Most women wouldn't stay with a dude who is gay or bisexual. If she found out after he got married, she would've left his azz and took as much money as she could. Only a desperate, slow, undesirable or complacent woman would knowingly stay married to a man that likes let alone fuks other men. Most women not as dumb as u think and will eventually find out their hubby is gay if it's true.
Its not about women being dumb. Its about not wanting to believe what everyone else around you saying and what you are seeing.
I"m sure Jason Collins gf had hints that he was gay, but she probably dind't wnat to believe them and stayed around for 8 years.
I'm sure Eugene Roberstons wife, and kids KNEW he was probably gay... but who wants to believe that about your dad?