag about fukking emotionally unstable women because the sex is supposedly spectacular, yet, this is a possible consequence of doing that. I can only gather that must men don't really care where their sperm goes once it leaves their bodies.

OAN, I think, with rare exception, a truly crazy person always shows signs of being crazy. You can see this if you're taking the time to get to know the person versus fukking him/her within a matter of days and weeks after meeting though, which doesn't seem to be the fun thing to do these days.

Men have no control after they nut. Those women can abort or give those kids up for adoption.
Instead these women are killing babies in cold blood...Men have nothing to do with this sh!t.

You really in here deflecting for the sisterhood at all costs like that ?