Both men and women are not taking responsibility. Most men in the black community will stick their dikk in anything and eventually impregnate someone and move on to the next one. Its really rare nowadays to find a stable black family unit. Black women really have such low self esteem and low standards that they'll let anyone fukk them just to feel loved and to feel like at least someone wants them enough to fukk them.
None of this is surprising given that society as a whole degrades black women as ugly and undesirable so many black women think anyone wanting to fukk them is a compliment and raises their self esteem. Its why fat non-conventionally attractive black women love to yell how beautiful and how fine they look, because deep down they know society and a people as a whole believe they are ugly and they themselves deep down feel they are ugly too.
Really its the men who control most of this. A lot of black men don't have standards and will just fukk anything. Thereby creating children with women who are unfit and bound to raise messed up kids, (that's if they survive).
Now before you say but women can get abortions and give it up for adoption. You have to consider that black women already have the highest abortion rates in the nation. So many are already getting abortions, yet there's still a problem. Many are giving their kids up for adoption yet there's still a problem.
If more black men and women actually got the time to know one another before fukking there wouldn't be so many single family households. If more black men stop being hoes and nutting in everybody and created a stable family unit with one woman, that would literally solve a lot of things.
Now as to why black men think their dikk is the pathway to assert their manhood and success? Because of their lack of power in society. As a group black people are considered lowest on the totem pole. For years during slavery and Jim Crow, black men were whipped beat and raped. They had no and still essentially have no power in society. It's white society who determines whether black men can live or die, where they can eat, where they can live, whether they can even be free. Look at these cac cops who can shoot and kill an innocent unarmed black man ON VIDEO and nothing is done. Black men hold no power and are at white men's mercy. As men that's a huge blow to their ego. So in order to compensate for not having dominance in society they have to be hyper-masculine, hence the thug gangster culture we live in now.
One of the things black men could always be proud of to prove their masculinity in a society that always strips them of power and dominance is through their penis and virility. In a sense they use their penis and bedding many women as proof that "they're the man" and to prove to themselves and to other men that their alpha.
Yet it's a fake sense of grandieur. But it's what a lot of black men ego and real self worth is based on how many hoes and bytches they can fukk.
Not enough black men are displaying positive masculinity by providing for their children and their mother, by making a safe environment, by being leaders in their community, etc... Now to be fair because of white supremacy black men depend on white men for jobs, for money, and housing. Hence why none of these things are being done.
As a result black men just see their dikk as a way to reinforce and assert their masculinity. Since many have no other way to prove they are manly men they have to use negative hyper-masculinity (violence)and their dikk.
Also not enough good black men are marrying black women.
Now this can be explained that a lot of black women are mentally fukked up because as I said years of physical and sexual abuse and trauma during childhood has actually led lots of black women to honestly be some of the worst people you'll ever meet. Rude, angry, violent, psychopaths and these are women with children who are raising the next generation of black men and women who will continue the cycle. As a result many black men associate black women with bad and not wife material, because honestly many black women aren't. This is also coupled with the media depiction in our white supremacist society that blackness is bad and whiteness is good.
I think in order for the black community to flourish mental health clinics need to be on every street corner and for people to stop saying going to church is going to solve mental illness. There's a lot of mental illness in the black community that isn't be treated and there needs to be a discussion and for the community as a whole to embrace the fact that getting help or seeking treatment or hell even talking to someone about your trauma is ok and encouraged. There's also a lot of angry young men and women who are projecting their anger onto others and hence this non-stop killing in the community.
Also as a whole we need to promote a stable family unit. All this baby mama/ baby daddy lifestyle we see is not cute. Its come to point where many black women and men don't even see marriage as an option. Just how many baby mama's and baby daddies you have is now the standard.
Another that must be addressed is the sexism in the black community. Stop degrading and hating your own women. When a group of men degrade their women they're degrading themselves because they come from them. You never hear any race of men shyt talk their women like black men do. Yes black women are messed up and so are many black men, but the root cause is never discussed. Instead of tearing each other down, why aren't we discussing the problems and ways solve this and build each other up?
Instead all I see is deflection and both genders inability to take accountability! Black men can't and won't come up without black women. You both need each other. You all each other got.
We need to come together as a community and fight white supremacy effectively. Marching and protesting to appeal to empathy that's whites don't have isn't working. Black people are begging our oppressors to see our humanity, but when will black people realize white people are demons and don't have souls? Stop trying to appeal to the conscious of people who don't have one!
There are 3 things white people want to see. Our deaths, being entertainment for them, or for us to be some weird sexual conquest.
They don't want us to have equal rights. They don't want us to succeed, so they are and always have been doing everything in power to prevent that. Cacs gonna cac forever just realize this and move on.
We need to place our wealth in the black community, invest in black neighborhoods, and teach the youth. Stop depending on cacs who are only trying to kill us and keep us poor. We need black schools, black teachers (male and female), black doctors, black scientist, black environmentalist and black engineers, who will provide services only to black communities.
Integration was the worst idea ever. We need separation!
Also we need our own military and defense. As we all know once cacs see black people mobilizing and moving upward their cac senses tingle and they will set out to destroy our communities like Black Wall Street, and we must be prepared for them. We need to stock up on firepower. As many black men and women who are trained in the military we have the training and ability.
