Sistaz are asking "why wont yall lead?"

[True Blue Moon]

So you were "the help" at a party of women shytting on men
Then you couldn't even express your true feelings because the lady who threw the party leveraged her sex to control your actions

Are you sure the conversation didn't steer towards leadership because the host had been up there talking as if she leads you

Post had a bunch of red flags. I’m glad brehs are calling it out

Between the I “had” to help because I’m banging the host, staying on p’s and q’s to not say the wrong thing because chick was shooting him daggers and getting an “atta boy” look when he answered correctly.

She may not have directly implied that she leads but they definitely felt comfortable based on chick’s energy and she was definitely playing both sides

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

Op got dragged into real life bird babble and couldn’t tag @Arcavian or @VegetasHairline

so he hit the … Grandpa Abe Exit GIF – Grandpa Abe Exit Confused – discover and share GIFs

 

[Coco Loco]

Men do lead. Gotta find the right ones babes

Also, ladies don't assume all men can or should lead. Some want the title without leadership abilities

 

[Apollo Creed]

Men do lead. Gotta find the right ones babes

Also, ladies don't assume all men can or should lead. Some want the title without leadership abilities

we have to stop speaking in the context that all women deserve cover (the ones crying about being uncovered).

lotta hoes destiny is to be alone

 

[Windows 91]

OP was in there like that Martin episode

 

[Scaaar]

That's always a loaded topic. Because if you ask those women in a group setting and individually what does a man leading look like you'll get a hundred different answers that constantly change depending on how they feel, how their friends/family feel, what's trending on social media, etc. Most of them truly don't know and the ones that do they're too concerned about the opinions of others to live their truth. That's why I constantly tell brehs to lead by being yourself. The ones that rock will fall in line. The ones that don't will resist and complain. Immediately bush those women

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Regardless of how good a leader is it still requires the other people to recognize who to follow.

Fixed.

Some shyt is just obvious.. they also got to recognize what’s important

 

[Scaaar]

I mean this with no malice, but I realized over the years that a large number of Black Women are clueless on how to interact with Men. They grew up in such a gyno-centric society the past 50 years, they literally have 0 clue on what makes men tick, our likes or dislikes, how to validate our feelings, how to really get our attention. In their mind, it doesn't matter. They see through you, because Men are a utility and a means to an end

Unfortunately this is all facts!! Talking to multiple women over the years and I've come to this realization too. They have a great deal of expectations on how the man is supposed to show up and what's he's supposed to do. But they haven't thought about how they're going to show up for that man. It's like it has completely escaped their mind to think of that part. The view alot of men as just beasts of burden. That are there to serve their needs...

 

[Mugenight]

They don't know what Lead Means because they are part of a gynocracy. Lead = Slave in their mind. It is all from the position of servitude,.

If you need permission or to let someone allow you to lead you aren't leading shyt.

The issue is Black Men love Black Women so much they are fine being destroyed when a good majority do not love them (because they see no value in the existence of a Black Man unless he is a servant).

In actual Societies ran by men, men lead those under his umbrella which is his wife and children, nobody is leading random ass people in the street, random as women in the street are there because nobody wants them.

In Societies "Men Lead" Women are handed over to the next man that will lead her, her husband. These women dont have fathers hence they think they are going into the world hunting for a man but end up in a cycle of confusion because they dont have the ability nor does it feel natural to them, thus they get used and abused by men who identified they can get sexual access for little to nothing lol.

This is it nothing else needs to be said.

 

[King Poetic]

You can’t lead someone who never came from a household where a man was around and a leader and they own relationships with bad men had them turn masculine and spiteful to all men

I keep saying these modern day sisters hopes for marriage are done like joel embid knees

And it doesn’t help when u have media dudes like DL, Charlamagne,Envy, Steve Harvey and few others who keep pandering because they eat off of black women and all them hurt black women

 

[Belize King]

“Why won’t yall lead” is all along the same bullshyt as:
“If you can’t handle me at my worst you don’t deserve me at my best”
“I need a man to put me in my place”
“A real man would (fill in the blank)”
“I need some one that can handle me”

All those phrases are in the same sphere of bullshyt a woman says that lacks maturity, self awareness, self reflection, tact, basic communication skills, patience and understanding.

Too keep it all the way 100 women don’t do anything that incentivizes a man to want to take care of them besides throw some p*ssy around. That’s why so many women are stuck going in circles because growing up they’ve been taught that just being a WOMAN is enough. Brehs ain’t falling for the okey doke anymore.

And it ain’t just black women. White women saying the same bullshyt. Masculine ass energy. Cussing all the time, sitting with their legs open like a man, combative, won’t let you finish a sentence, argumentative. Truth is women don’t know how to be women anymore. Open prostitution (onlyfans), over sexualizing themselves, championing single mothers, demonizing anything male. They’ve been bred to compete WITH and against men.

Ironically, they’re able to do these things because of men. The over sexualization in society has weakened men because naturally we as men want access. So we fold and ALLOW certain behaviors from women to hopefully gain access sexually.

Rep.

 

[GreenGhxst]

would've stayed my dumbass on that game until she came down and said time to go

I ain't sign up to be scapegoat or punching bag

 

[Mr.bocario]

OP setting up a party for a female he's only "banging" like he's hired help and then they put his ass in the basement to play PS5 like a little kid.

They eventually call him up to ask why men dont lead.

They were low key playing breh

No cap I fell for this play in my early twenties. Shawty I was feeling invited me out to a lil dinner party and when the drinks started flowing the men ain’t shyt rhetoric came out

Can’t imagine being 30+ listening to gaslit bird babble like a good negro

 

[badboys11]

Bruh let me tell u how scared I was being in a room surrounded by women

Had to cap bout fukking somebody cause op a gay man in disguise

 

[MaxPain]

Get treated like Roger in Sister Sister by a house full of cackling women brehs