Single mothers killing/abusing their children to get back at the father?
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That's.... simply not true.
Man I've been heartbroken before but I can't imagine how much they gotta hate a man to do this to their kids.
fukk.
ejthompson23
Vagabon
Sooo OP if most black kids are being raised by their mothers, what's being done to have them be raised in a 2 parent household? 
better yet, why are most black kids being raised by single moms OP? gimme a real answer...not the single moms are scum answer...
better yet, why are most black kids being raised by single moms OP? gimme a real answer...not the single moms are scum answer...
Elle Seven
Superstar
Men have no control after they nut. Those women can abort or give those kids up for adoption.
Instead these women are killing babies in cold blood...Men have nothing to do with this sh!t.
You really in here deflecting for the sisterhood at all costs like that ?
Not sure what you mean by deflecting here. My stance on this issue is deeper.
Whenever a man and woman come together, they need to realize a child can be conceived. EVERY TIME YOU fukk, YOU CAN MAKE A CHILD...unless you are fukking with artificial parts or engaging in homosexual sex. Why do people act like they don't understand this?
And I don't mean just in theory; I men and women really need to approach sex like that. Why would a man give his nut to a woman he doesn't fukking know???!!
I'll admit, this is something I do not understand about HUMAN men. When a woman has her cycle, she releases a dead egg, but when a man ejaculates, he releases a live-producing substance shooting from his body. He can create a life by putting that substance in the womb of a woman...and yet, a lot of men will shoot it in a woman that isn't shyt. I. Dont. fukking. Get. It.
But I digress.
Please, understand, the responsibility falls on BOTH the man and woman. I'm not putting more on one sex versus the other. It's called checks and balances.
If I, as a woman, knowing I must bear the burden of childbirth, am dealing with a man that is showing me he is crazy in some way, there is NO WAY in hell I should fukk him. To do so (or make excuses to do so) is irresponsible.
If a man senses the same about a woman, he should not lay with her. Again, it is irresponsible.
Both parties have a responsibility to treat sex like it's for procreating and not put the onus on the other party to prevent said conception from happening.
Thus, when a woman gets pregnant by a man who had already been showing signs of being shytty, she has to accept her bad decision. When a man impregnates a ratchet ass female who was abusing her body when he met her and sees she still does it, even when pregnant with his seed, he has to live with that bad decision. He didn't have to fukk her, just like the first sister didn't have to fukk the first brotha. But the fact that they weren't shyt shouldn't be this sudden revelation now that a child is in the picture.
I hear people on here talk as if abstinence is truly this ludicrous option - like it's unrealistic to really fukking wait to have sex with someone - yet, 99% of the time, if you took the time to wait to lay with someone, like REALLY fukking wait some months to get to know them, you would know whether or not they were worth reproducing with anyway.
And make no mistake, these chicks that are killing their kids are not in the 1% exception. They likely were showing signs from jump that the probability of them harming their own future kids was not something foreign to them. The same can be said about the dudes who hurt their kids as well.
Women create an egg monthly and have finite shelf life in fertility
Men create sperm daily and have a damn near endless supply
Do you not "get" basic biology ?
If anything these women should value children more given how they have have to incubate them for 9 months
but smarter men care about their sperm due to the predatory nature of big daddy government and opportunistic goldiggers.
It's called deflecting and female own group preference ... You'll even pick yourselves over children
In here smearing innocent men while
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Haitian_Erzuli
Rookie
Sooo OP if most black kids are being raised by their mothers, what's being done to have them be raised in a 2 parent household?
Both men and women are not taking responsibility. Most men in the black community will stick their dikk in anything and eventually impregnate someone and move on to the next one. Its really rare nowadays to find a stable black family unit. Black women really have such low self esteem and low standards that they'll let anyone fukk them just to feel loved and to feel like at least someone wants them enough to fukk them.
None of this is surprising given that society as a whole degrades black women as ugly and undesirable so many black women think anyone wanting to fukk them is a compliment and raises their self esteem. Its why fat non-conventionally attractive black women love to yell how beautiful and how fine they look, because deep down they know society and a people as a whole believe they are ugly and they themselves deep down feel they are ugly too.
Really its the men who control most of this. A lot of black men don't have standards and will just fukk anything. Thereby creating children with women who are unfit and bound to raise messed up kids, (that's if they survive).
Now before you say but women can get abortions and give it up for adoption. You have to consider that black women already have the highest abortion rates in the nation. So many are already getting abortions, yet there's still a problem. Many are giving their kids up for adoption yet there's still a problem.
If more black men and women actually got the time to know one another before fukking there wouldn't be so many single family households. If more black men stop being hoes and nutting in everybody and created a stable family unit with one woman, that would literally solve a lot of things.
Now as to why black men think their dikk is the pathway to assert their manhood and success? Because of their lack of power in society. As a group black people are considered lowest on the totem pole. For years during slavery and Jim Crow, black men were whipped beat and raped. They had no and still essentially have no power in society. It's white society who determines whether black men can live or die, where they can eat, where they can live, whether they can even be free. Look at these cac cops who can shoot and kill an innocent unarmed black man ON VIDEO and nothing is done. Black men hold no power and are at white men's mercy. As men that's a huge blow to their ego. So in order to compensate for not having dominance in society they have to be hyper-masculine, hence the thug gangster culture we live in now.
One of the things black men could always be proud of to prove their masculinity in a society that always strips them of power and dominance is through their penis and virility. In a sense they use their penis and bedding many women as proof that "they're the man" and to prove to themselves and to other men that their alpha.
Yet it's a fake sense of grandieur. But it's what a lot of black men ego and real self worth is based on how many hoes and bytches they can fukk.
Not enough black men are displaying positive masculinity by providing for their children and their mother, by making a safe environment, by being leaders in their community, etc... Now to be fair because of white supremacy black men depend on white men for jobs, for money, and housing. Hence why none of these things are being done.
As a result black men just see their dikk as a way to reinforce and assert their masculinity. Since many have no other way to prove they are manly men they have to use negative hyper-masculinity (violence)and their dikk.
Also not enough good black men are marrying black women.
Now this can be explained that a lot of black women are mentally fukked up because as I said years of physical and sexual abuse and trauma during childhood has actually led lots of black women to honestly be some of the worst people you'll ever meet. Rude, angry, violent, psychopaths and these are women with children who are raising the next generation of black men and women who will continue the cycle. As a result many black men associate black women with bad and not wife material, because honestly many black women aren't. This is also coupled with the media depiction in our white supremacist society that blackness is bad and whiteness is good.
I think in order for the black community to flourish mental health clinics need to be on every street corner and for people to stop saying going to church is going to solve mental illness. There's a lot of mental illness in the black community that isn't be treated and there needs to be a discussion and for the community as a whole to embrace the fact that getting help or seeking treatment or hell even talking to someone about your trauma is ok and encouraged. There's also a lot of angry young men and women who are projecting their anger onto others and hence this non-stop killing in the community.
Also as a whole we need to promote a stable family unit. All this baby mama/ baby daddy lifestyle we see is not cute. Its come to point where many black women and men don't even see marriage as an option. Just how many baby mama's and baby daddies you have is now the standard.
Another that must be addressed is the sexism in the black community. Stop degrading and hating your own women. When a group of men degrade their women they're degrading themselves because they come from them. You never hear any race of men shyt talk their women like black men do. Yes black women are messed up and so are many black men, but the root cause is never discussed. Instead of tearing each other down, why aren't we discussing the problems and ways solve this and build each other up?
Instead all I see is deflection and both genders inability to take accountability! Black men can't and won't come up without black women. You both need each other. You all each other got.
We need to come together as a community and fight white supremacy effectively. Marching and protesting to appeal to empathy that's whites don't have isn't working. Black people are begging our oppressors to see our humanity, but when will black people realize white people are demons and don't have souls? Stop trying to appeal to the conscious of people who don't have one!
There are 3 things white people want to see. Our deaths, being entertainment for them, or for us to be some weird sexual conquest.
They don't want us to have equal rights. They don't want us to succeed, so they are and always have been doing everything in power to prevent that. Cacs gonna cac forever just realize this and move on.
We need to place our wealth in the black community, invest in black neighborhoods, and teach the youth. Stop depending on cacs who are only trying to kill us and keep us poor. We need black schools, black teachers (male and female), black doctors, black scientist, black environmentalist and black engineers, who will provide services only to black communities.
Integration was the worst idea ever. We need separation!
Also we need our own military and defense. As we all know once cacs see black people mobilizing and moving upward their cac senses tingle and they will set out to destroy our communities like Black Wall Street, and we must be prepared for them. We need to stock up on firepower. As many black men and women who are trained in the military we have the training and ability.
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Haitian_Erzuli
Rookie
Women create an egg monthly and have finite shelf life in fertility
Men create sperm daily and have a damn near endless supply
Do you not "get" basic biology ?
If anything these women should value children more given how they have have to incubate them for 9 months
but smarter men care about their sperm due to the predatory nature of big daddy government and opportunistic goldiggers.
It's called deflecting and female own group preference ... You'll even pick yourselves over children
In here smearing innocent men while
What's the point of having an endless supply of sperm if all you nut in is ain't shyt women who will probably kill the kid or give it a bad life or won't be able to provide for it? Hence creating a progeny of ain't shyt kids.
Which is why I explained in my first post that this weird ass pump, dump and leave logic is used by men who are idiots and the lowest of low.
Women's fertility declines at 35 and men's studies show that their sperm quality/quantity starts to lower at 35 as well. So essentially both men and women fertility declines at the same age. Only difference is men can keep producing sperm with low quality and while women experience menopause at 50. It's why children born to an older father have more health concerns and more disabilities. The sperm wasn't any good.
Essentially. In modern day society people should have an education and good paying job by 27. Be married at 29-30 and have 3 kids by time their 35.
I've always said if I didn't have a wife and kids by 35 then I was out the game...glad to see there is science backing my point of view
Haitian_Erzuli
Rookie
I said it starts declining by 35. Not that your sperm would be utter shyt.
I think men in general need to discard this logic that men are biologically to be pre-disposed to to impregnating as many women and leaving.
Its not true. Sure many cultures have polygamy but the men cared for their children and the their mothers and made sure they were all provided and cared for.
It was usually only rich men who could afford to this because they had enough resources and also all the wives and children lived together as one family unit. Hence no need to go from house to house and divide up time and resources because all the children were under one roof and all the wives cared for the children.
A lot of modern day men with multiple baby mama's don't realize that by having kids with multiple women only puts the children at a disadvantage. Because most don't have enough time or resources to spend enough day to day care with each child. A child needs its father each and every day, just like it needs its mom.
Since men only listen to other men and even though women have been telling men this for eons yet they refuse to listen, men with sense need to start preaching to other men how to change this baby mama lifestyle so many have embraced.
I don't know if these men just don't give a fukk about the children they create or they just don't know but they're really only fukking up their kids lives with these reckless actions.
I think men in general need to discard this logic that men are biologically to be pre-disposed to to impregnating as many women and leaving.
Its not true. Sure many cultures have polygamy but the men cared for their children and the their mothers and made sure they were all provided and cared for.
It was usually only rich men who could afford to this because they had enough resources and also all the wives and children lived together as one family unit. Hence no need to go from house to house and divide up time and resources because all the children were under one roof and all the wives cared for the children.
A lot of modern day men with multiple baby mama's don't realize that by having kids with multiple women only puts the children at a disadvantage. Because most don't have enough time or resources to spend enough day to day care with each child. A child needs its father each and every day, just like it needs its mom.
Since men only listen to other men and even though women have been telling men this for eons yet they refuse to listen, men with sense need to start preaching to other men how to change this baby mama lifestyle so many have embraced.
I don't know if these men just don't give a fukk about the children they create or they just don't know but they're really only fukking up their kids lives with these reckless actions.
lots of people having kids and they really shouldn't, it's kind of sad sometimes cause it's like the kid got potential but the parents aren't trying at all.
Sad stuff, these "adults" have issues and take it out on the kids.
I got a homeboy that got a kid. I'm like who the hell thought it was a good idea to get pregnant by this guy lmao. Nothing is going his way
Sad stuff, these "adults" have issues and take it out on the kids.
yes there are some dudes that are straight nihilist and barely care about anything. People gotta figure it out and move accordingly.
I got a homeboy that got a kid. I'm like who the hell thought it was a good idea to get pregnant by this guy lmao. Nothing is going his way
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Illuminatos
#OVOXO
Open season on single mothers on the Coli today?
The stats don't lieBlack folk doing it at a rate of 3x more
Of course I don't subscribe to a pathology that we are just more violent
Living in this sick country got us lashing out against our kids
Ronnie Lott
#49erGang
This study/stats prove me right even more. Child abuse is real and a lot of people are in denial