Sistaz are asking "why wont yall lead?"

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So you were "the help" at a party of women shytting on men
Then you couldn't even express your true feelings because the lady who threw the party leveraged her sex to control your actions
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Are you sure the conversation didn't steer towards leadership because the host had been up there talking as if she leads you
 

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anything other than walking away laughing is the wrong answer

Exactly. He should’ve made his plate before the event began.

OP wanted to see what the bītches there looked like and pontificate like the lake great Kevin Samuels.

If you got food, drank, PS5 and some pvssy guaranteed later why entertain anything else.
 

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Its because they think a man is worthless if he can't lead.


In the mind of a lot of women, if they have to lead with their husband, than the husband is a dead weight. For all the talk about patriarchy, women HATE male responsibilities and really want men to just do it.


I know people look down on the term "misandry" but that's basically what it is.
That's where they fukk up. Believing either one of you has to lead is retarded.
 

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Its because they think a man is worthless if he can't lead.


In the mind of a lot of women, if they have to lead with their husband, than the husband is a dead weight. For all the talk about patriarchy, women HATE male responsibilities and really want men to just do it.


I know people look down on the term "misandry" but that's basically what it is.

They don't know what Lead Means because they are part of a gynocracy. Lead = Slave in their mind. It is all from the position of servitude,.

If you need permission or to let someone allow you to lead you aren't leading shyt.

The issue is Black Men love Black Women so much they are fine being destroyed when a good majority do not love them (because they see no value in the existence of a Black Man unless he is a servant).

In actual Societies ran by men, men lead those under his umbrella which is his wife and children, nobody is leading random ass people in the street, random as women in the street are there because nobody wants them.

In Societies "Men Lead" Women are handed over to the next man that will lead her, her husband. These women dont have fathers hence they think they are going into the world hunting for a man but end up in a cycle of confusion because they dont have the ability nor does it feel natural to them, thus they get used and abused by men who identified they can get sexual access for little to nothing lol.
 

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Man I told them mfs lets for arguments sake say a man checks all these boxes. Hes a protector, a provider, he rubs your back, he makes you laugh, he leads, fukks you when you want, gives space when you want, hes 100% honest blah blah lets say all the boxes are checked. Basically hes perfect. Do yall really think there's this perfect man out there in the cereal aisle just waiting for you to find him??? .... the whole table got quiet.. then they conveniently changed the subject.. I was dismissed :francis:






"Why yall dont take out the trash"
"Why I gotta tell you when something needs to be done"
"Why I gotta tell you to fix the dishwasher"
"Why yall dont take initiative"

(Followed by "Yass girl" and high fives)

So they want a butler/handyman they can fukk :mjlol:
 

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I would have told them they need to take it up with the specific men they are having these issues with and stop generalizing because of their failures.

Yep.

Ask the aint shyt men they been with and why they sitting talking around the table babbling about nothing until they go home to an empty house. :manny:
 

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“Why won’t yall lead” is all along the same bullshyt as:
“If you can’t handle me at my worst you don’t deserve me at my best”
“I need a man to put me in my place”
“A real man would (fill in the blank)”
“I need some one that can handle me”

All those phrases are in the same sphere of bullshyt a woman says that lacks maturity, self awareness, self reflection, tact, basic communication skills, patience and understanding.

Too keep it all the way 100 women don’t do anything that incentivizes a man to want to take care of them besides throw some p*ssy around. That’s why so many women are stuck going in circles because growing up they’ve been taught that just being a WOMAN is enough. Brehs ain’t falling for the okey doke anymore.

And it ain’t just black women. White women saying the same bullshyt. Masculine ass energy. Cussing all the time, sitting with their legs open like a man, combative, won’t let you finish a sentence, argumentative. Truth is women don’t know how to be women anymore. Open prostitution (onlyfans), over sexualizing themselves, championing single mothers, demonizing anything male. They’ve been bred to compete WITH and against men.

Ironically, they’re able to do these things because of men. The over sexualization in society has weakened men because naturally we as men want access. So we fold and ALLOW certain behaviors from women to hopefully gain access sexually.
 

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Ironically, only women that are actively trying to lead ask this. They don’t really understand people dynamics. If a person notices you’re trying to take charge, they either:

Fall in line
Play along but keep distance
Buck back and take over, usually aggressively.

The first 2 have a higher success rate. The 3rd gets a percentage of them too, but he scares the majority away because his self respect puts her insecurity on display. But the fist 2 are miserable and eventually she will be too.

The women that were truly to be led in my life, were following me before I was a leader. They are just naturally like that.
 

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lacking matriarch material

every man is a mothers son

women choose the men that cast their reflection into the world & generation after generation they choose wrong

if women cannot find a man to lead it's because women haven't been birthing them

women need to take responsibility & know the power is in their choices

give better men the lead

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I believe scientifically yes they "want/ need to be lead" ... the problem is alot of them aren't really willing to "follow" .. they say it because it sounds good and trendy but I think in some way its a form of control on their part. A man "leading" is of course doing everything she wants him to do, which becomes unrealistic then they complain the man isn't "leading"..
 

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lacking matriarch material

every man is a mothers son

women choose the men that cast their reflection into the world & generation after generation they choose wrong

if women cannot find a man to lead it's because women haven't been birthing them

women need to take responsibility & know the power is in their choices

give better men the lead

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The issue is this is a Gynocray ran by Renegades. These aren't mothers, they continued the activity of "breeding". Those who are actual mothers and wives are busy being that, the loud vocal people are breeders cosplaying this is why they all sound like robots regurgitating the same buzz words, this is why they purposefully seek men loose with their seed to continue the breeding process. Majority of Men do not have kids, and More women have children then men, but majority of the men are being blamed for a problem they did not create. Men created 30+ forms of birth control, abortion, modern healthcare system and women continue this behavior lol. The issue is not men, the issue is renegades, and with the system running on fumes the state will eventually stop sanctioning this behavior (the social programs and family law systems).
 
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